Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

I won't call, but I did say, great off you go - when he went this evening as he didn't give them anything to eat at SIL's - so still had to get them dinner.
He's like the fun Daddy & I'm the old nag, who gets them to tidy thier rooms & get ready in the mornings.

Buffythedebtslayer

that will change when moose is about Kizz, she won't want them around.

I think I would have !!!!!!ed off some where else by now! like left with the kids to avoid all this!

more hugsxxxxxxxx

gerturdeanna

ironings now done!! Takes forever and I hate it!! Normally iron what we need when we need it, but now kids are at school, nights in on my own and nothing else to do - apart from talk to all my good friends on here!!
Just watch Easties from Fri night - eeeeewwww!!! So not liking the Tony/Whitney/Bianca storyline - bit contraverstial!!(sp?!?!)
Anyways am off to bed, busy week next week. Ringing IS again to find out where my money is - I need it!! Only got£10 to last till friday and DS and DD need money for school - aarrgghh!!
Got so many things to do when IS papers come through - am going to go to docs and get prescription (for free) to help me stop smoking -am going to get cativy wall insulation, school meals and anything else I'm entitled to!!
Night all - DO NOT RING THEM!!
Speak tomorrow!!

beanielou

Dellybelly~glad you made it over here hun.
Take lots of care,
huggles xx

dellybelly_2

G/night everyone, am going to make use of the first quiet night all week and pamper me.

kizzykizzywizzy

Like I say he is ringing every other day now at 5pm, I have written it down, so he can't say he doesn't remember/understand etc.
He's seeing them Friday ( because we can attempt for him to pick them up from school, without making a mess of it ) & Saturday as I'm going out, don't want to go though ( again! ) I'll probably be ok by the time I do, but won't be getting drunk this time.
I'm not sure whether this is enough visitation or not, I said did you want to see them another day too, he said up to you, so I just said leave it at that then. He didn't complain or argue, I don't want to deprive him or the kids, but they are still not asleep now & they've been in bed for 2 hours, & just keep getting up, it felt hard when I was alone & he was on his ship, but this is harder, because they see him then get unsettled.

Skint_Lynne

jay11 wrote: »

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1155679 Makes pretty reading...not!

I gave the poor poor girl who has been having an affair with someone elses husband some advice because she needs it badly. I told her to:

KEEP HER KNICKERS ON. SKANKY BIATCH.

I wonder where she gets off when it's her sort that cause misery, her and her stupid boyfriend.

SL x

scottishfreebiehunter

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

that will change when moose is about Kizz, she won't want them around.

I think I would have !!!!!!ed off some where else by now! like left with the kids to avoid all this!

more hugsxxxxxxxx

Thats what I nearly did and if it was not for ds passport being out of date would not have been here now,though there is a part of me glad I got a lot of financial stuff sorted etc.

I cannot text,I am sat here looking at phone like a proper numpty but will not do it.
When he comes up tomorrow I will not be mentioning the pig or his affair ,will be biting my tongue ,though if I do not mention it he will think I am getting over it ,mmmmm hopefully I will not be having any flying saucers again:rotfl:

Night dellyxx

scottishfreebiehunter

Skint_Lynne wrote: »

I gave the poor poor girl who has been having an affair with someone elses husband some advice because she needs it badly. I told her to:

KEEP HER KNICKERS ON. SKANKY BIATCH.

I wonder where she gets off when it's her sort that cause misery, her and her stupid boyfriend.

SL x

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T

EXCELLENT

where are the smilies gone now

julie2710

robster1964 wrote: »

I know you do hun!! I want your life back for you aswell, and for all the girls. Even my OH wants your life back for you. Cos he can't believe what your men are doing to themselves, their kids, their wives and their families!!!!

I have to keep him updated how you are all coping, after he told me off for being on the laptop all night..... He understands why now, after I gave him some inclin into what you guys have had to put up with.

Robster xxx

I don't want my life back becaude it was a sham of thinking my husband was in love with me and looking forward to the birth of our new baby and all the time he was shagging some tart behind my back!!:eek: :eek: What sort of a life was that - I'm sure it was great for him!
Anyway 2nd night on our own tonight. He did come round today to see his son and was ok with us. I did see him sat on the bench in the garden looking a bit sad. Hopefully he's realising what a !!!!!! head he's been!
Little boy has been great - had an early night tonight - watched Shrek - for about the 6th time in 2 days - he's addicted to it. Then he went off to bed at 7:15pm! Not a sound since!:o :A
I had a lovely soak, watched casualty and am now having a cup of tea before an early night too!!
Kizzy sorry you're feeling low! Hope you regain your strength again soon!