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Single and in debt.

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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Hi everybody!

    So glad Monday is over, they are yucky!! Had the munchies all day, been soooo naughty - biccies at work and then pie and chips for dinner! :o Not my best ever dieting day :rotfl:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Lip gloss? What's that? Make-up?! :eek: Never worn make-up at all.

    Astonishingly, my colleagues are all married. Just as everyone I went to Uni with is married :rolleyes: (while I've not even had a boyfriend before). It's crap. Life's crap. I don't even think they'll let me wear my trainers to bowling and that is the crappiest of crap!

    Still, 3 days off coming up so I can wallow in the crapness of my life.

    Had a really bad week this past week or so - can you tell? :p

    Hope you've enjoyed your first day off - and are feeling a bit better? Like Sarah says time off work is a bonus, try to enjoy it :j
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Ladies and Gentleman... I'm alive!

    It's been a tough 3 days without this forum and I'm glad to be back! I had to go down to Picton to sign my lease for the new place yesterday and it took me 14hrs to get there and back!! Needless to say I wasn't a happy bunny. The place is a dump too, it's so 'unfurnished' it literally has a sink, a cooker, a shower and a toilet. No fridge or anything else so that's going to be fun... *eyeroll*

    Lula: next time he drives around call the police and say there is a suspicious vehicle, keep doing it and he'll get the message everytime the police show up.

    BGB: try to look on the bright side, there is one, somewhere, it just hides sometimes.
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Hi everyone

    so far my night exisits of getting extremely drunk on my own as I'm trying to save money by not going out then texting the ex who tells me he's got a date next week!!! He's a loser I know but I want him back.....aaarrrggghhh I hate men!!!!

    x

    No, no, no, you do not want him back! You want the feeling of being wanted back!

    He probably doesnt have a date btw, he's just trying to make you feel bad. Delete his number if you must because I know from bitter experience that texting exes when drunk just leads to feeling 100x more !!!! than you did before.
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • TDQO wrote: »
    No, no, no, you do not want him back! You want the feeling of being wanted back!

    He probably doesnt have a date btw, he's just trying to make you feel bad. Delete his number if you must because I know from bitter experience that texting exes when drunk just leads to feeling 100x more !!!! than you did before.

    Hey TDQO how are you? Sorry to hear your new place is rubbish, it'll all be worth it in the end though!!

    I deleted his number 1st thing Sunday morning, I shall not be doing the drunk texting again, it's so pathetic!! You're so right I don't want him back, he's a total loser & he's not worth the hassle (I should have realised that the day he ditched me!!) but I just miss being with someone :(
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Hey TDQO how are you? Sorry to hear your new place is rubbish, it'll all be worth it in the end though!!

    I deleted his number 1st thing Sunday morning, I shall not be doing the drunk texting again, it's so pathetic!! You're so right I don't want him back, he's a total loser & he's not worth the hassle (I should have realised that the day he ditched me!!) but I just miss being with someone :(


    Hey I'm good ta, sorting out stuff for the new place. It's not that bad it's just awful compared to the lovely place I've been in since september!

    Good call on the whole deleting number thing, it took me 6 months to delete my alst ex's number and it caused no end of hassle between us, mainly due to me drunk txting :o

    How's the whole DFW thing going? Made any more progress with changing your phone contract and stuff like that?
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    TDQO wrote: »
    Ladies and Gentleman... I'm alive!

    It's been a tough 3 days without this forum and I'm glad to be back! I had to go down to Picton to sign my lease for the new place yesterday and it took me 14hrs to get there and back!! Needless to say I wasn't a happy bunny. The place is a dump too, it's so 'unfurnished' it literally has a sink, a cooker, a shower and a toilet. No fridge or anything else so that's going to be fun... *eyeroll*

    Lula: next time he drives around call the police and say there is a suspicious vehicle, keep doing it and he'll get the message everytime the police show up.

    BGB: try to look on the bright side, there is one, somewhere, it just hides sometimes.



    :j TDQO not down a mine or on walkabout :j

    :eek: to very unfurnishedness :( check out for freecycle or similar , must be something like that ... ask around all peeps you know for any freebies.

    Re xbf ; had a flurry of calls last night to which I just hung up, then this morning an email which just said F You about 20 times :rolleyes: let hope when he pick his toys up he picks his dignity up with them & then jumps back in his pram to be wheeled away somewhere else by mummy ( who hasnt replied )

    Did another hour and a half walking this morning then came home because it was raining :mad:

    bye for now
    lula
    x
  • Ossireo
    Ossireo Posts: 573 Forumite
    *gives big huggy vibe to thread*

    Lula you have the patience of a Saint, if I had any 'boys' I would have sent them around to visit the ex bf by now, what a complete and utter loon! Keep writing everything down just in case you do need to go to the police (put lippy on before visit to station, may be some nice uniformed men around - not that I have a uniform fetish or anything :rolleyes:)

    BGB so sorry to hear you are having a carp time, it always seems that everything comes at once. I agree with Sarah, just remember you haven't bumped into your Mr Right just yet. Maybe have a look around something like OkCupid just for a giggle, put up a whacky profile and treat it all as a bit of harmless fun :) I came across SC on that dating site and we had started talking as he likes Terry Pratchett books as well....so I had mentioned I was most like the character Angua (who is a werewolf) but it was for him to decide if that meant I was a changeable b1tch at certain times of the month :rolleyes:

    ShoeGal, just forget yesterday ever happened as far as the diet, I have had to write off the last 10 days due to having an inabilty to prevent naughty none diet things reaching my tummy :o but onwards and upwards, or technically downwards!!

    Happy Belated Birthday Mags, welcome to 35! its the age I have decided to stick at!
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Hi everybody :hello:

    I have booked my hols :j - 8 weeks on Saturday I'm off to Spain for a week, can't wait already! Got to get my act together on the diet front now I have an incentive, keep thinking bikini :rotfl: I have loads of bikini's and summer clothes I want to fit back into, now I'm a DFW don't want to have to buy new ones :eek:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    Hi everybody :hello:

    I have booked my hols :j - 8 weeks on Saturday I'm off to Spain for a week, can't wait already! Got to get my act together on the diet front now I have an incentive, keep thinking bikini :rotfl: I have loads of bikini's and summer clothes I want to fit back into, now I'm a DFW don't want to have to buy new ones :eek:

    I thought that said you were going to Spain for 8 weeks, I was like :eek:

    Good luck with the fitting into your bikinis, I'm sure you'll look fabulous, darling... :rotfl:
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
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