Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

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Hope you are okay kizzyxxxxxxxxxxx

Chip nice to here it from a mans point of view and makes me have some faith in the male species.

Skint_Lynne

Chip_Hazard wrote: »

Single? Me? Most definitely but through choice, I think.

I'm quite selfish nowadays which is something no woman really wants in their man, is it? I value the time with the boys so much. I had a relationship last year from April to December with a woman who appeared to be my soulmate. Same age, similar interests, got on well with the boys but ultimately turned out to be a lying cheat. We parted nearly nine months ago and the whole thing set me back a long time in trusting women again.

I guess the best sort of girl I'd go for is the sort who has been treated badly themselves. That way, she'd know how I felt if she treated me bad and vice versa. Understanding where that other person's coming from is the first big step in making things work.

Look at my signature down there...says it all really, first line especially. It's from my second favourite all time record...Stevie Winwood's "While You See A Chance, Take It". My last signature had a good line or two as well. "I am not afraid to keep on living, I am not afraid to walk this world alone". That one is for the women who are undecided as to whether they can manage alone. It's from "Famous Last Words" by My Chemical Romance.:T

Chip,

I think that the next woman you meet up with will be very lucky. You seem like quite a catch to me, you might get a queue of girls on here looking for a date!!:D (not me of course, I am happily married, but if I were single then who knows!!).

There's not many guys like you around, so I'm sure you will be snapped up through time.

Hope you are all well girls (and chip), I've not been posting as much but am still reading every day.

SL x

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi everyone,
I've just had such a nice day, we took the kids to TGI's & the walked around yet another nature reserve & fed the ducks, after many a coke refil in TGI's ex needed a pee & went behind a bush only for DD to run after him & fall over in the mud, we couldn't stop laughing especially as the bush he was peeing behind was seethrough & I was saying I can see everything!!
We came back bathed the kids & he made pizza with them, we looked at the forms he said they are ridiculous you need help with these I can't do them either, so I'm going to see if I can go to CAB on Thursday & he'll take the day off, he wants to do something in the afternoon.
Anyway we both had a bit of wine, wasn't much left so went up the offy & got another bottle, some weirdo was following me, so he went out to look for him, seemed really concerned.
he put the kids to bed & when he went he said thank you I've had a really nice day today, then because I've had a few, I said can I have a peck, he kissed me & the cuddled me so tight & without thinking I said I know you don't love me, but I love you so much !
He said i'll ring you tomorrow, i said I'm out in the afternoon ( BBQ but didn't tell him ) he said I'll ring about 7pm well that's when friends are arriving, so I said oh I've got friends around then, but you can speak to the kids, so that's what he's doing.
He wanted me to go to CAB Tuesday, but I said sorry going out Tuesday as going to another friends, whos kids go to school with mine.
So he said what about if you go to CAB wednesday, but it's my friends birthday & we are going for a pub lunch, has a garden with swings, so kids will be fine, so it'll have to be Thursday!
He also said about going away for a couple of days next week, so we can use our Merlin passes at Alton Towers, I want to go.
I know he doesn't want me & says we never got on - BUT WE DO!! it's so weird, anyway, at least I'm busy this week & at least I got my cuddle, I miss them the most

scottishfreebiehunter

Glad you had a good day and I so want it to work out for you ,you know I do ,but please be careful as do not want you getting hurt anymore (if that is possible)

Do what is best for you though please be carefulxxxxxxxxxxx

kizzykizzywizzy

SFH, it sounds like things are melowing between you & ex, I'm glad, but the trouble is when they are nice, you just want them back!

kizzykizzywizzy

SFH I can't see us getting back together really, but we can have a weird friendly relationship i think!
I hate to be too graphic on here, but I really fancied a sh$g today!!!:eek: & told him so, just in case he wanted to get one in for old times sake:rotfl: he said, you'll have to take a trip to Ann Summers shop, I haven't had a shower today!! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
I might just attack someone on the street tomorrow, whatever's wrong with me :rotfl:

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

SFH I can't see us getting back together really, but we can have a weird friendly relationship i think!
I hate to be too graphic on here, but I really fancied a sh$g today!!!:eek: & told him so, just in case he wanted to get one in for old times sake:rotfl: he said, you'll have to take a trip to Ann Summers shop, I haven't had a shower today!! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
I might just attack someone on the street tomorrow, whatever's wrong with me :rotfl:

:eek::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:nah felt like that often lately

I am just trying to keep it together for wee boy as he is hurting badly and oh lost the plot and told him so today as thrown away it all for some slag.

Skint_Lynne

Hey Kizzy,

I wouldn't bother about being 'graphic' you are a human being with needs. As you know my DH is away and it is murder when you are in 'the mood' and you can't have it.

Maybe AS is the best bet, but be careful you don't meet anyone you know on your way out of there with a carrier bag busting at the seams with all sorts of exotic gadgets!!:o

SL x

kizzykizzywizzy

Skint_Lynne wrote: »

Hey Kizzy,

I wouldn't bother about being 'graphic' you are a human being with needs. As you know my DH is away and it is murder when you are in 'the mood' and you can't have it.

Maybe AS is the best bet, but be careful you don't meet anyone you know on your way out of there with a carrier bag busting at the seams with all sorts of exotic gadgets!!:o

SL x

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: have never needede AS before! always on tap, perhaps that's the problem!

Ellidee

If you don't fancy visiting an AS shop Kizzy, our own Immoral Angel is an AS party organizer so she could sort you out mail order !