Mizmir's determined to get there diary

boredofbeingathome

Gosh does sound like you have had a rollercoaster of a couple of days Miz. It probably did you good to let it all out. sorry to hear about the work medical...absolute shocker when you are told stuff you don't want to hear, i know i started to lose weight when i had to have an op and my BMI was too high for the local hospital. The consultant was great to me though and said everything else was ok and not to worry too much, my weight problems would be better after and they were..The other thing i always find surreal is that i still feel the same inside, but the body is getting older and we have to look after ourselves. Sounds like you have made a good start already. X

elantan

Karmacat wrote: »

Mizmir, ever since I saw your post at 1pm, I've been racking my brains to think of what it reminded me of, and I have it now: its that famous Stephen Covey book, the 7 habits of highly successful people. There's a grid in it, more or less as follows:

Top Left: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Top Right:
Important and Urgent . . . . . . . .Important and Not Urgent
eg some client meetings, . . . . . .eg weekend with friends, planning
tax bill. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . meetings

Bottom Left: . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Bottom Right
Urgent and Not Important. . . . . .Not Urgent and Not Important
eg somephone calls, emails. . . . .computer games, watching tv

I had to put the dots in to make the spaces. I love the idea of differentiating between "Urgent" and "important", thats really helpful to me.

confession time i just sold this book on amazon and hadnt read it all i found i didnt have time lol ...how bad am i

elantan

ooooo miz sorry just read further on are you ok hun? i think there is a lot of changes in emotions just now for a few people ...hope your ok

mizmir

Think so El. It is weird - I'm not unhappy but I just keep crying. Got to get a grip...

elantan

you know something that really isnt all that unusual to be honest have done it myself a few times ...the least slightest thing would set me off ...just now i'm reading steve and me a book about steve irwin and you know i cry almost everytime i pick it up ....so honest you aint alone but sending you a big hug and hope it helps

mizmir

Yeah - I'm like that too. Don't mind so much at home (OH is used to it!) but I have to get a grip at work. But it feels like just a physiological reaction - it happens and I can't stop it.

Anyway - I should think about going to bed - could be partly just being tired. Take care.

hypno06

Hi miz, hope you are feeling better this morning x

elantan

hey miz just checking in to see how you are mrs ....hope your ok

lucielle

Morning Miz, hope you had a good nights sleep.
L

The_Dragon

I caught your news this morning mizmir and just sending you HUGE cyber hugs. I hope things are better for you today and at least it is the weekend!

If nothing else you know that your OH, your dogs and all of us are behind you 100%!