Marriage over don't know where to start

Shineyhappy

Sorry I forgot food

verysillyguy06

Sorry....but thats actually mostly it....for most of us.....

kizzykizzywizzy

Good Morning
Hey Gert, he's your husband, you don't need to apologise, whatever you feel is right, OK;) it's got to be better than him falling asleep on the sofa.
SFH - I am MEGA impressed with you!! :T :T as I know how hard you've found it not to ring him. He must be wondering what the hell is going on:p I bet he couldn't sleep as he's so used to being rung, he was probably waiting for it:rotfl:

I was really tired last night, I'm just too old to party, I actually felt worse in the evening than I did in the morning.

DFS having kids from 2pm today, as my Brother is picking me up to go to my Dad's, which means DFS can use the car, it's quite a walk to SIL's where he is taking them ( too far for DS really ) I've got bin bags of his stuff in the dining room & he said, I'll take that stuff with me, if I've got the car, so another load of junk will be gone:j I bet SIL will be happy, he's got loads around there now.
Still have no idea where he's going to be living, still waiting for IS letter, still can't take all my paperwork in for Council Tax, will take bank statements & birth certificates in Monday, as I've had a letter saying I haven't brought all my docs in, but I haven't got Child Tax Credit letter or IS letter yet, so can't, the trouble is there is a time limit, so I don't know what happens after that?
Also don't know where DFS is going to live?
Also can't sort divorce til mortgage starts up, I just want to get on with it all now

gerturdeanna

Morning guys - blah- hangover!!! Why oh why do I drink!! And yes OH slept on the sofa - it's too soon to share my bed apparently!! !!!!!!!!
Just drinking coke to try and get rid of carpet tounge!! Feel like crap!! Oh well!! Was fun though :-)

kizzykizzywizzy

Oh my god Gert - SOFA!!!

These mixed up idiots! so it's ok to have sex, but not sleep in the same bed - that figures:rolleyes:

Where as mine was OK to sleep in the bed, but not have sex!

Anyway, he'll be a long & distant memory soon.

He reckons he told SIL what he did up the school & she just shook her head at him! I said did you tell her you swore at me & he said no I didn't know I did!
So anyway, today, I shall get my brother to drop me at SIL's to pick kids & car up & will make sure she knows exactly what he did

Keeping_Motivated

Gert I agree with Kizzy about the not sleeping in bed but ok to do more intimate stuff than sleeping together? Mixed messages for you and surely it should be you making them decisions not him?

Kizzy good for you telling SIL today. You sound really calm and in control at the moment? If I'm reading right thats really good.

SFH Well done you for not contacting ex last night I hope the tide has turned and he is so shocked that he starts contacting you for a change.

Hi to everyone else too hope you're ok.

dellybelly_2

Just thought I'd pop on and say Hi. I "met" gert on the lose weight 22 thread. My ex moved out on weds/thurs/fri/yesterday ending a 7 year marriage, 12 year relationship for a woman he met 4 weeks ago.

Single parent sunday mornings are wonderful arent they?

DB

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi KM, yes I'm sure SIL got the watered down version.

The stuff he's taking today, includes a bag with his wedding ring, his grandad's watch & gold cufflinks. All his dvds, haven't been through the CD's yet, will do that soon

Keeping_Motivated

Hi dellybelly hope you are ok.

Kizzy does he know that you are packing up all his stuff?

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi DB
Glad you found us, sorry you've got to be here though:o

You may find he'll realise what he's done & if you'll have him, beg to come back, as he has moved out rather quickly!
If not, it'll take a while, but in time you will realise that you are better off without him.

DFS Is so nutty now, completely screwed up, I don't think I could be bothered to sort out his depression mood swings etc, you've got to really want to be with someone to do that.
Let him get on with it - he'll realise one day what a fool he's been, you may be suffering now, but you'll get over it, he'll have to live with it for a lot longer