Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

that will change when moose is about Kizz, she won't want them around.

I think I would have !!!!!!ed off some where else by now! like left with the kids to avoid all this!

more hugsxxxxxxxx

Sorry Buffy bit dim, what will change??

Can't F off as if I sold the house would have to give him half equity, can't get a mortgage with no income, would have to use equity to rent & live on until ran out as wouldn't be entitled to IS.
As you can see, have really thought about moving I DO NOT WANT TO LIVE HERE, but no choice

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Like I say he is ringing every other day now at 5pm, I have written it down, so he can't say he doesn't remember/understand etc.
He's seeing them Friday ( because we can attempt for him to pick them up from school, without making a mess of it ) & Saturday as I'm going out, don't want to go though ( again! ) I'll probably be ok by the time I do, but won't be getting drunk this time.
I'm not sure whether this is enough visitation or not, I said did you want to see them another day too, he said up to you, so I just said leave it at that then. He didn't complain or argue, I don't want to deprive him or the kids, but they are still not asleep now & they've been in bed for 2 hours, & just keep getting up, it felt hard when I was alone & he was on his ship, but this is harder, because they see him then get unsettled.

I would love to say he could come round every day and see them ,though in next breathe he walked out and I know this happened to ds also when he comes up he does not sleep for ages.

Just stick with it for now and see how it goes and do what suits you xxxxxxxxx

Keeping_Motivated

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

Thats what I nearly did and if it was not for ds passport being out of date would not have been here now,though there is a part of me glad I got a lot of financial stuff sorted etc.

I cannot text,I am sat here looking at phone like a proper numpty but will not do it.
When he comes up tomorrow I will not be mentioning the pig or his affair ,will be biting my tongue ,though if I do not mention it he will think I am getting over it ,mmmmm hopefully I will not be having any flying saucers again:rotfl:

Night dellyxx

SFH I think it will be when he 'thinks' you are getting over it that you get more reaction from him

KM x

kizzykizzywizzy

The thing that keeps going around in my mind is when I asked him, so what does she think about our children then & he said - she said they look lovely & she would like to meet them! this makes me feel sick - what sort of woman would say such a thing when she's taken thier daddy away & his ( tone of ) voice when he said it was " ahh how lovely she is to say it "

Keeping_Motivated

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Like I say he is ringing every other day now at 5pm, I have written it down, so he can't say he doesn't remember/understand etc.

I'm not sure whether this is enough visitation or not, I said did you want to see them another day too, he said up to you, so I just said leave it at that then. He didn't complain or argue,

OMG 'up to you'???? Is he a man or a mouse? I think you are completely right in why you are wanting to sort out a routine but where is his personality and need to see the children! He sounds pathetic, can't even make a decision where his kids are concerned? Him and the Moose got together in a very 'false' reality so sit back and watch the reality when they meet again in the 'real world', I hope she is not expecting a 'real' man!

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

The thing that keeps going around in my mind is when I asked him, so what does she think about our children then & he said - she said they look lovely & she would like to meet them! this makes me feel sick - what sort of woman would say such a thing when she's taken thier daddy away & his ( tone of ) voice when he said it was " ahh how lovely she is to say it "

:mad::mad: makes me want to puek :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
There is no no no no way

julie2710

Skint_Lynne wrote: »

I gave the poor poor girl who has been having an affair with someone elses husband some advice because she needs it badly. I told her to:

KEEP HER KNICKERS ON. SKANKY BIATCH.




I wonder where she gets off when it's her sort that cause misery, her and her stupid boyfriend.

SL x

Brilliant!!!:T :T :T Couldn't have put it better myself!!:D

I haven't been able to see smilies for about 3 days now - emailed the help desk but no help!!!:rotfl: :rotfl:

kizzykizzywizzy

squeak:rolleyes:

Buffythedebtslayer

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

The thing that keeps going around in my mind is when I asked him, so what does she think about our children then & he said - she said they look lovely & she would like to meet them! this makes me feel sick - what sort of woman would say such a thing when she's taken thier daddy away & his ( tone of ) voice when he said it was " ahh how lovely she is to say it "

Sorry, Kizzy I figured she'd be anti the kids and have some grace in terms of keeping out it all or at least not wanting them to cramp their style. Mind you the evil cow clearly has no grace or decency.

bloody hell has does she live with her self. I Cannot imagine doing that, if a man is married he is off limits. end of .

julie2710

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

The thing that keeps going around in my mind is when I asked him, so what does she think about our children then & he said - she said they look lovely & she would like to meet them! this makes me feel sick - what sort of woman would say such a thing when she's taken thier daddy away & his ( tone of ) voice when he said it was " ahh how lovely she is to say it "

She'e bound to say that - imagine she'd said "they look like a couple of complete brats and I want nothing to do with them ever!!" Desperate cow would obviously say whatever she thinks he wants to hear to get a shag!!:mad: :mad:
Dosey idiot - men belive any old crap - sad thing is they think we are as stupid as them!!