Single and in debt.

mags33_2

uch i really do know there isnt anything thats perfect really human or otherwise

all i want is someone who wont mind making my dinner and put up with my mad moments

Shoe_Gal

Hi All

am now hiding indoors so nobody else can ask me what I'm doing tonight = and then pity me because I'm not doing anything!!!!

bathgatebuyer

SunderlandBlackCat wrote: »

Of course there isn't, just as there's no perfect woman.

Ahem? :wave: Hellllooooooooooo!?

Nah, you're right. There is no such thing. In fact, some of the strongest relationships I know are where the two people were not originally attracted to each other. They 'sort of grew' on each other over time and those relationships would not have happened had they been looking for Mr and Ms Perfect.

I'm only looking for someone who's intelligent, kind, gracious and a fan of cuddles and sport on the telly. Amazingly, this is hard to find!

Ossireo

SunderlandBlackCat wrote: »

It's always going to be a case of finding as close a match as we can to what we want in a partner & then deciding if we can live with the things that don't fit the profile.

As usual SBC comes out with the most perfect way of describing something :beer:

Just come back from Mr Ts as SC is in work and gave me some money to grab some munchies for tonight, struck some luck for a change and was right by the reduced shelf when two guys came over an piled lots of stuff on it at roughly 10% normal cost! So its finest Tarte au Citron and wafer thin chicken for supper @ 50p total! :rotfl:

If I dont return later, have a self indulgent New Year you wonderful folk and let 2009 be a fresh start for us all xxx

mags33_2

bathgatebuyer wrote: »

Ahem? :wave: Hellllooooooooooo!?

Nah, you're right. There is no such thing. In fact, some of the strongest relationships I know are where the two people were not originally attracted to each other. They 'sort of grew' on each other over time and those relationships would not have happened had they been looking for Mr and Ms Perfect.

I'm only looking for someone who's intelligent, kind, gracious and a fan of cuddles and sport on the telly. Amazingly, this is hard to find!

that made me laugh out heartily :j

SunderlandBlackCat

bathgatebuyer wrote: »

Ahem? :wave: Hellllooooooooooo!?

Nah, you're right. There is no such thing. In fact, some of the strongest relationships I know are where the two people were not originally attracted to each other. They 'sort of grew' on each other over time and those relationships would not have happened had they been looking for Mr and Ms Perfect.

I'm only looking for someone who's intelligent, kind, gracious and a fan of cuddles and sport on the telly. Amazingly, this is hard to find!

In that case :wave: Hellllooooooooooo!? right back at you

Buffythedebtslayer

SunderlandBlackCat wrote: »

Are you sure this was about collecting a DVD? One of my exes asked me to go round & collect some of my stuff after the bloke I'd found out she'd been two timing me with dumped her & it was apparently the advice of some self help book as a way to gauge if someone is still interested in you.

Not the exact wording but according to her friend, if she'd posted it, that would be a sign that she didn't care whether I still liked her or not, if she'd dropped it off at mine it risked running into my new girlfriend if I had one, but if I agreed to go back to hers to collect a relatively inexpensive or easily replaced item, it meant I was still interested.

One of the self help book experts might be able to elaborate on which book that came from.

Yeah, it sounds like a "self help suggestion" for a girl to find out if a guy is still interested. although it is a bit game playee for a bloke?

I don't know what book it comes from tho, most of my bloke related ones seem to suggest following rules (the classic) behaving like a 1950's woman(the surrendered single), or bascially holding back, never opening up until the ring is on your finger!!

I wish I could pick one and follow it! I'd let you know if it worked!!!

Happy New Year btw xxxxxxx
xxxxxxx

SunderlandBlackCat

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Happy New Year btw xxxxxxx
xxxxxxx

Same to you Buffy xx :beer:

Bowski_1011

I'm off out to my mates soon, I've got my neice and nephew tonite and he has his daughter so we're having a little party for the kids but just wanted to come on here first and wish you all a happy new year! Hope you all enjoy your night whatever you's are up to!

I can't wait for tomorrow...diet and money saving starts again and I'm really looking forward to it as I've enjoyed doing it in 2008.

All the best for 2009

Lula-Hula

Hey beautiful people

I'm home alone ( apart from DD :rolleyes: ) & quite happy about it. Have a cold, nearly got crushed to death in tesco & had to buy a new printer to calm myself down.

I shall be spending the evening with Johnny Depp, Jools Holland, a box of tissues & loads of good intentions .

After midnight I'm booking our flights for hol in August :j . Would have done it today but my personal challenge for this year was to get the debt under £6,000. I have something to look forward to & only spending/living money to save for

It's the first time in a few years I'll be starting a new year on my own but I'm happy about it so anyone who doesnt like it can f*** off because I am fabulous, as is everyone on this thread :A

A very Happy New Year to all , good fortune , good health & happiness :beer: .
*misses sarah * hope you're having a fab time

I'll be back later so bye for now

Lula xx