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Monday 16th June *Daily Chat Thread*

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  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    OMG Mrs Dawn...That is terrible sending you:grouphug:

    I really thing that you need to confront him as soon as possible. Its the only way forward I can see otherwise you will just keep getting that churning feeling everytime he is out of the house.

    Whatever his explanation at least you can talk about it and deal with it one way or another.

    Stay positive, innocent until proven guilty:)
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • System
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    Ive got a headache. :wave: hi everyone
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,571 Ambassador
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    Maz3374 wrote: »
    i think Keren leaving has had an effect on us all TBH.

    Makes us think about a life outside the safety of here. not that i'm suggesting you have to worry on that score Toto, what with you being all rock n roll/brit awards etc etc!!

    but it makes you wonder about the dependency we have on this place, which is not necesarrily a bad thing.

    A few people have been taking a step back lately.... snags, Lucifa, jinky, Bunny, Ginger Ste, IA even.... . People are moving on and expanding their lives, which can only be good for them.

    Maybe i should do that too................

    Great post maz.
    I think the same.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,571 Ambassador
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    Sorry Mrs Dawn that things seem tough at the mo.
    Hope it proves to be innocent.

    Toto~Hope you are back on your normal form soon.
    Take care hun.
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  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,528 Forumite
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    why the headache Lenny? surely you've not been drinking again????
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  • Numpty_Monkey
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    lennymfo wrote: »
    Ive got a headache. :wave: hi everyone

    been on the wine agaian lenny:confused:
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
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  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    hi guys... i hope noones offended by what i said earlier and didn't mean to put a downer on anyone's day.

    Z - you do talk some sense! Noone is wholly fulfilled, all of the time are they?

    Mrs Dawn, you should just sit on the feelings until he next mentions her name, in whatever context, and say oh yeah, who is this Kat... is she going out with AN Other bloke? You might get an answer that will put your mind at rest.

    Keep posting on here. It definately helps!!

    IA- it's ace that you are getting out there and doing stuff for yourself. No criticism intended babe!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,528 Forumite
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    Hi Maz, not offended at all. hope you and Erin are both well. x
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  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    Mrs Dawn - I would confront him ASAP. Tell him what you know, tell him getting the kids involved was a no-no, and tell him exactly how you feel about it. He might have been mindlessly flirting, and didn't stop to realise how much it would hurt you. Some blokes get carried away with a lass showing an interest. I was in a simialr position once, I got the lass' number, called her and asked her if she was aware he had a girlfriend. Turned out he hadn't mentioned, and had made a date with her that weekend - his feet didn;t hit the floor when he got back home - his stuff was on the front lawn.

    Hugs love, it's tough, but aren't you worth enough to find out the truth?

    Toto - I hadn't twigged what you do, still don't lol. Take it you're some sort of showbiz person perhaps......OMG ---- Is that you Britney??!!! Don't you worry Brits, you'll be fine. Smetimes I think I spent too much time on here, but I've picked up so many tips and help. Besides, I have very few mates, thanks to having small children and no opportunity to make new friends, so I get my kicks here lol.
    This year I'm getting organised once and for all, and going to buy a house with my wonderful other half. And that' s final!

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  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    maz where is the post i might get offended by:confused:

    don't think you have ever posted anything offensive :A
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
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