Marriage over don't know where to start

gerturdeanna

Good on ya Kizzy for clearing his stuff out!! SFH - Well done for not contacting him - you're turning the corner!!
Delly - Hi - thanks for popping over!!
And all I can ay to myself is you stupid girl!! Why do I do this?!?! Have sex,make love, fu**, whatever you wanna call it, an intimate moment (or 2!!) and then think everythings going to be rosy!
We did discuss somethings before it got steamy!! He can't undersand why I stll want him after everything he's put me through - and neither can I really. All week I do fine wihout him, and then as soon as he comes round, I fall at his feet!! He ain't even all that!! I gave him a bite last night, sort of intentionally and said you're mine now, aren't ya and he didn't answer, so tht got me upset then!!
He also said what would I do if in two weeks time when the time scale is up, he said he wasn't sure still, so I think thats what he's going to do - keep stringing me along. Well, no I'm not going to stand for that. Last night, I was sooo in love with him again but then as soon as I woke up and remember I was like oh no, what have I do...again!!
But hey, at least I don't have to rush out and buy a 'toy yet!! I didn't even think I had a sex drive before - hence some of the probs we've be going through - maybe now it's threatened to be took away, its reignited something. I don't know!

scottishfreebiehunter

:hello:morning allxx

I am didnt call or text ,though did toss and turn all night and have that sick feeling in my tummy.

Delly they will get theres one day for sure
xxxxx

back after make ds breakie

kizzykizzywizzy

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Hi dellybelly hope you are ok.

Kizzy does he know that you are packing up all his stuff?

Yes, he knows;)

bunty109

Gert, sounds like your OH assumes you'll want him back after the time limit is up....maybe he needs putting straight on that one!!!

Kizzy, for him to admit what he did at the school to his sister obviously shows he's embarrassed by it: I think you're right about the depression aspect of things.....but he needs to realise and sort himself out now. I would mention it to SIL too: say you are sure he's showing the signs and that his outbursts are so hateful that you need to remove yourself from the situation......someone needs to give him a good talking to and he obviously feels you're nagging him. He needs to get a grip on himself for the sake of the kids: he can't go behaving like that in front of them.

Buffythedebtslayer

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

:hello:morning allxx

I am didnt call or text ,though did toss and turn all night and have that sick feeling in my tummy.

Delly they will get theres one day for sure
xxxxx

back after make ds breakie

Fantastic! xxxxxxxxxxx

gerturdeanna

Exactly bunty!! Who's to say in two weeks, I won't turn around and say thanks but no thanks!! Am quite positive he hasn't thought of that!! hehe

Buffythedebtslayer

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Hi KM, yes I'm sure SIL got the watered down version.

The stuff he's taking today, includes a bag with his wedding ring, his grandad's watch & gold cufflinks. All his dvds, haven't been through the CD's yet, will do that soon

Get in there girl! he he I love all this, SFH not texting, you getting shot of all his junk and him not being wanted by his family!

I spent all last night watching Sex and the City so am feeling all empowered and fab!

(nothing to do with buying new shoes and a bag on e bay last night)

You guys are inspiration!

lotties_mum

Good luck with the weightloss Gert.

gerturdeanna

Don't think the wine will help with the weight loss too much!! Oh well!!

bunty109

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Don't think the wine will help with the weight loss too much!! Oh well!!

....then that's a perfect reason to have hot sex then......work off the calories of the wine! :rotfl: :rotfl: