Single and in debt.

sarahb123_3

bathgatebuyer wrote: »

Hi all. I think I've hit the pits of despair on a Saturday night - I'm watching Teen Wolf on DVD!!!

Ooh, I used to love Teen Wolf:rotfl: Don't think of it as the pits of despair, more a night of nostalgia:D

InkyCats20

eco wrote: »

Hi All,
well done Slayer and TDQO on the jobs, and Shoegal on keeping your job.

have been gardening again today, i can't wait to start planting seeds, all my raised beds are ready now, and i wish i'd remembered to write down which bulbs i'd planted in autumn cos there coming through now and i haven't a clue what they are.

Now you can stop all that gardening talk Eco, I haven't got a garden at the moment, as I'm renting a flat & you're making me jealous, at this time of year I used to be getting the greenhouse ready, choosing which seeds to grow, etc & I really miss it

bathgatebuyer

sarahb123 wrote: »

Ooh, I used to love Teen Wolf:rotfl: Don't think of it as the pits of despair, more a night of nostalgia:D

Once I've done with that, it's the Back to the Future trilogy! (converting loads of VHS to DVD and loving it

You built a time machine out of a DeLorean?!:eek:

eco

Sorry Inky, I'm just so excited,while i'm out there gardening i can't spend too much money, so i'll be able to do more NSD challenges, well that is the hope anyway.

Lula-Hula

Hello,

I am officially done with men, every single one I get involved with turns out to be a psycho . If I ever mention that I've met one I like please remind me of that. Dont want to go into details but I'm very very p!ssed off right now.

Great news on the job slayerx - really pleased for you, it must be a great relief

lula

sarahb123_3

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Hello,

I am officially done with men, every single one I get involved with turns out to be a psycho . If I ever mention that I've met one I like please remind me of that. Dont want to go into details but I'm very very p!ssed off right now.

Hi Lula, hope you are ok. Big hugs.

jenevieve

Hi Lula, hope you are okay? Sounds like you're not so sending hugs x

Sarah - congrats on your lottery win!!

Lula-Hula

Thanks guys, I am ok, just a bit shaken.

My own fault for not taking the depth of O/Fs feelings into consideration. I was so busy getting him to babysit the other night I didnt think things through. He got a bit too attached & I had to make myself clear. It got a bit unpleasant but no damage done.

How do I always pick the unstable ones :rolleyes: really feel that I'm safer just being alone as I obviously put out the wrong vibe.

I'm really mad at myself for not seeing this coming & for causing him to react so badly.

I really should know better by now :mad:

sarahb123_3

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Thanks guys, I am ok, just a bit shaken.

My own fault for not taking the depth of O/Fs feelings into consideration. I was so busy getting him to babysit the other night I didnt think things through. He got a bit too attached & I had to make myself clear. It got a bit unpleasant but no damage done.

How do I always pick the unstable ones :rolleyes: really feel that I'm safer just being alone as I obviously put out the wrong vibe.

I'm really mad at myself for not seeing this coming & for causing him to react so badly.

I really should know better by now :mad:

That's a shame as you were obviously fond of him. As you say, no real harm done, but an awkward situation. Imagine it's more a case of signals being misread than sending out the wrong vibes, so don't blame yourself. I don't think there is a way to know better really, being friendly is always open to misinterpretation if one person wants more than the other. Hope you're feeling a bit better now, it's a horrid situation to be in, but it is not your fault, these things happen.

Lula-Hula

Thanks sarah,

good news on your lottery win

lula