Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

It still won't be over & done with as I haven't got my IS through yet!
So will be yet another journey in with that.
I just feel so down, I don't know if I can handle going to that scummy place

scottishfreebiehunter

Maybe best not to then as it aint the best place to go when you are feeling down,maybe wait until is comes throughxx

kizzykizzywizzy

I just had to get thier birth certificates out of thier baby boxes to take when/if I go an now in tears, all the photos of us with our babies & our son that died - how could he do this?

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

I just had to get thier birth certificates out of thier baby boxes to take when/if I go an now in tears, all the photos of us with our babies & our son that died - how could he do this?

kizzy :(:( I know mate it is going to be really really hardxxxxxxxxxx
It will get better I hope,texted my t w a t as ds face really swollen he is very sick and wants his daddy,he is meant to be coming up today anyway though will wake him up if possibe :rolleyes:and ask him to get up here sooner as I am shattered.

kizzykizzywizzy

I just can't believe it!

Sorry your DS is so poorly too SFH
Got to go to school now

scottishfreebiehunter

Oh look no answer and I need the car to get him to docs etc as weather really bad here,wish he would just dissapear as this is c r a p ,need to try and save up some money for a small car do not care what state it is in as long as it goes.

gerturdeanna

Try going to a car auction SFH - We got ours from there - a ford mondeo £310 - S reg but runs fine, had it for nearly 2 years now, needed balancing sorting out but that was it.
Kizzy - hugs,

julie2710

Morning everyone -day started well Son woke at 6.30am and came in with a pile of books to read in bed! We were just getting through the Christmas Carols (don't ask!;) ) when his dad turned up!!! Knew he was coming today to take him swimming but at 7:15am???:eek:
He had son in tears getting him dressed then bit my head off as he had managed to get a stone chip in the window of the van he had hired to get his furniture and he's going to have to pay for it!:mad: He's moaning about not having enough money already and he hasn't even said if he's going to give me any for the kid/s! I was almost in tears and feel like crap now!
Why do I feel bad when he did this? I don't want him destitute but he got us into this mess and now I'm feeling guilty. He probably doesn't like the fact that I've been coping - he said he was up at 4am as he needs to get used to the noise where he is. Where I am is really quiet and only a couple of minutes from the sea.
I was looking forward to a nice week and now he's made me feel sad
Kizzy and SFH sorry to hear your Mondays aren't going great either. At least we can come on hear and get it out of our systems.

scottishfreebiehunter

Good idea gerti will look when come from oz if ever get there:rolleyes:at this rate.
Ds has appointment at docs at 10.10 and he said cannot walk feels weak etc etc OMG sick of it (not him)
T w a t husband called coming up sooner but will not get here by then due to work traffic etc etc
gave ds pomegranate juice etc as meant to be good for you but said was yeuk said do not care get it down you lol

Jules lots of love to you also as a hard time for you and will be very tiringxx

gerturdeanna

I would defo tell him certain times he can and cannot come to YOUR house Julie, turning up at 7:15am is not on.
Do not let him bring you down, he is in the wrong and so he should suffer whether it be financially or emotionally.

Do you remeber me telling you all I had won a free tarot reading? I got the reading this morning and its very interesting. I post some of it, hang on:
*Relationship - You asked: "Will my current relationship be able to overcome the problems we are experiencing right now and become a lasting happy one?"

1st Interpretation: I see that you're doing well materially speaking and that you are the prudent one in the relationship..I see that in some sense he is "running away" from you or maybe distancing himself from you; could be location-wise or emotionally speaking. There was some sort of sudden rupture or discord that happened between you two and it seems he may be the originator (source) of the 'issue'. I see that he may have recently graduated college or some sort of schooling and is ready for the next step..not sure what this has to do with things but I'll go on.. I see there will be disappointment due to falseness of heart on his part. There is also an emotional inconstancy within him, a certain weakness of morals and he may be given to doing things that would be considered 'bad' by most people. He doesn't seem like a great person, Gerti. I feel that though there's a slight chance it could work in the long term, it seems it would take a dramatic turn of events to really bring things to a good place in this relationship.

2nd Interpretation: You are self-reliant in a material sense and I feel that this is a very good thing and one that serves you in this situation...(independence). There was a recent change in your relationship or a 'break' for the worse..and I see that this might have been coming from him for the most part. I see that there was something you guys were both working on that recently completed..this has something to do with what's going on between you two. He basically stopped loving you. He had a change of heart or pulled a switcheroo.. The cards highlight that this has more to do with the fact that he is to put it bluntly 'a bad man'. He can and will engage in dishonorable behavior to get what he wants and this is why he has stopped loving you..some 'personal interest' he once had in you (or the relationship) has fallen away and so has his 'feelings' for you. I see that you will NEED a period of rest and recuperation to regain your strength after him (this) so that you can continue on with your life! Whether or not this guy loves/loved you, it is better to be done with him because a continued alliance with him would be an unhealthy one..


I think that sums up the curent situation quite well, wouldn't you say!!! Haha, so maybe my decision to try and make it work, ain't the right one!!
Gerti