Depression Support Thread

weegie.geek

LadyMorticia wrote: »

Heya RBK.

His new girlfriend will find out what he's like eventually - unless she likes the clingy needy, emotional abusive type - then it's a match made in heaven.lol.
He lives in Ireland and she lives in Staffordshire. He's only ever gone out with people who don't live near him. My friend said maybe all the girls in Ireland know what he's like. He just goes on and on about her. He's like a broken record. "She is so this that and the other" and "She is so beautiful. I want to spend the rest of my life with her". Hm. He said that to me once too. I just want to so desperately snap at him and tell him exactly what I think. But I don't want to hurt him like he hurt me.

Sounds to me like he's trying to convince himself rather than you. Who cares about his girlfriend, really? Particularly, why would his ex want to know?

If you two are on good enough terms that you're talking, then I'm sure you're happy he's happy, but the guy needs to learn a little tact. It's pretty tasteless to be singing the praises of your new woman to your emotionally vulnerable ex.

You'll know better than us whether it's malicious, but at the very least he's a thoughtless !!!!!!.

My new toy should be coming tomorrow...

LadyMorticia

weegie.geek wrote: »

Sounds to me like he's trying to convince himself rather than you. Who cares about his girlfriend, really? Particularly, why would his ex want to know?

If you two are on good enough terms that you're talking, then I'm sure you're happy he's happy, but the guy needs to learn a little tact. It's pretty tasteless to be singing the praises of your new woman to your emotionally vulnerable ex.

You'll know better than us whether it's malicious, but at the very least he's a thoughtless !!!!!!.

My new toy should be coming tomorrow...

He's malicious and spiteful and very manipulative. He throws his toys out of the pram when he doesn't get his own way. Stuff him.lol. I have enough to deal with right now without him adding to it. I've blocked him on msn and bebo for now. Maybe just until I'm stronger.

Wow! That is a beauty.

xx

LadyMorticia

Right lovelies.

I'm off to try and get some sleep now.
I hope you all have a good night.

xx

Sazbo

LadyMorticia wrote: »

Right lovelies.

I'm off to try and get some sleep now.
I hope you all have a good night.

xx

Me too. Good night Lady M, good night my dears :wave:

Much love,
Sazzy xxxxxxxx

weegie.geek

LadyMorticia wrote: »

He's malicious and spiteful and very manipulative

Why do people bother with that crap? Surely they have better things to do with their time?

I've blocked him on msn and bebo for now

Best thing to do.

shazrobo

morning all, feeling bit rough today, sore throat, headache etc.
didnt sleep too well either, as one of sons has had a bad day at school.
hope everyone else is ok
big hugs
shaz xx

pipkin71

Hi all.

Not read this thread yet, but have popped by after it was recommended [thanks sazbo].

Not sure what if anything to write, but will browse for a while if that's ok.

Pipkin xxxx

Diamond78

Stephb1986 wrote: »

Im full of a cold its my fellas birthday tomorrow we're supposed to be going out for a meal with his family i look like rudolph
and we're going to scarborough for the weekend too

any ideas on how to get me better by tomorrow??

Steph xxx

They say thats the best remedy is honey and lemon in hot water. Get some lemsip to but the non drowsy one, hope you feel better and your fella has a nice birthday.Enjoy your meal and your weekend away.

Diamond78

shazrobo wrote: »

morning all, feeling bit rough today, sore throat, headache etc.
didnt sleep too well either, as one of sons has had a bad day at school.
hope everyone else is ok
big hugs
shaz xx

Hi Hun,
Your feeling run down probaly.Having a bad nights sleep causes headaches and remember not smoking will give you side affects like sore throat and headaches as well as sleeping rough.Try an drelax today, I know its hard but do it for you.HUGsssss xx

Diamond78

pipkin71 wrote: »

Hi all.

Not read this thread yet, but have popped by after it was recommended [thanks sazbo].

Not sure what if anything to write, but will browse for a while if that's ok.

Pipkin xxxx

Hiya, welcome to the thread.You can write what ever you want, what ever you feel, get anything off your chest.Everyone is really nice and supportive on this thread.Take care x