Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

:hello:I am here

Try not to over analyse <<<<<<<<<<<<< AGREE as it has messed up my head big time,thinking of them together etc etc etc
Lost the plot bigtime and had one massive argument with him on phone earlier to be told I havent known her that long to be serious.:rolleyes:wonder if she knows that.

Well had a few to drink sober again for now:rotfl:;)ordered new mobile and will be tomorrow with new number and then if I get any more calls will know where it is coming from as only giving to select few and then my head will not get wasted with some loser calling me whatever on phone,but if I ever find out it was the b i a t c h,her head will be on my plate
I havent phoned her or anything as much as I want to,but from this minute onwards I am going to try and re build my life as best as I can,yes it will be hard with him seeing ds,but not see him until next Monday so between now and then I will make sure the house etc etc doesnt look neglected and that he has worn me down,we all know he has but not letting the t w a t and the w h !!e get to me no more.


Gertixxxxxxxxxxxxx be very very carefulxxxxxxxx but do what is best for you
K xxxxxxxxxxx you know how I feel about what is going on and want you to be happy
everyone else lets all buy voodo dolls:rotfl:

face book Robster still cannot figure out how to get on it

Jules glad all okayxxxxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

:T:T:Toh and watching tennis to probably see Murray make a s s of himself shortly lol

moodydonkey

I love Andy Murray,we (the brits) can loudly applaud him when he does well and then dismiss him when he doesn't. Bloody good luck i say he's done fab.
You ok?

Sorry, see my later post, didn't mean to offend just meant how people can pick and choose thier allegiance as to how well people are doing. Sorry again.

bunty109

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

:T:T:Toh and watching tennis to probably see Murray make a s s of himself shortly lol

We're being positive SFH.......Murray is going to kick a whole can of whoopass at Federer!!!!

Edit: I am quite looking forward to the tennis, even if staying up to watch it means I feel bleurgh when I get up at 0630 tomorrow (and my house stinks of vinegar where I've been making chutney so lord knows what it will smell like in the morning!!)

moodydonkey

Good god have just read my last highly offensive post and hope that you know what i meant ie we love him when he is doing good but are quick to bash him when he's down. Really sorry xxx

bunty109

moodydonkey wrote: »

Good god have just read my last highly offensive post and hope that you know what i meant ie we love him when he is doing good but are quick to bash him when he's down. Really sorry xxx

Don't worry! I know what you meant!!

<wonders if it is right to be so excited by a tennis match?!>

scottishfreebiehunter

Not sure if it is good to get excited I have it on pc so can click between:Tcourtesy of mse :rotfl:

scottishfreebiehunter

Oh and he is Scottish:rotfl::rotfl::p;);););)

better not get into it lol,worked in Dunblane when met oh:rolleyes:

scottishfreebiehunter

quickest game ever,hope he doesnt get !!! kicked

gettingbetter

long post sorry
kizzy sorry for posting here i know you are all trying to save your marriages but i want out of mine
i cant cope anymore
yes i was wrong not to tell him i couldnt pay the bills
yes i was wrong not to tell him we were br
it costs £700 p/m to run my house and i dont get a penny from him
his money is his to spend as he sees fit
i say one thing to the kids (i have 4) he does oppisite
I CANT WIN
we have been married 12 years and for the last 3 i have been walking on eggshells we have been through a lot
he had liver transplant 5 years ago (not through drink he is t-total) i had pneumonia then we found out i had fibrosis in both lungs
i dont want sympathy i just dont know how to tell him its finished
he wont speak to me
for the last 6 months i have paid all the bills in the house so i know i can do it on my own
!!!!!! rambling sorry
kas xx