Monday 16th June *Daily Chat Thread*

Mrs_Dawn

Probably not the right place to get this off my chest, but I need to say it to someone. My children were helping me do the dishes and they just started chatting, as children do and they told me that OH has been getting phone calls from a girl called Kat, on his old mobile phone, when I'm not around. He's told the children not to tell me!!!! and when he hung up after chatting to her he said Goodbye gorgeous.
What the bloomin heck do I do.
I'm sitting here sobbing and I don't want to upset the children.
OH not home tonight he's away in his lorry.

Sorry to babble, but I''ve been here with my 1st husband I don't bloody want to go through that again.

What do I do, if I ask him he'll just say the children are lying.:mad:

Gemmzie

How do you report a member for sending spam PMs? They have a zero post count

skint_spice

awww Mrs Dawn, it could be nothing but you really need to talk to him, I know you say he'll just deny it but why would the kids lie?
Hopefully it's nothing. x

immoral_angeluk

Maz3374 wrote: »

A few people have been taking a step back lately.... snags, Lucifa, jinky, Bunny, Ginger Ste, IA even.... . People are moving on and expanding their lives, which can only be good for them

I didn't realise it appeared I'd been taking a step back... I haven't intentionally.. it's just I've been so busy that sometimes I don't get as much time to post as much as I usually do. That and I tend to think that my life is quite boring when I talk about the same things day in day out on my diary... I am trying to keep my diary updated as much as possible though..

Buffythedebtslayer

Mrs_Dawn wrote: »

Probably not the right place to get this off my chest, but I need to say it to someone. My children were helping me do the dishes and they just started chatting, as children do and they told me that OH has been getting phone calls from a girl called Kat, on his old mobile phone, when I'm not around. He's told the children not to tell me!!!! and when he hung up after chatting to her he said Goodbye gorgeous.
What the bloomin heck do I do.
I'm sitting here sobbing and I don't want to upset the children.
OH not home tonight he's away in his lorry.

Sorry to babble, but I''ve been here with my 1st husband I don't bloody want to go through that again.

What do I do, if I ask him he'll just say the children are lying.:mad:

then you say why would they lie? what are you doing? who is Kat?

I am so sorry hon. its not fair. do you really think he is cheating on you? could it be an old friend who doesn't have his new number?

xxx

Numpty_Monkey

Gemmzie wrote: »

How do you report a member for sending spam PMs? They have a zero post count

I send a email to abuse team, on subject i put reporting spam PM from user
I copy the full PM including user name , a brief explaniation and send it

immoral_angeluk

Mrs_Dawn wrote: »

Probably not the right place to get this off my chest, but I need to say it to someone. My children were helping me do the dishes and they just started chatting, as children do and they told me that OH has been getting phone calls from a girl called Kat, on his old mobile phone, when I'm not around. He's told the children not to tell me!!!! and when he hung up after chatting to her he said Goodbye gorgeous.
What the bloomin heck do I do.
I'm sitting here sobbing and I don't want to upset the children.
OH not home tonight he's away in his lorry.

Sorry to babble, but I''ve been here with my 1st husband I don't bloody want to go through that again.

What do I do, if I ask him he'll just say the children are lying.:mad:

Oh hun so sorry to hear this.... but it doesn't sound very good... especially if he told the children not to tell you...

Mrs_Dawn

Thanks guys. He just rang to say goodnight I didn't say anything, can't over the phone really. He's having some flowers delivered to work on Friday for my birthday, the only time I've had flowers was when the children were born. Why now all of a sudden. He said I sounded grumpy, just said I was tired, can't stop bloody crying. Got a headache and feel lousy. I've got a really bad feeling about this, mainly because he's a lorry driver and two weeks ago he ran out of driving time an hour from home, he met up with one of his mates and they went to the pub for a pint and some food. A couple of days later he was telling a friend about it and that he sent a photo of his mate with this Kat and another girl drapped around him, to another mate to make him jealous, he hadn't told me he'd seen this girl in the pub. Then he lets slip that his mate needed some milk and they went to this Kat's house to get some.
What would you think. Am I just being paranoid:mad:

SuzySu

Do you trust him Mrs Dawn? There might be a perfectly innocent explanation, but TBH the fact that he has told the children not to say anything to you is not fair on you, but especially not fair on them. Like you, I would be beside myself and in the same state you are in now. I have never been there, but I can imagine the sick feeling and stomach-churning that you are going through. If he respects you as his wife, I don't think he should be behaving in such a way.

Please be strong.

floss2

Gemmzie wrote: »

How do you report a member for sending spam PMs? They have a zero post count

Was that from xyzlove, Gemmzie? I've just had one too.....sent a copy to the abuse email address