Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

Have you checked your email elona??
Yes I know, but he really was lovely before all this happened, no-ones perfect & I know I'm a nag & I probably wind him up until he blows!
But we didn't argue just little bickers here & there, other than that & him being a bit moany when he came home sometimes ( but it is hard to adjust, it was for me too )
This has just changed him so much, I would never have believed he could've been so nasty

scottishfreebiehunter

snap I have had such a crap past few hours getting abused and being told he has discussed all my private personal hospital business with the s l u t.
My son really ill today with his asthma and bad cold,I am so so so annoyed and want to scream,kick whatever YES THE FINAL NAIL IN THE COFFIN so to speak for me also.

gerturdeanna

He has changed - he sn't the man you married anymore and I'm glad that you have made the turning point beit only in your head for now. Do you use Outlook express or similar cos there is a calender on there, or download one and password protect it so he can't get at it. I wouldn't put it on paper cos it can be destroyed so easily.

Shopping was a nightmare - I hate it!! Kids always asking for expensive stuff!! Oh well - got them a few treats - and some pressies for ds b'day in two weeks. He'll be five!! God - time flies doesn't it!!

elona

Kizzy

You look lovely and your chidren are gorgeous- they obviously take after their mum!

From what I could see of the moose DFS really needs his eyesight tested!

Were both of them so stupid they did not realise that standing right next to each other in the group photo was a bit of a giveaway?

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks Elona - compliments always accepted!!
Well I didn't think it was a giveaway, because she's so ugly!!:p
I sent the pic to my friend, before I knew, with the caption DFS & his ladies !! as a joke, because I thought they were all so ugly!

Better get some lunch on the go I'm starving - the stripped stomach I think:p
SFH - I hope it really is the turning point for you, I felt so much better last night, not wanting him anymore & with all the attention I got! It was really nice to be looked at as an attractive woman, rather than an old nagging wife, which is how he sees me.
I loved dancing too - it was fab I felt so alive:T :j

gerturdeanna

Keep up the dancing Kizzy, its great fun!! I always look like a !!!!!! when I'v been out drinking and dancing as you could tell from some of me pics!! haha And if I wear white pants, I always end up on the floor!!

scottishfreebiehunter

I am just exhausted with it all tbh and my nieghbour just told me to get him out of my life once and for all,but it aint that easy when children involved
I have had it now as how dare he abuse me as if I am a small piece of rubbish


Really glad you had good night outxxx

bandraoi

If you like dancing, why not take up a dance class - salsa or swing for instance.
They're easy to go to by yourself, and you meet lots of people.
There are loads of them around.

kizzykizzywizzy

That's what I'm planning to do!! :j
Thanks for the link kimlisa - the classes are all your area.
I have found classes in my area, but they are just that classes - the one kimlisa goes to is more social & that's what I'm looking for. A girl at work used to go to one years ago, don't know if they still do it there will have to check it out as that was in a pub

gerturdeanna

There used to be one round here - but now its a lapdancing bar!! Could go there instead I suppose!! Although I'd be belly dancing on their toes!!!