Depression Support Thread

Diamond78

Hello everyone,
Hope your all good and well.
Shazrobo hun, sorry your feeling a little down hun.Hope your ok a little now. Hows your new cd?Hope its great.
Gosh,just watched eastenders,poor Frank, in real life to he passed away.Made my eyes water.
Havent done much today.Had a bit of a s@@@ day to be honest. I had an appointment for pest control to come round and sort out the mice infestation. I have been waiting months for them to come and they didnt turn up.Kept ringing them only to be put on hold.I had being on hold and each time it was over 20 minutes.My appointment was from 8am till 1pm.At 4.40pm I managed to get through after again being put on hld to be told they dont know why no one turned up and why no one rang me and no one was there to answer me.Im fuming.
Why are the council so slow,rubbish and unhelpful.I know not all of them are like this, but I feel I am being pushed over the edge.The house I went to see last week which is privately owned has lost his paper work for electric safety and home ownership, so I have to wait til the end of the week to hear about that.I try to be positive and think properly but when they treat me like this, I feel I am being dragged down in the gutter.The environmental health team have said that the landlord has not responded about the works he needs to carry out as my front door is a category 1 hazard.I have already fallen down the stairs.His had a month to respond and do the works and hasnt so now he will get another letter giving him another 21 days to respond.!!!!!!!!!
I dont know if its a good idea but I am thinking of not paying the landlord his rent for this month.It gets paid in arrears anyway but the way he is making loud banging noises from his office including now is begining to get me angry.
I want to use the rent money for a deposit if i find somewhere, maybe he can issue me with eviction but i still wont get no help.Im smoking again and not eating, so much for me getting better.
Enough of my rant now,hope your all ok and enjoyed the lovely sunshine today.Take care all xx

shazrobo

hiya diamond, sorry the council are making life hard for you right now, hope you and littleman get the house you so deserve real soon.
have sent you pm
big hugs
shaz xxx

Diamond78

shazrobo wrote: »

hiya diamond, sorry the council are making life hard for you right now, hope you and littleman get the house you so deserve real soon.
have sent you pm
big hugs
shaz xxx

Thanks hun xxx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

LadyMortica Your ex talking about his girlfriend to you was really inappropriate. Don't let him make you feel bad about yourself, he isn't worth it.

Well done on resisting the temptation to hurt yourself. I can imagine it was very hard.

I love 'Ain't no mountain high enough' I remember hearing it on the film Stepmom which is kind of sad nice song though.

ilovegreatdanes Why are your posts being deleted? :mad: I hope it stops, I would hate for you to leave this thread.

Diamond Did you manage to speak to the parents of the boy who was bullying your son?

Sorry to hear about the difficulties you are having trying to find a place to live Everything to do with the council seems to take forever

Tulip Wasn't it thoughful of your CPN to send you a good luck postcard How is the food diary?

:j Pleased to hear that you got your camera I bet you can't wait to start taking photos. I'm looking forward to seeing some of your pottery.

Helping out at the cafe sounds like a good idea

Shazrobo Hun, you really do deserve some 'me time' I'm glad you enjoyed your guitar lesson. How often does the depression support group meet? It sounds quite good. At least it's a chance for you to get out the house and meet others who are experiencing similar things. How was woodwork? What are you making at the moment? Have fun in the textiles class tomorrow

:hello: santashelper It's nice to see you posting. Sorry to hear that things are difficult right now. Sending (((HUGS))) your way.

slowlyfading Hang in there hun (((HUGS))) Look after yourself.

Pricy147 The first step would be for the person to make an appointment with their GP to discuss how they are feeling e.t.c the Doctor may then decide to refer them for counseling.

:hello: jinky welcome, I can't answer your question but wanted to say hello.

Diamond78

Hi RBK,no I didnt manage to talk to parents as when I tried yesterday, they went another way and got in a car, so didnt see who the man that picked them up was.Today again I didnt see who the parent was but I am hoping someone will point her/him out to me as I have never seen them before so dont know what they look like.Head teacher had words with the kid and the kid said sorry to DS.I asked DS if he picked on him today and he said no. Its such a horrible situation to be in.Im worried he will be targeted now as head told the kid off.Kids can be cruel,DS has no chance against a year 6 boy as he is only in year 1.Im so glad the 2 weeks half term is coming up.We send our kids to school to learn ect, not to get bullied but this happens everywhere.Its so unfair.
I know Im sad but Im watching my beloved man u play and Rooney boy has just scored lol.Im no footie maniac but watch it so my son can get in to it more.I take him football training on saturdays and he really enjoys it and DS supports Arsenal.Who knows, he may be the next Rooney.Sending you hugs RBK xx

Stephb1986_2

Im full of a cold its my fellas birthday tomorrow we're supposed to be going out for a meal with his family i look like rudolph
and we're going to scarborough for the weekend too

any ideas on how to get me better by tomorrow??

Steph xxx

shazrobo

Shazrobo Hun, you really do deserve some 'me time' I'm glad you enjoyed your guitar lesson. How often does the depression support group meet? It sounds quite good. At least it's a chance for you to get out the house and meet others who are experiencing similar things. How was woodwork? What are you making at the moment? Have fun in the textiles class tomorrow

hi rbk, how are you today? the depression support group meets once a fortnight, good to get out of house, and meet others in similar situation.
woodwork was good, made a mistake last time i went as i cut some pieces of wood the wrong size. i got embarrased and upset by it, and the project worker was really nice, and said dont worry about it girlie, its only a piece of wood, no harm done, your hear to learn, making a shelving unit at the mo, for my large collection of dvd's and games.

steph, not sure that anything will cure a cold in one day, but i find beechams flu plus really good

big hugs
shaz xx

LadyMorticia

Heya RBK.

His new girlfriend will find out what he's like eventually - unless she likes the clingy needy, emotional abusive type - then it's a match made in heaven.lol.
He lives in Ireland and she lives in Staffordshire. He's only ever gone out with people who don't live near him. My friend said maybe all the girls in Ireland know what he's like. He just goes on and on about her. He's like a broken record. "She is so this that and the other" and "She is so beautiful. I want to spend the rest of my life with her". Hm. He said that to me once too. I just want to so desperately snap at him and tell him exactly what I think. But I don't want to hurt him like he hurt me.

juno

Look, no wires!

I'm on my bed with my EEE and wireless inernet

LadyMorticia

juno wrote: »

Look, no wires!

I'm on my bed with my EEE and wireless inernet

Wireless rocks!

I'm on my bed too. I used to have my ethernet cable going from my laptop to the modem on the bedside cabinet when I was using the laptop in bed but I hate things getting tangled up so decided to take the wireless unit out of storage.

xx