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Proms. What's all that about ?

Jagraf
Jagraf Posts: 2,462 Forumite
I've been Money Tipped!
DD prom coming up for end of GCSES. I think we've done quite well relatively speaking.

Dress £60 (DD assures me that's a bargain)
£18 for getting it shortened (one of those slippy lined type material ones)
£16.99 shoes with heels the height of the Eiffel Tower (will stay on 5 mins)
Strapless, backless, stick on bra £19
Wash in hair colour 6.99

But, some of the things going on (not my DD I stress)

Limousines
£300 dresses (yes, that's not a typo)
Ted baker handbags
Designer accessories
Hair extensions (proper expensive ones)
Professional hair and make up on the day.

That's just the girls.

Apparently its like this in most schools. Then they do it again at 18.
That's a lot of paper rounds these kids must be doing!
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  • shoe*diva79
    shoe*diva79 Posts: 1,356 Forumite
    My daughter has prom in 2 weeks. I consider myself quite lucky what I have paid:

    £50 dress reduced from £320 in the local 'prom dress' store
    £20 hair on the day
    £25 towards the car her and her friends have hired

    A family friend has paid £25 for my DD to have her make up done on the day (inc a trial beforehand)

    My daughter is paying for herself to have her nails done, eyesbrows waxed, bought her prom shoes and bought a sparkly clip thing to go in her hair.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    It seems to be becoming the norm over here in the UK now - imported from the USA.....and now - I'm giving you fair warning of what happens when students "graduate/leave school at 18.

    As my DD says, over here in the UK, you signed everybody's shirt, you might indulge in a bit of "egg play" if you were daring - but that was it! In the USA, families organise HUUUGE parties, with grandparents, aunts, uncles, godparents all turning up with pressies for the person who has graduated! Here in the UK, we turned up for the Graduation ceremonies when they got their degrees, paid for the graduation pictures, and paid for dinner! Over there, it's a good job that Nanny 2 had already decided that she is visiting now, or DGS would be very short of a family party! :-D
  • Jagraf
    Jagraf Posts: 2,462 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    My daughter has prom in 2 weeks. I consider myself quite lucky what I have paid:

    £50 dress reduced from £320 in the local 'prom dress' store
    £20 hair on the day
    £25 towards the car her and her friends have hired

    A family friend has paid £25 for my DD to have her make up done on the day (inc a trial beforehand)

    My daughter is paying for herself to have her nails done, eyesbrows waxed, bought her prom shoes and bought a sparkly clip thing to go in her hair.

    That sounds reasonable too :D. I'm hoping to sell the dress on ebay afterwards although I think a heel might go through it. Next option is to get it shortened into a mini for her.
    Never again will the wolf get so close to my door :eek:
  • Reggie_Rebel
    Reggie_Rebel Posts: 5,036 Forumite
    When I left school we tipped all the bins over and did a runner. Happy days.
    It's taken me years of experience to get this cynical
  • shoe*diva79
    shoe*diva79 Posts: 1,356 Forumite
    Jagraf wrote: »
    That sounds reasonable too :D. I'm hoping to sell the dress on ebay afterwards although I think a heel might go through it. Next option is to get it shortened into a mini for her.

    Im hoping to sell my daughters as well (if she lets me!), maybe for a profit haha! It cant be shortened due to it being quite 'meringue' like. My daughters heels may turn into converse as 8 days ago she tore some ankle ligaments in a sporting accident and is currently on crutches. She is determined she will be wearing heels but I doubt very much she will be!
  • Jagraf
    Jagraf Posts: 2,462 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    thorsoak wrote: »
    It seems to be becoming the norm over here in the UK now - imported from the USA.....and now - I'm giving you fair warning of what happens when students "graduate/leave school at 18.

    As my DD says, over here in the UK, you signed everybody's shirt, you might indulge in a bit of "egg play" if you were daring - but that was it! In the USA, families organise HUUUGE parties, with grandparents, aunts, uncles, godparents all turning up with pressies for the person who has graduated! Here in the UK, we turned up for the Graduation ceremonies when they got their degrees, paid for the graduation pictures, and paid for dinner! Over there, it's a good job that Nanny 2 had already decided that she is visiting now, or DGS would be very short of a family party! :-D

    Its almost as though the point is lost completely.
    Never again will the wolf get so close to my door :eek:
  • onomatopoeia99
    onomatopoeia99 Posts: 7,150 Forumite
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    Jagraf wrote: »
    Strapless, backless, stick on bra £19
    What exactly is the point of such an item? I may be being dense here (I'm male, so you'll have to forgive me asking apparently stupid questions when it comes to bras :p ) but I always understood them to be for support. If it's stuck on it's not going to be supporting anything :eek:
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  • Jagraf
    Jagraf Posts: 2,462 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Im hoping to sell my daughters as well (if she lets me!), maybe for a profit haha! It cant be shortened due to it being quite 'meringue' like. My daughters heels may turn into converse as 8 days ago she tore some ankle ligaments in a sporting accident and is currently on crutches. She is determined she will be wearing heels but I doubt very much she will be!

    I love the idea of converses and a ball gown. Sounds very painful :(
    Never again will the wolf get so close to my door :eek:
  • Jagraf
    Jagraf Posts: 2,462 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    What exactly is the point of such an item? I may be being dense here (I'm male, so you'll have to forgive me asking apparently stupid questions when it comes to bras :p ) but I always understood them to be for support. If it's stuck on it's not going to be supporting anything :eek:

    With backless dresses you need something that doesn't show the straps. There is very little point.:) it's not at all about being useful or practical.
    Never again will the wolf get so close to my door :eek:
  • Jagraf
    Jagraf Posts: 2,462 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    When I left school we tipped all the bins over and did a runner. Happy days.

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T:T
    Never again will the wolf get so close to my door :eek:
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