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So_Sad_Angel

Packing at moment ( well trying as having to work most of day) got boxes all over & hope to move (get keys 2nd May) . Trouble is it all makes me feel so disorganised...I hate it!!

On the pension front it might be worth speaking to a pension advisor (not about your BR ) but about the long term implications of higher annual pension rather than lump sum (some larger Banks offer free advice). After all I would not think that the OR can force you to take lump sum at the detriment of your long term future...especially if you need that income to live on.

Angex

dialysis

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Packing at moment ( well trying as having to work most of day) got boxes all over & hope to move (get keys 2nd May) . Trouble is it all makes me feel so disorganised...I hate it!!

On the pension front it might be worth speaking to a pension advisor (not about your BR ) but about the long term implications of higher annual pension rather than lump sum (some larger Banks offer free advice). After all I would not think that the OR can force you to take lump sum at the detriment of your long term future...especially if you need that income to live on.

Angex

I think you are doing real well if you are working as well. It is awful living in such a mess though the thing I hated most was the fact I spent all day packing and then one of my kids or hubby would say they needed something I had already packed, try remembering which box you put it in. My daughter was the worst I will never figure out why she needed all her wardrobe for two days before we moved Dont worry it will all come together in the end and before you know it you will be in and settled. Good idea about the pension I will try the banks, thanks

Dianex

HenryWeston

InTheBrownStuff wrote: »

I live on a similar estate, facing a lake, all detached houses, and you know what I used to be one of them. I unloaded my car with 10 bags of LIDL shopping today and a massive grin on my face knowing they would be gossiping about me. I even whistled while i was doing it to make sure they seen me:rotfl:

Keep your chin up, things WILL get better

Your neighbours will gossip about you because you have shopped at Lidl, 'shop snobbery' LOL?! are they really that pathetic? Lidl's a great shop! they sell some of the best chocolate ive tasted :cool2:

autismmum

big hugs to all how have supported dyalysis, and each other, keep going,
dyalysis, pop to library or walk in the park each day to keep you seratonin levels up, and try to organise somthing good to do each week even if its just a different place once a week to share a coffee with hubby. we did this when times were rough.. couldnt afford anything except a coffee each and just walked to different ones in the town in our best togs for a mini date.
keeps it going and feels good. big hugs xx