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me my daughter and the boyfriend HELP!

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  • journ
    journ Posts: 231 Forumite
    millies wrote: »
    my daughter has finally put her foot down today and told him straight
    that she is coming home after the baby is born.

    hes called her all kinds of names from selfish too other horrible things .he has now said its over between them and he has asked for all the baby items back that he brought.
    she told him he could have it back ,arrangements are being made for him and hes mother to pick it up sometime this week.


    sorry! i don't think shes up to writing on here tonight

    Aw a ((((((BIG HUG ))))))))) to you and your daughter
    I'm so pleased your daughter has put her foot down but it makes me so mad to hear he is taking the baby things back this shows how sick he can be .
    I don't think your daughter should be there when he comes i would have the things ready by your front door so he is not going to hang around.
  • Steel_2
    Steel_2 Posts: 1,649 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    What a nasty piece of work.

    Your daughter is well shot of him.

    Can you manage without the CSA? I know this guy should face up to his responsibilities and he should be paying for the upkeep of his child, but some things are just not worth the agrravation.

    He'll become - if you excuse the expression - the sticky bogey you just can't get off your fingers.

    Deny him the ammunition he needs to spiritually beat your daughter and grandchild with for the next 18 years.

    Choose the most peaceful route instead.

    You'll find a way to manage without his money.
    "carpe that diem"
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