Single and in debt.

SuSu1871

Hi everyone!!

So, it's the...erm...afternoon after the night before, and what I lovely night I had! CM got here at 5pm (dead early, eh?!) just as I'd finished drying my hair, so as I'd been busy all day I'd not really had time to get nervous! He arrived with flowers (nice touch) then helped me cook dinner, then we went out to a nice quiet local pub for a few drinks before going back to mine for much snogging on the settee

He left at about 2.30am, so I reckon that one date actually counts as 2, which is just as well as I've just booked a lovely little B&B for us for next Saturday I must point out that although next Saturday is the 14th, this is not Valentine's day related - it's just that he's taking his daughter to his parent's for the week and his wife has asked if he can stay over on Saturday night as she wants to have some friends round (CM doesn't know that this will be her new fella, but I don't suppose he'd care either!)

We talked a lot last night about how to play this whole new relationship thing, and we agree that it's better to keep it to ourselves for now and if we're going strong in 3-4 months then we'll let his daughter know, then we can go public. We occasionally veered off into talking about things we can do with his daughter in summer, but we had to keep checking ourselves and reminding ourselves that we're supposed to be taking things slowly! I don't know... it didn't feel weird talking about plans for the summer, but we do have to be aware that while it's all new & exciting for us, there are some very real issues that need to be addressed. It's a difficult balance, but I think we'll be okay.

So, I was all last night, and I was even more this morning when I was able to fit into some jeans that I'd had to relegate to the back of the wardrobe before Christmas :T

Even having to pay £72 to renew my passport, and £170 for the car tax I'd completely forgotten about was not enough to make me :mad:

Oh, and Sarahb.... you and your bad influence has been at work again! Last night I wore my new Clarks boots (great bargain at £35) and man alive they're comfy!! I also bought 2 new t-shirts yesterday, but only from Tesco and only cos they were 2 for £6! Last of the big spenders, eh?!!

Off to read the papers/drink loads of coffee now. Catch up with y'all later...

mags33_2

awww bless thats a sweet post

InkyCats20

You sound really happy SuSu - couldn't be more pleased for you (even if it did take me while to work out what CM stood for :rotfl: , got there in the end "Complicated Man)

mags33_2

couldnt be bothered opening my mail this morning and now i have i wished i hadnt lol got ma appointment through for the colposcopy the 17th of this month but cos it needs to be checked

Shoe_Gal

Hi everybody :j

Just been catching up! Another really busy week for me work wise, I slept for 14 hours last nite! It's all work and nothing else for me - all I've managed to achieve this week is putting 2lbs on

Quiet nite in for me, what's everybody else up to?

Shoe Gal

mags33_2

iv got two stars whopppeeeeee lol dont know why that excites me but it does.

im in tonight watching tv and going to have a glass of wine

you must of needed that sleep my diet was cancelled on monday and will re-start this monday lol

InkyCats20

Mags - Well at least you know when it is even if you're obviously not looking foward to it, I'm sure you'll be fine have a dodgy hug from me :grouphug:
I can never not open my post, I'm just inherently nosey & have to know what's in there (or just a bit sad :rotfl: )
Hope you're all ok this evening - I'm not up to much, going to go & make a lasagne in a while, I'm staying in tonight, so hopefully I'll find something to watch on TV !

mags33_2

awww thanks for the hug im gonna shove it to the back of my memory and deal with it when it happens at least i didnt get the gynaecologist i work for i couldnt handle that LOL my face would be scarlett. mmmmmm lasagna have had that for ages. have you made it with chicken? its well yummy.

Paulgonnabedebtfree

Message deleted as made a blunder LOL.

mags33_2

glad to hear you were okay

think you had a colonoscopy there are too many procedures with oscopy's at the end of it gets confusing even for me who has been a medical secretary for 18 years i still have to think about what im typing.