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Meeting new people with little or no money - Is it possible??

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  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    This is very true, there needs to be a physical attraction, if it wasn't for that the human race would have died out ages ago!

    But in turn people grow older, so a good personally is also a good idea. My I'm not fussy, attractive with a good personality, not much to ask for!!
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Riq wrote: »
    There is always an amount of shallowness.

    If they have the world's greatest personality but look like they have been attacked by a madman with a spade and you don't fancy them looks wise, I honestly don't think it will last
    i have to disagree:rolleyes:
    OH is not exactly attractive.and I dont recall ever * fancying* him:cool:
    We have been together for 11 years
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  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    I'm not sure Tete, keep posting!
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  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    It makes it easier and more fun when you have friends supporting you.

    And if you do have any total disasters, you can tell them all about it and it will seem funny rather than tragic!
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  • Sugarplumfairy_2
    Sugarplumfairy_2 Posts: 2,861 Forumite
    Eeks, I hope that doesn't make me look shallow that I judged them on how they looked!!! It's just I'm a giantess so I need a tall man, and we've already established it's all about the hair... and I want a man with a modicum of social decorum!! That's all!

    Not shallow at all, but you obviously have to be attracted to them or there is no point. Doesn't matter what there personality is like , if they look like a hobbit and drag their knuckles, then no amount of personality would persuade me. Though having said that I am not particularly attracted to 'pretty' boys. Prefer them to be a bit rough and ready :D
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
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  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    2 of my ex's were rugby players.

    I like rough and ready, but not to rough!!! (they have nice bums to!)
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  • Sugarplumfairy_2
    Sugarplumfairy_2 Posts: 2,861 Forumite
    jinky67 wrote: »
    i have to disagree:rolleyes:
    OH is not exactly attractive.and I dont recall ever * fancying* him:cool:
    We have been together for 11 years

    But you must have 'fancied' him or you wouldn't have got together ? :confused:
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • Sugarplumfairy_2
    Sugarplumfairy_2 Posts: 2,861 Forumite
    And if you do have any total disasters, you can tell them all about it and it will seem funny rather than tragic!

    Exactly ! And there has been a few tragic ones :D
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Eeks, I hope that doesn't make me look shallow that I judged them on how they looked!!! It's just I'm a giantess so I need a tall man, and we've already established it's all about the hair... and I want a man with a modicum of social decorum!! That's all!

    Ahh that made me smile, one of my mates is very tall and always said she could only go out with blokes taller than her... but the only guy she's ever really been in love with (her admission) was about 5'3" :D
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
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  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    Ahh that made me smile, one of my mates is very tall and always said she could only go out with blokes taller than her... but the only guy she's ever really been in love with (her admission) was about 5'3" :D


    Isn't that s*ds law!!

    My best mate is 5 ft 11 and her partner is only 5ft 9. you don't really notice it until her wears heels which make her 6 ft + :eek:

    At 5 ft 7 I've never really had that problem :rolleyes:
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
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