Marriage over don't know where to start

dinkytwostep

Oops... sorry duplicate post..

GeorgeUK

Blimey - been away for a few days. I knew women talked a fair bit but didn't realise how much they could type

Not going to give opinions or make comments - just wanted to say i think you are all doing great and keep strong. Stay focussed on what's important to you right now and hopefully things will get easier soon.

Sooo tempted to mention it, but not saying anythng about all those hangovers

kizzykizzywizzy

Morning all

crap nights sleep again, woke up in a hot sweat, DD got in bed with me during the night & then later DS got in too. DD used to get in bed with me a lot, but DS never did.
George - only the one hangover for me, I don't drink a lot really, I did Friday when I went out, I drunk loads of water , as I can't handle my drink at all. It's best that I don't have a drink when I'm upset anyway as I get worse.

Dinky - I'm not posting anymore on the thread makes me too angry, she's disabled needs a carer, but able to carry on an affair??
I was depressed & lonely when DFS was away, I had no life at all & I was a carer for my 2 children I also worked & looked after dad & nan, so I had a lot on my plate - I didn't go & have an affair, we all have our cross to bear ( just different ones! ) we can all make excuses for disgusting behaviour or why things happen, not good enough. Not having a go at you Dinky as I think you have more compassion than I'll ever have, it's just she may be unhappy, but now she's made even more people unhappy too & that's just not fair - she needs to sort herself out, not mess with other peoples lives.
Council Tax office today:rolleyes: I'm not a happy bunny this morning - perhaps I'll go & have an affair!

gerturdeanna

Good morning, good morning!! How is everyone this fine day?

What plans has everyone got for today?

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi Gerti you sound full of beans today - I'm just getting more & more down

scottishfreebiehunter

Me to had the worst nights sleep ever woke up sweating also,dogs then woke me up at 3am by going nuts had to go down to them and ds really sore throat etc etc not sure if will be fit for school,he is just getting up the now so we shall see.
Council tax good luck with it kizzy as hate that placexxx
Gerti xxxxx glad you are sounding upbeat

on a right downer today also and tbh he is coming up and just want to hide as I know when I see him will make me upset

scottishfreebiehunter

No school for ds today neck all swollen must be glands etc ,feeling rough myself
Oh dear what a life eh

kizzykizzywizzy

Sorry to hear you're poorly SFH

Will ring Sis later & go over if I can, depends how she is, might put off C/Tax until tomorrow?
I don't know I'm just so fed up.

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Sorry to hear you're poorly SFH

Will ring Sis later & go over if I can, depends how she is, might put off C/Tax until tomorrow?
I don't know I'm just so fed up.

try and get it over and done with as it has taken me weeks to try and sort it out ,just waiting on decision now,once it is done it will be one less thing off youre mind.
Listen to me :rotfl:;)

gerturdeanna

Go to the c/tax office Kizzy - get it out of the way and then that is one more thing that can be crossed of your list.
Hope you and DS feel better soon SFH
Julie - hope the bike building goes ok!!
I am feeling quite upbeat- house is tidy, clothes are ironed, just going for a shower then kids are at school - calling IS first thing to get my money sorted out then I can apply for all the other things you can get.
Made a conscious decision to not allow anymore intimate activities, including kissing, until he or me makes our minds up.
Have been looking at houses though and they aren't bad for the area he wants - need to check up on the area first and then I'll send him the email with my thoughts.
Things are on the up, and hopefully the worst is all behind us!
See, sundays I'm always crap and the monday I'm fine again!!
No kids for nearly 3 hours - hurrah!!