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Just married - Advise!
I got married on Monday to the greatest guy ever and have decided to take his name. I was just wondering if anyone could help me with my question.....who do I need to tell? Obviously, dentist, doctors, banks etc....anyone else? Do I need to change it with the council or tax office or anything? I can't think..... I know…
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parcel to son in australia
i didnt know where to post this so please feel free to move, my son is travelling the world, at the moment staying in australia for a while, and wants me to send him some clothes and his laptop out to him, i havent a clue were to start, were to get box/packaging from, how which will cost what weight, any ideas would be…
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Stupid school Admin
My yr 9 son has gone off on a day trip to France today. It is the first time that he has been on a long trip with school. The first time we have been able to afford such luxury. I was there at 2am waving him off with the coachload of 50 other children and 4 teachers. So imagine my surprise when I was woken at about 9am by…
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IHT Penalties - Advice needed
I have an ongoing problem with my sister who is the executor of my aunt's estate. My aunt died in June 2004 but things are still not settled. I took my sister to the probate court to get an order for her to produce an inventory and account (April 2007). Despite the order she has not supplied the information. We have had…
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Feeling desperately inadequate
My son who is only 25 has been an alcoholic for 4 years. He has tried detox 3 times but each time he has relapsed. Every aspect of his lift is in total chaos and various members of the family are withdrawing their support. He has the worst liver results his doctor has ever seen in someone his age and if he continues to…
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Divorce bill
Hi I wonder if anyone can give me any advice on this. I found out in October that my husband of 2 yrs had done some very bad things and put the nails in a very shaky marriage. There is no way I could ever be kissed etc by him. Anyway I filed for divorce and armed with loads of evidence asked him to leave our home as…
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Can anyone help me make sense of how I feel
Hi all, This is going to be long and may even be complicated a bit. We are me my DH DS1 and DS2 my hubby also has a DD from his previous marriage. The problems are as follows I knew that hubby had a DD when I met him I have no problem with that if I did I would not have married my husband. He also has an ex wife who I…
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Very Different Sex Drives
Hi My partner and I have very different sex drives and it's starting to cause quite a bit of stress for both of us. At the start of the relationship we had sex most days and it probably stayed like this for a year or more. Since then, and especially over the last 2 years it has become less and less often and now is…
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Feeling very, very sad
Hi all. Well, I'm in tears as I write this (something insignificant always sets you off, eh), I'm feeling so low, not depressed as such, or even stressed, just very, very sad indeed. I have a lovely home life, wonderful partner of 5 years, both have decent jobs, fantastic family on both sides, lovely home, and I guess in…
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Neighbour and barking dog
The people next door to us are an elderly couple. The old gent doesn't keep well and is in hospital just now. He's been in and out for some time. The lady is out of the house a lot, both during the day and also during the evening till maybe 9.30pm a few nights a week. They have a dog which is left on it's own and barks…
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baby clubs/discount vouchers etc...
hi, anyone got a list of all the baby clubs etc to join eg pampers etc.. to sign up to get money off baby things etc both in store and online places? thanks :confused:
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Sat Nav Comparison - Probably the wrong board
Hello all, I'[m sorry if I have posted this on the wrong board but not sure where it should go. I would really like to get my husband a sat nav for Christmas (I know it's a little last minute). I have found the following sony systems which look pretty good but I am a bit of a technophobe. Could anyone advise which is the…
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Help!!!! (About lady problems!!! Lol)
I wonder if anyone can help me shed some light on this..... I am on the pill and took my last one on Friday - i usually come on on monday morning.... the same time every month can set my watch by it! Not today.. i've had chronic period pain all weekend, and have not yet come on properly, i am bleeding only slighty (not…
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Has anyone got the Which carseat safety report?
Had a big crash on Friday which means I have to buy a new car seat. As Jacob is huge at 2.5, want to get a carseat which will last if possible. Evolva 123 won't fit in a Zafira (if the car gets repaired and not written off), so it is between the Junior Traveller or the Recaro Young Sport. Has anyone got a copy of this…
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5 year old witness
My 5 year old cousin was teh only witness to a voilent crime. What will happen to him, and will he really have to give evidence? Surely it will be too traumatic for him? He has already spent hours today, being questioned at a police station :( Does anyone have any experience of this, or knows what happens?
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Any Suggestions??
Hi,I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions, money-saving or not. A very close friend of mine whom I've known since we were 8 (we are now 30) was due to have a baby this week by c-section, she was about 39 weeks pregnant. Unfortunately I got a message that the baby died on Friday. I am not sure of the details as we…
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teenage son not eating enough
My 13 year old son has Fibromyalgia (as do I). When he gets tired, which is quite often, he just has no interest in food. I can nag him into eating a bit, but not much. What I need is suggestions for high nutritional and calorie laden food, where a little will go a long way if you know what I mean:confused: His illness is…
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advice on a visa for american citizen
id like some advice on the best way an american citizen can get a visa for the uk? Ive started a relationship with an american woman who I met whilst in jamaica in may.I have sinse been to visit her twice and shes coming to the uk for the first time on monday for a week. Things are going nicely,we get on great and…
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Can someone PLEASE explain funded nursery places for 3 year olds to me !
Ok, i know when there 3 you are entitled to upto 5 funded nursery sessions a week. A friend has a little boy go to a pre school for 2 swssions on the same day but has to collect him in between for lunch - is this the same at all as i cant do this? My son currently goes to nursery which i pay for and he attends from 8-5,…
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Relationship Breakdown - Please Help
Hi all, I currently live with my girlfriend & our 2 children (3 & 5) in our mortgaged home. My g/f has told me that she no longer wants to be with me & wants to seperate. Would someone be able to help me with the following please: My g/f tells me for her to be considered for a house (council i assume) she will have to stay…
