Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

It is nightmare now he wants his dad:mad::mad:aaaaarghhhhghhhhhh
Think it may require a trip by looks of it though have more ice on it

robster1964

Well if he does, I think it is probably one of those occasions, that you really need to contact his dad. The little man hasn't done anything wrong, so can't see why dad wouldn't be as concerned as you are. However, please disregard everything I have said, if you think, he is the type of person, that will turn this against you and somehow make it seem like it's your fault. I wish you lived round the corner babe I would come and help you out....So would loads of others!

Robster xxx

scottishfreebiehunter

Texted him so will see if he replies as i aint talking to him until tomorrow when and if he appears to see son

scottishfreebiehunter

Kizzy hope you got on okay when he came back with kidsxx

gerturdeanna

I hate this- kids are doing my head in - my daddy doesn't make me eat vegetables, my daddy does this, my daddy does that- well you dad ain't effing here I want to shout back at them!! But I know its not their fault.
Can't understand what I've said to make you laugh Robster - but whatever!! haha!!
Have a pile of ironing to do tonight - hate ironing! - will catch up with Casualty later - thank god for virgin on demand!!

robster1964

Gert it's just some of your off the cuff comments. Can't remember specifics, just know that reading your posts there's always some little comment in there that makes me giggle. ie about where to go next week ( her wedding reception) lol, or the other day when kizzy said you should go naked to see Gok, and you said, no cos if you bent over, it would be like an eclipse!!!

Anyway love it makes me giggle, I know you are living in hell, but I love your sense of humour. It's the same with SFH, I know she keeps threatening to throw herself out of windows and stuff like that, but there's something in her posts that make me realise, that one way or another she will get through this.

Anyway Guys, I am on this other thread called' how can I end this affair,' and I am just pretty gobsmacked. I usually have loads of sympathy with people that are going through emotional stuff. But God, I just don't know whats happened to me, I realise despise the Op!!!!!!

Robster xxx

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi everyone, DFS came & picked kids up 2pm - can you believe it I was absolutely shaking! I couldn't believe it, he was absolutely fine to me, I did mention it again & said that it must never ever happen again & do you really believe I'd tell the kids daddy was picking them up & then - tell you the wrong place? He said no, I know you wouldn't & I'm really sorry, I showed him how much my hands were shaking & said look how you've made me feel, he said sorry again.
Anyway, when he went I cried not because i missed him, just because I couldn't believe how unsettled & shaky it had made me.
Kids had a great time with him, he's a lovely dad, it's just such a shame:o
I went to my Dad's with Bro, had a look through photos, he's surrounded by them, it's like a shrine to my Mum, it was quite upsetting to be around there, as he's really upset for me too.
He gave me a bracelet that was my Mum's, so another cry!
came home rang DFS to bring them back, DS was crying, so DFS stayed to hear him read & I wrote down times to ring & days to visit where to pick kids up at school etc, so no mistakes can be made by him & blamed on me.
Feel very low yet again tonight, sis poorly again, she went to a friends that's all & now she's bad again!
I know it's really really stupid, but I really feel like I've missed out on the children today too - how can he cope with missing out on them all the time, i don't know.
Gert, we are getting the same things, you SFH & me if I tell them off I get I don't want you I want Daddy & I have to bite my lip:mad:
SFH - hope DS is ok

kizzykizzywizzy

robster1964 wrote: »

Anyway Guys, I am on this other thread called' how can I end this affair,' and I am just pretty gobsmacked. I usually have loads of sympathy with people that are going through emotional stuff. But God, I just don't know whats happened to me, I realise despise the Op!!!!!!

Robster xxx

If it's the moose tell her to f off & find someone available - the desperate slapper, hope she gets lice :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

chilli_dog

Hey Kizzy,

I read all the posts on here but only reply when i think its ok to, im not to good with emotional stuff.

hope your ok

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks for just being there chilli dog - that's enough;)