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  • monicamj
    monicamj Posts: 121 Forumite
    Derv - I wouldn't get anywhere if I didn't realize where the debts were coming from, thank you, your advice is helpful and so is just talking to someone;)
    Debt free by Dec 2011 :)
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  • thanks Derv, interesting to chat, and you are right about the whole if you didn't have debts you 'd have more money to spend thing.

    it is about focus, I am slowly coming round to the idea that 'debt busting' has to be the number one thing.

    hmmmm. off to think some more.

    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • monicamj
    monicamj Posts: 121 Forumite
    I have added a signature in the hope that seeing the debts reduce on it will make me feel like they are going down!

    :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D
    Debt free by Dec 2011 :)
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    #1369 Sealed pot challenge 4
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  • DervProf
    DervProf Posts: 4,035 Forumite
    monicamj wrote: »
    I have added a signature in the hope that seeing the debts reduce on it will make me feel like they are going down!

    :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

    Some of those interest rates are a bit nasty. It`s obvious, but make sure you pay as much off the cards with the higher rates (for example, the Cap 1 card looks a bit expensive) and the least on the 0% card. Did that bottle of whisky go on the 0% card ? As I said before, that money spent on the whisky could have paid extra off the Cap 1 card.
    30 Year Challenge : To be 30 years older. Equity : Don't know, don't care much. Savings : That's asking for ridicule.
  • monicamj
    monicamj Posts: 121 Forumite
    Whiskey was paid from this weeks cash fund.

    Capital one is very high yes, DH has just got a Barclaycard with 0% balance transfer with an £800 limit, trying to persuade/bully him into transferring as much of the cap one as possible.

    I think he wants to do what you do - i.e. spend on the card so we leave the money in the bank as this card has a cash back of 4% on it. And yes I have pointed out that it is better to save 30% in interest than gain 4% in cash back. Also whenever we have tried to do we have ended up just running up the card instead. We were doing this with Vanquis and then ran it to £850 (honestly I don't even know what on!) and transfered it to Virgin on 15month 0%.
    Debt free by Dec 2011 :)
    #178 Pay as as much as you can in 2011
    £2305.80/£7489.27
    #114 Crazy clothes challenge £60/£60
    #1369 Sealed pot challenge 4
    £9.72
    #139 Virtual sealed pot challenge
    £15.50
  • DervProf
    DervProf Posts: 4,035 Forumite
    "We were doing this with Vanquis and then ran it to £850 (honestly I don't even know what on!)"

    No need for me to comment !

    Sounds like you aren`t far from clearing your debt, you realise the problem and you know what needs to be done. It`s just the "doing" bit that is hard.
    30 Year Challenge : To be 30 years older. Equity : Don't know, don't care much. Savings : That's asking for ridicule.
  • monicamj
    monicamj Posts: 121 Forumite
    OMG the snowball calculator did the trick! When he saw how much in interest we could save by paying a bit more and moving the most expensive debt to 0% he was amazed. He handed me all of the cards and has promised to ring and get as much of the capital one as possible on to his 0% bcard!

    :beer:
    Debt free by Dec 2011 :)
    #178 Pay as as much as you can in 2011
    £2305.80/£7489.27
    #114 Crazy clothes challenge £60/£60
    #1369 Sealed pot challenge 4
    £9.72
    #139 Virtual sealed pot challenge
    £15.50
  • Turtle
    Turtle Posts: 999 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    brilliant! Long may the efforts continue...
  • fab news!

    xx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • monicamj
    monicamj Posts: 121 Forumite
    An update - transfered £700 from capital one to DH barclaycard at 0% for a charge of £17 (less than a months interest)

    On a not so good point DH bet £80 online in the middle of the night - thankfully he won £100 - which he then spent on food and booze. He only told me cos he thought I might wonder where the food had come from, I think he needs more training!
    Debt free by Dec 2011 :)
    #178 Pay as as much as you can in 2011
    £2305.80/£7489.27
    #114 Crazy clothes challenge £60/£60
    #1369 Sealed pot challenge 4
    £9.72
    #139 Virtual sealed pot challenge
    £15.50
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