Depression Support Thread

Sazbo

Tiff wrote: »

yyyyyy......eeeeee.......

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

rose07

Hiya everyone

hope we are all safe and sound on whatever day this is :rotfl:

yes im still busy, finished work on friday, did i get a goodbye, or a card, or a present? nooooooo :rolleyes:, why do we bother eh , maybe i expect too much lol :rotfl:

tooth is a tad better now, pain jumps every soo often but we will see

Tiff nice to see ya posting, and you too sazzie xxxxx

RBK how r u atm? ........1 day to go, much love xxxx

ilgd yes totally can understand toothache, i thought i was gonna die this week :rotfl: with the pain, haha, but hopefully....fingers crosssed its ok, how r u doing atm hun? been thinking bout you xxxxxx

and a big



to tyler , we are all a friendly family here, just talk and share as much as you can or as little we will listen xxx

ok to everyone else







take care everyone im off to take my for a walk now the rain has stopped


huggles
xxxxxxxxxxx

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shazrobo

Tulip wrote: »

:hello: Shaz,

Glad you and the boys had a great time in Scotland,which part did you go to out of interest?

:hello: Saz,hope you are alright and enjoying the weekend,I feel ok and less tired as I had a nice lie in today

love and light,

Katie xxx

hi katie, glad your feeling better, just catchin up on last weeks posts, still loads to read lol
we went to ayr
big hugs
shaz xxx

top_drawer_2

razorbladekisses wrote: »

top_drawer How are you feeling?

Sorry to hear about the problems you are having regarding your dissertation. They don't seem to be supporting you at all Is there anyone else whom you can speak with about your options?

It's a shame about them cancelling your counselling as I'm sure you could have done with talking to someone this week. It's annoying when we find someone that we like and then for whatever reason you can no longer see them. Will you see someone else instead?

hi again,

I seem to have spoken to everyone who I can but they just take ages to get back to me. The independant Advice women said at this time of year the tutors are very busy marking exams and preparing for the boards etc. That doesnt help me at all though to find out what the situation is ....

I didnt get offered to see anyone else ... and I will have to wait to see her on Friday as normal ... why is it with counsellors that everything is always in their favour - with the client getting less time and then I always feel I cant conplain because then ive rocked the relationship and she might be less helpful/nice.

I've come home for the weekend mainly because I wanted to see Duke, the dog and its been pretty miserable. My Mum mentioned yesterday going out for a sunday lunch this afternoon so I have been hanging around looking forward to a Sunday lunch and mentioned it a couple of times this morning and she implied yeh it was still on .. then at 2ish she suddenly says its off because she doesnt feel well and now theyve gone out to the pub as normal ... I dont know who I feel angrier with; myself for falling for her mind games or her for still continuing to use them.

Last night when they came back from the pub I was sat on the sofa watching tv and started texting my friend and my Mum in a withering tone of voice (like You fool, what are you doing!) asked who I was texting and I said ... whats it to you? do I demand to know all private conversations .... and immediately she announced that ...If thats how im going to be then I owe her £x amount of money for a,b and c....

I cant wait to get back to my house ... where I dont have to tolerate this poo...

Jen

top_drawer_2

RBK,

how's the toothache btw?

Have you managed to get something sorted for the long term?

Jen

Maverick33

Hi Everyone..
Hope all are ok, i haven't been around much this past week as i kinda lacked the motivation to even log on - lol..

ilovegreatdanes

hi,
watched the nancys last nite and jodie, my fav and tulips, won.then watched brits got talent and my fav, george won as well.:)i loved signature as well so i was really chuffed.
then blow me down, what do i read from tinternet 2day......fern brittans(sp)hasnt lost the weight through diet and exercise like she always claimed .....but shes had a gastric band fitted.
now i know theyre celebs and not of the real world(bit like me most of the time, i hear you all cry:) ).....and why should this affect me so much.
well, i feel:mad: and cheated, tbh.its like saying that if you are a larger lady(ahem!), then however much dieting the diet and exercise way, that you do....you will never get there...i know you will but.....i think this news will really be bad news for everyones whose big and wants to lose at least 4/5 stone for themselses and healthwise.if she had just told everyone from the start then i wondnt have been bothered.if i had the dosh, id have the op asap but thats not the point.
anyway.....rant over.its so strange how these things upset me, when why should i care about celebs .

rose.....hi, hope you are feelin better.hope honeys good as well.xx
hi sazz and tiff and tulip.
shaz....im glad you had such a good hol.you derserved it.

tyler.....hi and welcome.have to agree with tiff and sazzy.think sam is taking all the stuff out on you cos she loves you so much and i think shes testing out how much you love her by how much she can hurt you right now, before you leave her like your baby did, iykwim.to her all the weight issues/miscarriage/, families other new babies/depression are all mixing up in her perception so she cant think straight atm and she feels like shes a failure.she might want you to tell her dad even though she says not to cos she isnt sure how her fam will react so is scare that they will judge her.she is touchy about the weight cos she may be thinkin that your comments mean that you blame her for the loss of the baby cos she wasnt size 10.
we know that you dont mean anything but good in the comments but, women hate their men to utter anything connected with weight gain, at the best of times...and i think this is a time where shes putting 2 and 2 together to add to 100.
its hard to know if leaving her alone is good or bad.she prob needs the space to think it through...but also that means she has time to brood and blow it up out of proportion.
sam must decide in her own time if she needs counselling or ,in her case, when she goes.the more you push, i think the worse it will get.
its hard to sit and talk to anyone about her stuff atm, even to you.
its made harder for her as your bro as just had a baby, just unfortunately at the same time.so your familys naturally made up for them but upset for you two.
sam is also thinkin that the tests revealed you were fine so the blames mounting up, iykwim.
i dont think she means to take it out on you and i dont think she wants a divorce or selling home,....but i think she feels backed into a corner and is trying to find anything to hurt you with so you can know how much she is hurting atm....shes prob wont rem half the stuff shes said or done.
i think that in some ways, a miscarriage is worse than losing a child...not that im demeaning any death and i apologise if im taken the wrong way, but you have still lost a child but you dont have a grave or any physical body to hug and to mourn, so its harder in a way to come to terms with.
we all grieve in our own ways, so out pourings are violent, which may be better in the long run instead of bottling it up inside.
please give yourselves time and let her know that you are trying to understnd the best you can and that you will be there whenever she wants to talk about it.good luck. i hope i havent offended you in any way as thats not my intention .please take my post as advice given in the best intended way.

sorry for the length of the post, ......am givin tiff a run for her money today:)
hugs to all,
love ilgd xx