Marriage over don't know where to start

julie2710

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Exactly. Give it time she will soon be bored of looking after your children, who wants to look after someone elses children on a very regular basis when it takes away their freedom (only nice genuine people which she is obviously NOT so will hate it). At the moment its the honeymoon period so will say anything he wants to hear and we ALL KNOW that does not last! Just got to be patient Kizzy and by the time theirs is wearing off you will be in full bloom with your new relationship and they will be in full blown reality... Oooh I can't wait!

Oh and don't forget when she tries to tell them off and they turn round and tell her to bog off "cos you're not my mum!!!":rotfl:

scottishfreebiehunter

julie2710 wrote: »

Thanks!! Suns been shining for 2 days so always makes things seem better! I now have 3 rooms sparkling and have moved most of my clothes and spread them out across the extra space!!!:D Hope you're feeling ok. You seem to be doing better with not phoning - he will be panicking!
I'm off to Toys R Us tomorrow to try and get B'day present for my little boy as won't be able to get out and drive after c-section before his b'day!! He said he would like a new bike but he wants an orange one as "orange is his favourite colour!!!" Help!!!

:rotfl::rotfl:well orange yes could be a girlie colour though many a good mountainbiker has gleaming green,orange bikes etc
My ds said to me tonight mummy those candles smell lovely:eek: and was watching that cooking programme where they all go to each others houses and get points at end lol
I am okayish just angry and hurt deep inside as we all are,but if I do not phone not giving the c o w satisfactionxx

Kizzy you okay?

julie2710

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

I have had to phone the !!!!! gran 3 times today and spoke to kizzy also as I have been nearly there a few times

That doesn't count - being nearly there isn't there - stay strong and think how much you're !!!!ing him off!!!

kizzykizzywizzy

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Exactly. Give it time she will soon be bored of looking after your children, who wants to look after someone elses children on a very regular basis when it takes away their freedom (only nice genuine people which she is obviously NOT so will hate it). At the moment its the honeymoon period so will say anything he wants to hear and we ALL KNOW that does not last! Just got to be patient Kizzy and by the time theirs is wearing off you will be in full bloom with your new relationship and they will be in full blown reality... Oooh I can't wait!

I don't want her near them!

I know what you are saying KM, but I would've rather we could've stayed together, as much as I will probably find someone else & be happy - maybe happier - I was happy before, even though now I couldn't go back to how we were, me compromising to keep him happy ( or not as the case may be )

scottishfreebiehunter

julie2710 wrote: »

That doesn't count - being nearly there isn't there - stay strong and think how much you're !!!!ing him off!!!

I know this is going to sound daft but do not want them thinking they have won(god I sound childish)
I was thinking tonight Kizzy about our relationship being as bad as they both say but the t o s s e rs a re wrong and the s l u t s will be getting nowhere near our kidsxx

kizzykizzywizzy

No SFH - I'm not

I sound really sad, but I just want someone to love me

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

No SFH - I'm not

I sound really sad, but I just want someone to love me

No you are not sad xxxxxxx
I feel same to and want a cuddle and it aint going to happen for now and am so angry what he has done to our family.
are kids asleep now?

kizzykizzywizzy

Jules - I think you are great you're so strong!
I hope you manage to get an orange bike, have you looked online? rather than have to go & get it, also Halfords will build them for you for nothing.
SFH - I don't know what's happened, but I think you are doing great not phoning him

scottishfreebiehunter

The thing is if we met someone else or they went on to meet others not ones they are with now then it wouldnt be as bad ,but no way are they dicitating anything with these s lu t s no way

kizzykizzywizzy

No DS is but DD still awake & fidgeting about