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  • Just tucked him back in again getting harder now people ,want to shout big time at him:mad: t wa t not ds
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  • I think the other thread must be a wind up, surely no one is that thick skinned to keep posting.
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  • julie2710
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    So much for my early night !! I'm off to bed now. Hope you all get good night's! Stay strong and don't phone them!!!!!!
    Back tomorrow!
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  • Night Julie xxxxxx

    Me to off to watch wife swap :rolleyes: How ironic


    Kizzy speak soon take care nightxxxxxxx
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  • Night Jules, hope the heartburn dies down

    Just posted on the other thread again - keep me away!!!
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  • suppose I'd better go too
    Night girls xxxx
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  • night all must go to bed

    take care xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • julie2710
    julie2710 Posts: 1,381 Forumite
    Night Jules, hope the heartburn dies down

    Just posted on the other thread again - keep me away!!!

    I know I saw it - I had to have one last look before bed!! I'm definitely going now!!
    Nite!
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  • Hi all

    Just a note of caution about the other thread. I remember the poster posting about a year ago and outlining a bit about her life. She is disabled. Her husband is (if I remember it correctly) about 15 years her senior. They have not had a relationship for a couple of years now. She is desperately lonely. She cannot do anything outside of the house without him and he doesn't let her get to know anyone. i read her posts and feel very, very sorry for her. She needs to leave him but unlike you and I she is trapped - by her body - because she is wheelchair bound she needs to have a carer in order to live and having somewhere to go to. I agree that the cyber affair is wrong - and she does too otherwise she wouldn't post the question.. but what options does she have when she has no money to go anywhere. If you're replying to her thread please would you give her some helpful advice as to how to leave her marriage - don't criticise her as her husband does that very successfully.

    Sorry - don't flame me - My OH left me for someone else as well and I do NOT approve or condone anyone breaking up someone else's marriage - I think she needs to talk to someone but who can she go to in person when she has to rely on her OH to take her to see them??

    gets coat and siddles out of the room.........quickly!!
  • Hi all

    Just a note of caution about the other thread. I remember the poster posting about a year ago and outlining a bit about her life. She is disabled. Her husband is (if I remember it correctly) about 15 years her senior. They have not had a relationship for a couple of years now. She is desperately lonely. She cannot do anything outside of the house without him and he doesn't let her get to know anyone. i read her posts and feel very, very sorry for her. She needs to leave him but unlike you and I she is trapped - by her body - because she is wheelchair bound she needs to have a carer in order to live . I agree that the cyber affair is wrong - and she does too otherwise she wouldn't post the question.. but what options does she have when she has no money to go anywhere. If you're replying to her thread please would you give her some helpful advice as to how to leave her marriage - don't criticise her as her husband does that very successfully.

    Sorry - don't flame me - My exOH left me for someone else and I do NOT approve or condone anyone breaking up someone else's marriage - I think she needs to talk to someone but who can she go to in person when she has to rely on her OH to take her to see them??

    gets coat and siddles out of the room.........quickly!!
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