Single and in debt.

bathgatebuyer

He was actually really suprised when he heard that people found him intimidating - he's usually a bit of a gentle giant but I just don't like being embarrassed especially when my confidence is not great anyway. Thankfully I'm not the only person who's had it before, so we have a bit of a laugh about it and move on. I guess I'm more sensitive than most when it comes to criticism.

mags33_2

i think if someone had spoke to me like that id feel the exact same way. hugs to you and hopefully tomorrow will be a better day for you

i was meant to be going but sometimes these threads have me hooked

TDQO

mags33 wrote: »

is there not a primark near to you TDQO

nope... there is a petition to build one though!

Buffythedebtslayer

bathgatebuyer wrote: »

He was actually really suprised when he heard that people found him intimidating - he's usually a bit of a gentle giant but I just don't like being embarrassed especially when my confidence is not great anyway. Thankfully I'm not the only person who's had it before, so we have a bit of a laugh about it and move on. I guess I'm more sensitive than most when it comes to criticism.

no you are not!

As a teacher, I shout to control kids, but there is an element of hey you everyone is looking now how do you like that (and look at me all powerful and in control whilst you cower at my shouty voice)

you aren't sensitive you are normal NO ONE likes being shouted at, and there is no way one adult should be so rude to another adult.

half way through sorting out wardrobe now. getting fatter the minute. wish narnia was in the back of my wardrobe I 'd !!!!!! off there for a bit!

xxxx

mags33_2

TDQO wrote: »

nope... there is a petition to build one though!

good shop is primark

hope the petition is successful

sorry thats no help to your current problem

TDQO

Bathgatebuyer... That sucks about your boss but it could be worse! My boss keeps praising a report I wrote back in November and tellng me how great it was yet I know for a fact that I put in maybe 35% effort and if I'd handed it in at uni I'd be lucky to get that much for it! It's making me incredibly paranoid that they're taking the !!!! out of me, either that or the entire office are morons... (quite likely!)

mags33_2

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

no you are not!

As a teacher, I shout to control kids, but there is an element of hey you everyone is looking now how do you like that (and look at me all powerful and in control whilst you cower at my shouty voice)

you aren't sensitive you are normal NO ONE likes being shouted at, and there is no way one adult should be so rude to another adult.

half way through sorting out wardrobe now. getting fatter the minute. wish narnia was in the back of my wardrobe I 'd !!!!!! off there for a bit!

xxxx

have you tried going right to the back lol

if it works tell me where you got it hahahahaha

my belly is rumbling like mad its like where is the chocolate mummy that ur usually eating

grrrrrrrrr lol

bathgatebuyer

The problem I always have is that I don't have the confidence when it comes to other people (hence the whole being single thing). I was great at Uni and love all the things I can do on my own like studying, writing music, painting, etc, etc.................but, when it comes to dealing with other people I always just say, "Oh ok" and never really force things. The ability to just get on with things myself is what I really like and where I can be really good at things, but when I have to deal with other people I find that really difficult. I hate having to rely on other people to get my job done - much easier to do things yourself.

Oh my God! I've just realised I'm a control freak!!

bathgatebuyer

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

no you are not!
As a teacher, I shout to control kids, but there is an element of hey you everyone is looking now how do you like that (and look at me all powerful and in control whilst you cower at my shouty voice)

I knew that's why teachers did it Power hungry! (I managed to get through school without being shouted at at all - goodie two shoes, eh?!)

mags33_2

bathgatebuyer wrote: »

The problem I always have is that I don't have the confidence when it comes to other people (hence the whole being single thing). I was great at Uni and love all the things I can do on my own like studying, writing music, painting, etc, etc.................but, when it comes to dealing with other people I always just say, "Oh ok" and never really force things. The ability to just get on with things myself is what I really like and where I can be really good at things, but when I have to deal with other people I find that really difficult. I hate having to rely on other people to get my job done - much easier to do things yourself.

Oh my God! I've just realised I'm a control freak!!

i totally agree with this

i sometimes ask myself why i work with the public iv been reduced to near tears when being shouted at by a patient but what stopped me was the fact that i refused to let her see she was upsetting me i was called everything and she going to the papers etc etc (which she didnt)

she was nice when she got what she wanted and ripped me apart at the same time she just couldnt understand that a medical secretary cannot give out medication.