Merry's Bankrupt Life - OR Interview tomorrow - 07.07.08!!

dalip

Merry_Gentry wrote: »

That is so the thing - when the trust goes how do you get it back?It taks a long time but i am hoping it does eventually! Even with the best will in the world, how do you stop yourself from throwing stuff in people's faces when you're rowing?You stop and think before you speak, if i can do it anybody can;) And the pulling in opposite directions is just so flippin painful - both of you think you're doing the right thing, but it's not gelling!



Ditto!!! I find it hard to sit back and wait - I want to be in control of things, which sometimes is good but other times leads me to do things too quickly,yes and regret it, but once the deeds done it is a very hard lesson to learn from but at least I feel in control :rolleyes:

As for finding somewhere to live, again it's a difficult one. If you're going BR it's probably best to find somewhere that's happy to rent to undischarged bankrupts. And if you really feel it's time to part ways - deep down I think we know when that time has come - then just remember that even though you're not superwoman you are a strong womanmaybe not as strong as you would have others believe and you will get through this. (((HUGS)))

I could say more but i really think merry,you have made up your mind. I just hope it is the right descision and that you don't live to regret it. You say you would rather see your OH happy with someone else.REALLY do you really mean that deep down or are you trying to convince yourself as well as us?. Trouble is with us strong people we often don't like to admit we have weaknesses like the rest of the human race.

Could waffle for england(so whats new???)on ths one but won't, you have enough on your plate as it is.Take care girl.D

Merry_Gentry

Hey you!! Hark at me spewing my innards out on a Saturday morning :rolleyes: I have made the best decision for me and the girls, and am if not 'happy' am sure that it's the right thing to do.

alial

Thanks Merry, really appreciate what you said. Feel a bit confused at the moment as to what to do next, guess diary it is!

((Hugs back))

Merry_Gentry

alial wrote: »

Thanks Merry, really appreciate what you said. Feel a bit confused at the moment as to what to do next, guess diary it is!

((Hugs back))

First thing you need to do is ring one of the free debt counselling services in people's signatures. Go through just your finances and get advice about what you should do personally because if you and your OH are going separate ways or not, this is about what's the best thing for YOU.

Once you have done that, you can post an income and expenditure thingy for the lovely peeps on here to cast their eyes over and see if they can help you.

Merry_Gentry

Top-ranking_bug wrote: »

You can only draw cash (£200 a day) with this card, but at any ATM.

Need to remember this for 10th June - we'll need to take out £200 per day for five days to cover me and H.

Merry_Gentry

Major D'oh moment - the electron cards don't start til 06/08 and that explains why they keep being rejected when I am trying to top up the phones






:rotfl:

EssexHebridean

Merry_Gentry wrote: »

Major D'oh moment - the electron cards don't start til 06/08 and that explains why they keep being rejected when I am trying to top up the phones






:rotfl:

I'm sure you've thought of this already Merry, but is that going to give you a problem with taking out the cash you need for your BR fees?

Merry_Gentry

Hee hee, nah, that's why I put a reminder that we can only take out £200 per day, so need to do it over five days before the 10th!!

Waspeze

Merry_Gentry wrote: »

Hee hee, nah, that's why I put a reminder that we can only take out £200 per day, so need to do it over five days before the 10th!!

Or go into the branch Merry that way you can still draw a bit on your card to live on

Merry_Gentry

Thanks Waspy