Single and in debt.

mags33_2

makeup wrote: »

However you asked Dial-a-phone to cancel it so it isn't as if you didn't do anything?! I suppose you should have made sure they did but really they should have got it right first time.

Yep stew was lovely, supposed to be beef&barley but didn't have any barley in the cupboard after all! Still I enjoyed it!.

Well it is a bit complicated, we are on good terms and see each other every so often but recently he has seemed a lot more keen and I think there is a chance that he is after a reconcilliation. I'm not sure, we had a difficult relationship when we were together. I think I will see what happens and how it all goes and take it from there.

Yip I did ask them and he told me he had done it on the computer so something has gone wrong somewhere

Thats the best idea to see what happens take each day as it comes.

roll on 5pm when its the weekend not that im doing anything but its out of work for two days lol

Ossireo

Well just returned from the meeting with DS's teacher. He wanted me to complete a school medical referral. They are concerned about DSs' co-ordination, balance and also his self-esteem so they want him to be checked out to see if anything can help him out as academically he is top notch but physically he is struggling and it is a bit more then just being clumsy (which I thought was down to him being so big .. he is 8 years old adn already wears size 5 shoes for example!).

So I think I finally found the backlash of my last few years illness, something that is hard to explain really as you needed to see me back then to see how bad I was ... practically housebound, withdrawn from even DS, very snappy to full tears in minutes, so its only natural that some of his self-esteem issues are as a result of living in borderline fear/caution of me back when I was ill (he actually tells me how much he loves his new mummy and he use to be scared of the old mummy which breaks my heart and also makes me want to kick my doctors a$$ to timbucktoo! ).

So onwards with new resolutions of taking DS out and about more and using SC for games of Rugby/Football etc which will help him a lot, also need to get him enroled for swimming this year. Hopefully with new improved mummy around + more physical activities + school help I can salvage this for him. Contemplating getting a little dog when we move to the new house (not very DFW though) but I know he misses the dogs we use to have which he grew up with and I think bonding with a dog will help him as well.

mags33_2

Ossireo wrote: »

Well just returned from the meeting with DS's teacher. He wanted me to complete a school medical referral. They are concerned about DSs' co-ordination, balance and also his self-esteem so they want him to be checked out to see if anything can help him out as academically he is top notch but physically he is struggling and it is a bit more then just being clumsy (which I thought was down to him being so big .. he is 8 years old adn already wears size 5 shoes for example!).

So I think I finally found the backlash of my last few years illness, something that is hard to explain really as you needed to see me back then to see how bad I was ... practically housebound, withdrawn from even DS, very snappy to full tears in minutes, so its only natural that some of his self-esteem issues are as a result of living in borderline fear/caution of me back when I was ill (he actually tells me how much he loves his new mummy and he use to be scared of the old mummy which breaks my heart and also makes me want to kick my doctors a$$ to timbucktoo! ).

So onwards with new resolutions of taking DS out and about more and using SC for games of Rugby/Football etc which will help him a lot, also need to get him enroled for swimming this year. Hopefully with new improved mummy around + more physical activities + school help I can salvage this for him. Contemplating getting a little dog when we move to the new house (not very DFW though) but I know he misses the dogs we use to have which he grew up with and I think bonding with a dog will help him as well.

first of all ((((hugs))) secondly mags is in an emotional mood will explain but your post made me cry you have come through so much and so will your son. im glad the school picks up on these things and suggests referals as so many dont.

what a nice post

ok me = so happpyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

i even bought wine yes i did a whole £3.49 it was half price

as you all know my probs with bank account and my mild anxiety attack about it

i got a letter today the BOS have sent a list of DD's and So's and funny enough they added the old one for the credit card er like thats happening. so i called lloyds tsb and cancelled the ones that shouldnt be there

and drum rolllllllllllllllllllll

eveything should be complete by 28th January including the closure of the old account. go on ask how happy and relieved i am as thats in time for feb's dd's coming out.

nothing is bursting my bubble tonight
:j :j :beer: :beer:

runmichellerun

mags33 wrote: »

first of all ((((hugs))) secondly mags is in an emotional mood will explain but your post made me cry you have come through so much and so will your son. im glad the school picks up on these things and suggests referals as so many dont.

what a nice post

ok me = so happpyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

i even bought wine yes i did a whole £3.49 it was half price

as you all know my probs with bank account and my mild anxiety attack about it

i got a letter today the BOS have sent a list of DD's and So's and funny enough they added the old one for the credit card er like thats happening. so i called lloyds tsb and cancelled the ones that shouldnt be there

and drum rolllllllllllllllllllll

eveything should be complete by 28th January including the closure of the old account. go on ask how happy and relieved i am as thats in time for feb's dd's coming out.

nothing is bursting my bubble tonight
:j :j :beer: :beer:

SO SO pleased for you Mags. Have an amazing evening celebrating :beer:

mags33_2

thank so so so much i swear i may burst so if any of you hear a loud bang its just me up in scotland bursting

i shall be opening the wine soon been too busy texting people to tell them my good news i swear my friends think im bonkers lol

but its like another positive step in the right direction for me

thank you

makeup

Hey Hey Mags!! Great news!! :j Glad you've got your weekend off to a flying start!

Hi Ossireo, at least you know what the teacher wanted to see you about and already you have started thinking of ways of helping your son.

I'm sure a combination of professional help and getting older will help his co-ordination.

How about a less demanding pet to start off with like a hamster or guinea pig?

from your posts you really seem to be getting on top of things and making such great improvements - very inspirational!

Hope everyone has a fabulous weekend! I'm gonna be chilling and trying to -tidy up my flat as well. I need a serious declutter!!!

Shoe_Gal

Hi All :hello:

Sorry to sound miserable but I just need to moan!

What a rubbish week! Have been really busy at work so have worked really long hours. Despite being so busy another week has and done no exercise so have put a pound back on. Have also spent loads cos not planned meals - and cheered myself up with new underwear and a magazine! Doesn't look like I'm going to be able to pay £100.00 of my overdraft this month now.
gone by and nothing has been clarified about possible redundancies in my department. It's just hanging over me! :mad: That means I have eaten rubbish all week
I am really annoyed with myself, I can do much better than this! :mad:

So here's my list for next week - a copy and paste of last weeks! :rolleyes:

• lose 2lbs
• meal plan and stick to it
• 3 NSD's
• 3 exercise sessions
• sort out electricity bill
• organise work hours

Plus, I need to start getting my glamour back, I feel such a frump! I used to really make an effort with my clothes, hair, make-up etc but these days I feel that I just can't be bothered - then I look in a mirror!

Sorry for such a miserable post

RosaBernicia

Hi all

Shoe Gal - we are here to have our ears bent, you don't need to apologise. But you may need one of these :grouphug: .

Mags - :j :beer: :j re. account, that's a worry done with!

Ossireo - :grouphug: for you as well, Makeup is right you're an inspiration.

Where have all the boys gone, have we scared them away?

Well I am tired and cross - and I have my advanced driving 'mock test' tomorrow and haven't had time to do any practice. I wanted to take a day off work this week and just couldn't fit it in. So probably not going to do brilliantly tomorrow but have decided to stop worrying about it and just turn up. I can always drop the idea if they say it's likely to take me another 3 months to get through the test, I have a lot on at the minute and it is only an extra.

Might pop in later but if it's after 11 you're to send me away!

Rosa xx

Shoe_Gal

Thanks Rosa

Have given in to chocolate cake - new regime starts tomorrow! :rotfl:

eco

Ossireo Rosa's right you are an inspiration I don't have kids but been an aunty I know it's not the easiest job which is why I've steered clear of it, about the dog I think it's a great idea, i have 2 and my jack russell is full of energy and great with kids, my neices and nephews love him.
I'm on a high tonight I will finish painting my stairs tomorrow, just a bit of glossing and touching up to do, and I've seen some lampshades in b & q I like, then I can start my bedroom, I've got to have all the painting done by Feb, I want to concentrate on gardening then.
Hope everyone's having a good night and a drink it's friday and we deserve it.