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I've done it again....
After clearing about £28k of debt, incurred through bailing my ex out/ coerced into taking out loans/ credit cards etc. (he cheated on me - we broke up). My credit was ruined due to about 12 defaults & a CCJ as I couldn't afford the minimum payments on my own. Slowly paid it all off using full & final settlements. The…
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I'm new and on the road
Starting this thread as a way to encourage myself to keep on going, if it's out there for people to read then surely I have to stick to it. Me and my husband have been together 18 years this year, we have 3 children, we've had many financial problems over the years, mostly due to being irresponsible and I'll health, last…
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Reformed shopaholic? please can you give me the benefit of your advice
Hi all, :o all I did was join a simple straight forward January 2010 thread for giving up buying toiletries and makeup until I had used up what I already have. That one simple act, plus a few other things in my private life have led me to have to face up to the fact that I am a serious shopaholic and I need to stop before…
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Wendy's "To get it out of my head" Diary
Hello Ive been toying with the idea of my own diary for a while to help when I cant stop thinking about something and to track my progress and any blips. I am in overspend on my Budget for allowing some luxeries (sp) just need to make sure not too many! I have had depression on and off for years so I dont want to be too…
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12 months to be debt free
Hi all After being an extremely long term lurker of these boards iv finally plucked up the courage to start my very own accountability diary. My light bulb beamed brightly about 12 months ago and I made some good progress, til life got in the way AGAIN and I'm now in a worse situation then when I began! I'm a serial…
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Onwards and Upwards - Next Steps!
Hi all, I’ve been a member since 2018 and these diaries used to be an incredible
amount of motivation and support for me. When I first joined around October
2018 and started my diary (if anyone is interested https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5907732/curbing-my-impulse-spending/p1), my debt was at £6967.79…
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Ignored debts, ready to pay
Morning everyone. New poster looking for some advice. During my mid/late 20's I ran up various debts with 3 bank credit cards, student overdrafts on 2 High Street banks and a few pay day lenders. As they became unmanageable. I did start to repay some of the debts through informal agreements after the debts no longer…
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Countdown from £44k.......
Evening All, I have decided to start a debt free diary. I attempted to tackle my debt a few years ago but ended up getting into more debt through house renovations, holidays, and genuinely making irresponsible purchases (thinking i will worry about it later)... Well i have got to the later! Before I show you my SOA, i have…
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Muriel's Diary - almost debt free
Good evening Well this forum has changed a bit since I was last here :smile: I've been unable to crack into my old account so it looks like it's a fresh start. I actually feel a bit of a fraud being here, apart from my mortgage, I only owe £70 on a credit card. I could pay it off but keeping a little bit of debt stops be…
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Matt's Debt Free Journey
Hi all, I moved to a new house earlier this year, and immediately afterwards needed to spend quite a bit on house bits, which I would normally have saved for, but as all savings were used in the house move, have had to put on credit. So my challenge is to pay these back as soon as possible so that I can then get on with…
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I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel...
Hi all, I am here, finally at a point of seeing some debt free freedom! I have been working on a spreadsheet for most of the day, given myself a headache and bitten down most nails... BUT it has been worth it. My finalised total of debt is £7,833.47. I am aiming for this to be gone by November 2021. I have my expenses laid…
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Debt Free Wannabee, finally seen the light
Been in debt most of my adult life. In March I decided enough was enough as it had reached £35K. However as grim as it might sound, its the Covid situation that has fuelled my drive to sort it out. I have always been a spendaholic, quite possibly spending to make myself feel better, however the Covid crisis has rained the…
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Little By Little...
Well, I've been here before! Not on this forum as such, but in this situation. We never seem to learn, but this time is different. This time we are going to clear our debts once and for all. I have been shoving my head in the sand pretending we barely have any debt, but in reality, we have lots and the debt mountain just…
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Time to get cracking
Hi All, The time has come for me to be accountable and take action. I have been a lurker for a while and I am really inspired by the diaries on here. In fact it was reading these that finally gave me the push to write my own diary. We are in approximately £48k of debt😳 The debt has been bubbling away the last few years,…
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Maternity leave debt legacy - £12,000 to £0 in 10 months?!
Hi All I've been somewhat of a lurker on these boards, and reading everyone else's DFDs. You've inspired me to post my own and get some help along the way as I aim to clear down my debt. I started my DF journey in February 2020 with just over £12k personal unsecured debt after two 12 month poorly paid maternity leaves…
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The First Day of the Rest of My Life.......
Well here we go, time to drag my head out the sand and start taking control of my life. I’m hurtling rapidly towards the big 4-0 and up to now have been coasting and going with the flow, a passenger in my own life. Procrastination is the thief of time and it’s time I did something about it. I’ve been in varying amounts of…
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Debt Free by December 2021
Hi, Long time lurker and long time debt buster. Husband and I have been paying down our debt for almost 3 years now. Started following Dave Ramsey about a year ago and we're currently just over half way through BS2. Debt at it's highest was over £13,000. We have 2 children (dinosaur 1 and 2) who are our 'why'. Husband…
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Determined and a little ashamed
So i have taken the plunge and decided to start a diary on here in the hope that it will keep me on tract and have the support of others doing the same thing. My story is probably familiar me and my husband managed to get debt free years ago after getting into serious debt and having to consolidate everything and get it…
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Burnt out and broke
So after months years in an downward cycle of shuffling increasing balances around 0% offers and several weeks reading through DFW, diary threads and the DMP support thread, I've bitten the bullet and cancelled all my direct debits to my credit cards, written to my creditors and approached SC to set up a debt management…
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35 and still not learnt a thing!
So due to covid 19 I am back on benefits and I have just realised I'm screwed for the month, well probably the year. I need to get back on track money wise and mentally and when I was struggling years ago this forum really helped me. So the big issue I have this month is due to receiving the self employment grant universal…