Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

I agree with Gert about SFH's DS going to councilling, he really needs somewhere to vent, without taking it out on you:o
Going out next saturday, same club actually, I did enjoy myself, don't really think I could do this every week though, It's a bit full on for me, I'm a bit more sedate in my old age - usually!!

mumoftwins

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Mumoftwins, has your friend tried ringing the phone number or sending a text or something? Does sound a bit dodgy or maybe it is innocent and he was toppig up for one of his mates? Maybe it is even a present for your friend and he was topping it up before he gave it to her? There could be loads of explantions...has she tried asking him?

Thanks GD, she has her own phone so its not for her or one of the children. But, I am going to ring the number on Monday and make out I'm from some sales company and ask for Mr ****** then if he confirms it is him I'll have to tell her.:eek:

gerturdeanna

Those are the best moments, when during the day you just start laughing or no reason cos you've just remebered something!! I bet those pics will be up on the club website soon -you'll have to get the web addy for us!!
And don't be embarrasd for flirting!! Its a great confience booster and you are now single, so you ain't doing nothing wrong girlfriend!!

I'm logging off now as I really need to do a supermarket shop and I want the house tidy before OH comes round so he can see how well I'm coping without him!! Or maybe I should be a quivering wreck so he takes pity on us and comes home!! I DON'T THINK SO!! HAHA - I am a strong woman and even though I still love him, atm I am doing fine, we are doing fine!! Today anyway!! hehe

lotties_mum

For such a nice person, I bet he really charmed the ladies at school picking up their little darlings. As for harmless flirting it's important to have a good time and let you hair down. Glad you had a nice time.

mumoftwins

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

I agree with Gert about SFH's DS going to councilling, he really needs somewhere to vent, without taking it out on you:o
Going out next saturday, same club actually, I did enjoy myself, don't really think I could do this every week though, It's a bit full on for me, I'm a bit more sedate in my old age - usually!!

I agree with Gert about counselling for SFH's son, I took my DD and DS to counselling when their father and I split - DD loved it but DS clammed up and it only over the last few months that I have been able to get through to him and get him to open up to me.

Kizzy, being single again makes you do funny things - its called relaxing and 'letting your hair down' - enjoy yourself!!!!

mumoftwins

lotties_mum wrote: »

For such a nice person, I bet he really charmed the ladies at school picking up their little darlings. As for harmless flirting it's important to have a good time and let you hair down. Glad you had a nice time.

Snap Lottie :rotfl: :rotfl:

Buffythedebtslayer

Kizzy you do have a solicitor right? cos I think he is going bonkers.

Sorry i haven't been here, work has been dreadful. I haven't got time to read everything must go do stuff and don't actually feel too well.

I hope everyone else is ok. I will read once I have tidied up etc.

xxxxx

gerturdeanna

Hope you feel better soon Buffy and with that I am really logging of now - sure I'll be back soon though!!

kizzykizzywizzy

Yes I'm going to see her end of this month, I didn't like the one I went to before. The one I'm seeing is dealing with my Sisters divorce & dealt with her boyfriends divorce! I can't really start anything until mortgage starts up 1st October, that's why I haven't just got on with it.
Such a shame i was so shocked & upset, i don't know who saw what happened outside the school, there were loads of people there, but it was a blur iyswim
I might ask the regular mums if anyone saw what happened, trouble with it being a new school, I don't know the parents of the older years
I said to him, how nice of you to do that to us outside the school, you made us look really scummy, he said no, I made myself look scummy - said something right for once

Poor buffy - I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time with work, big decisions to be made I think - you take care :A

kizzykizzywizzy

Saw in your sig gert you are trying to lose weight - well I've lost over 13 stone of ugly fat = DFS:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: