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fighting my way out of the misery, moody,mayhem muddle.

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  • bluejeans53
    bluejeans53 Posts: 287 Forumite
    Hiya Robsmum, I am back........been trying to log back on for a week it would just not let me in, but all sorted now

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    Do I need this or just want it.
    If you always do what you always do...You will get what you always get.
    Debt Free since 16/12/10
    Starting Weight 14-7 Current 13-7-0 total -14lb
  • robsmum_2
    robsmum_2 Posts: 1,753 Forumite
    ;)Bluejeans: Welcome back!

    I guess it should be welcome back to myself also, have rather neglected my diary as life took over.:rotfl:

    Spring fever struck early here after what seems to have been an endless winter.

    Financial: Still slow and steady progress there. Still am managing to have a little bit left at the end of the week, even if it's only shrapnel. It's still money left:j
    Have seriously discovered how good internet banking is and that's helping me to keep track and make payments etc.
    Squirreled away £8 last month in change and that's half as the other goes in the Christmas pot.

    1st waste was a bag of tomatoes(69p) - I was gutted as I hadn't wasted anything since December.

    House and Garden:
    Had an early spring clean and everywhere is now de-cluttered (for a little while).
    Found whilst de-cluttering my house wish board, done last year and I'm nearly there:j
    Garden had a quick tidy and veg seedlings are going great guns.:j

    Health and Wellbeing:
    Been a bit lac on that front and need to get back on to it.
    Smoking still 18 a day, seem to have got a bit stuck there.:eek: Hopefully, as I'm getting all creative and crafting, sewing, cooking and growing things that should plummet again.

    Job:
    Not much happening on that front.

    Knowledge, learning and creativity:
    Masses there. Have started making cushions for living room, and appliqued panels for fronts. Spent hours seaching for patterns and templates and once have some things made am hoping this can become my side line. Perhaps I should learn how to put pictures on here next;)

    Right back to hpousework:eek:
    Debt at start of DMP 1/6/09: £2942 - £1942
    Buffer Zone 1; £84 -
    £2 saving plan:-
  • bluejeans53
    bluejeans53 Posts: 287 Forumite
    Hiya Robsmum, you are doing real well :j.
    Yes internet banking is a real boon. I log on to mine almost daily, brilliant to keep track of everything going in and out (more out for me) on a daily basis. Helps keep right up to date with everything.

    Yes life does get in the way of posting and I find once I laspsed in posting, I start to slide. Must keep it up.

    I am going to re plan, quite a few of my plans fell by the wayside

    x
    Do I need this or just want it.
    If you always do what you always do...You will get what you always get.
    Debt Free since 16/12/10
    Starting Weight 14-7 Current 13-7-0 total -14lb
  • bluejeans53
    bluejeans53 Posts: 287 Forumite
    P.S. Fab on the money left at the end of the week, no matter how little

    X
    Do I need this or just want it.
    If you always do what you always do...You will get what you always get.
    Debt Free since 16/12/10
    Starting Weight 14-7 Current 13-7-0 total -14lb
  • robsmum_2
    robsmum_2 Posts: 1,753 Forumite
    edited 5 April 2011 at 12:20PM
    I've finally got back to my diary - life has a habit of getting in the way.

    I've got to get back to posting regularly as I have slipped on several things, particularly MSE. I've lapsed on my spending diary, menu plans etc and consequently things are sliding back to old ways - so kick up the bum time.:eek:
    Financial:
    Very tight there. Need to start the spending diary again and really need to get an emergancy fund and some savings. Not sure how to do this at the moment as cost of living etc is making it very hard to exist let alone save.
    Back to basics again.....

    Job:
    Nothing much around but I must really try and find a new job. I need to earn more, want some job satisfaction/security and have now started with arthritis in my hands - not good for a housekeeper.:eek:

    Health and Wellbeing:
    Health is ok but haven't been looking after myself.

    Smoking:
    Got that to 15 a day:j and have just been bought by OH an electronic ciggie which I'm hopeful will get it to virtually zero.

    House and Garden:
    Coming on slowly. Veggie seeds are doing well and greenhouse is filling up nicely.
    Started to clean the kitchen down so that I can start on project kitchen as I get the money. Already have tile,cupboard and furniture paint so it's not too far off.

    Knowledge, Learning and Creativity:
    Have made 2 of 4 cushions and ground to a halt on them as can't get the right zips at moment.
    Have made the lavender bags and a writing case/stationary folder as a birthday present. Have got the beginnings of a collage as another birthday present.
    Have learnt how to download!:j

    OH is giving me money for my birthday so that I can buy clothes. I will be 55 and live in jeans, have no nice clothes and intend to give myself a make over. Hardly ever wear make up and need a haircut:eek:Any budding stylists out there who can point me in the right direction?

    It's 10 days until my birthday, so I want to get back on the straight and narrow by then.
    Any suggestions /contributions gratefully recieved.
    Job:
    Debt at start of DMP 1/6/09: £2942 - £1942
    Buffer Zone 1; £84 -
    £2 saving plan:-
  • For new clothes, why not try a personal shopper in debenhams or something? You don't have to buy anything if you decide it's too expensive but might give you a good idea of what you would like to look for? Or maybe talk to Souk?

    For hair, you are meant to be able to chat to your hairdresser about a new style so that could be worth a try? (I never have the guts though)

    I want to start growing things but have no idea where to start and that puts me off a bit as I hate trying new things and failing... also feel like a bit of an idiot as my friends will probably laugh.
    Became Mrs Scotland 16.01.16 :heart:Became homeowners 26.02.16 :heart:Baby girl arrived 27.10.16 :heart:Baby boy arrived 16.09.2018
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,201 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Good to 'see' you & sorry to hear about the arthritis.
    Personal shopper is a good idea to get a few tips & you dont have to buy anything.
    Im not a great make up fan but do use mineral make when I do IYSWIM as its nice & light & lets your skin breathe.
    Keep plodding.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • robsmum_2
    robsmum_2 Posts: 1,753 Forumite
    Physcobabble: Thank you that was useful. I hadn't thought about Souk. I think half the problem is knowing your fed up with your image, very little money and then not having a clue where to start!

    What do you fancy growing? It can be so easy and very rewarding. Your fears sound just like me about making these life changes.

    Beau: What is mineral make up? Told you I was clueless.
    Debt at start of DMP 1/6/09: £2942 - £1942
    Buffer Zone 1; £84 -
    £2 saving plan:-
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,201 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Mineral make up is made from minerals & comes in wee pots.
    Most companies make it.
    Maybelline do one that is really reasonable.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,201 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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