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  • scottishfreebiehunter
    scottishfreebiehunter Posts: 13,482 Forumite
    Hi all woke up after having bad dreams and ds sobbing about missing his daddy again:(

    taking him to footie later today so that should take his mind off it for a little while

    sun out here for now and hopefully it stays that way.

    I cannot stop these thoughts of getting revenge
    Just back into comping past few months to help me get over rubbish in life.... won Hotpoint fridge freezer, soda stream
  • gerturdeanna
    gerturdeanna Posts: 4,350 Forumite
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    DS starts school in 2 weeks so as MY!! money came in yesteday, we are going to town to buy the shoes, DD wants some new ones too!!
    Then I'll take them to the park cos it is SUNNY!!! WOW!!
    Then this evening off to my ma and pa's!! Hope everyone has a good day -and I actually feel alive today (maybe cos I'm not hungover!! hehe)
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    I feel awful today!
    Just been told that a friend's 3 week old baby died last night
    ...Linda
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • kizzykizzywizzy
    kizzykizzywizzy Posts: 6,906 Forumite
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    Right, now I'm really stressed, I've started trying to fill in forms for income support, council tax benefit & child tax credits & they are so confusing.
    They say are you recieving ctb,ctc,is on each one, well no, not yet, but there's no option for that, also I only have a joint account for all of this to be paid into, so I suppose I'm going to have to open another account for benefits to be paid into & just have bills coming out of the joint account as this is the one we are using for the mortgage, which I'm still worried about as the mortgage offer has been accepted, but doesn't start until 1st October.
    Also still in limbo re insurance for mortgage as they refused me, all this stuff is now stressing me out so much, what's he doing - nothing!!
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
  • poppyg_2
    poppyg_2 Posts: 322 Forumite
    Oh God Linda that's terrible news, how awful
    Money doesn't make you happy so I'm skint but cheerful :beer:
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    poppyg wrote: »
    Oh God Linda that's terrible news, how awful

    I know, I'm in complete shock to be honest, just can't think today.
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • kizzykizzywizzy
    kizzykizzywizzy Posts: 6,906 Forumite
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    oh linda, this puts things into perspective.
    i'm so sorry
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
  • gerturdeanna
    gerturdeanna Posts: 4,350 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Oh linda, I'm so sorry!
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • Keeping_Motivated
    Keeping_Motivated Posts: 3,653 Forumite
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    Linda thats awful news I'm so sorry xxx
  • Keeping_Motivated
    Keeping_Motivated Posts: 3,653 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Morning everyone xxx
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