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    • Hiddenidenity
    • By Hiddenidenity 9th May 17, 12:47 PM
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    When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...
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    • 9th May 17, 12:47 PM
    When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up... 9th May 17 at 12:47 PM
    I'm back again, worse than ever to be honest. Things all hit a head in March and along with help being needed in other areas than financial I realised that the money side of things are a big issue in fixing things elsewhere.

    Although not posting I have been reading the diaries I have followed, so many who helped along when I first started are happily debt free now. I want to join them one day, both in being debt free and in happiness.

    Our finances on paper while tight look okay. However we both smoke and my OH is not very responsible. At all. I fell into a gambling issue which I've sought help for and not a penny has gone on gambling since March.

    Our household is me (Not working, our youngest has complicated health issues), My OH he works full time with over time, and 3 delightful children

    I will make a seperate post for my debts/goals and then one with our SOA when I've completed it.

    Hope I can stay around to sort myself, the debt and the happiness thing out.
    DFW £1783.71/£7348.71 Rent Arrears £571.28/£3381.28

    Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.
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    • kiss_me_now9
    • By kiss_me_now9 17th Nov 17, 5:02 PM
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    Oh are we doing cleaning? Well I currently have a flat that looks like a bomb was dropped on it I tend to clean when I'm not going to be around for a bit, or when people are coming over, or when it's gets unbearable
    Masters OT student
    • EssexHebridean
    • By EssexHebridean 17th Nov 17, 6:41 PM
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    Hope you're alright Hidden. I can't help but feel a tad concerned that all our tales of utterly useless housekeeping have frightened you off...
    MORTGAGE FREE 30/09/2016
    Sainsbugs 0% card: 22/12/16 £1229.00/£544.67 (17/10/17)
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