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Lucielle's daring debt free journey

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  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,592 Forumite
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    Fay I do like food shopping (hate shopping for clothes) I spend way too much. Damage limitation doing it online.
    L
    Total Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
    Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
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  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    lucielle wrote: »

    Why can't life be easy? Why can't children be perfect? Why can't sisters keep their noses out? Why do sisters think they are always right? Why.........ok enough now.
    L

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    This made me laugh so much! I was just on the phone to my sis who lives in the US.
    She was married last year and is trying for a baby (though she is almost 40). In the past she has often commented on my kids with little comments like "Maybe you should do x,y or z" - which always makes me bristle (she has a knack for that :rolleyes:)
    Today she said she was with some friends at the weekend with kids and suddenly had a panic attack - that she doesn't want that small suburban life, where all you do is talk about kids and washing powder etc

    I smiled and said "Welcome to the dark side, wait til you're doing scratchcards every day and rejoicing when you win 25p instead of 10!!!"

    I feel your pain Lucielle! :)
  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,592 Forumite
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    My sister knows which knobs to press to send me into orbit. I bite EVERY time!
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    Total Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
    Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
    DFD Before we Die!!!! Long Haul Supporter #124
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,694 Ambassador
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    Makes me glad I dont have a sister!
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  • hypno06
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    macgirl wrote: »
    I feel your pain Lucielle! :)

    Me too - hope you don't have too many problems with DD, and that your stress levels can recede a bit x
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,592 Forumite
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    Friend has brought chocolate. Is it wrong to send the rest of the kids to bed now? DS is 14..........just so I can eat chocolate?
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    Total Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
    Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
    DFD Before we Die!!!! Long Haul Supporter #124
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    lucielle wrote: »
    Friend has brought chocolate. Is it wrong to send the rest of the kids to bed now? DS is 14..........just so I can eat chocolate?
    L

    It is sooooo right - do it do it do it :D
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,592 Forumite
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    They are still up!!!!!!!
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    Total Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
    Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
    DFD Before we Die!!!! Long Haul Supporter #124
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Hi lucielle - my sisters can send me into orbit! I have 3 of them! Mine wouldn't dare comment on how I bring up my kids tho - altho parents would

    Glad you got some chocolate.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    How insensitive of your sister.Why is it those with no kids always think they know how to bring them up..lol
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