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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    been a long day today, hope tommorrow passes more quickly hate feeling down for no real reason, sick of this bloody depresion.
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • Diamond78
    Diamond78 Posts: 1,443 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    been a long day today, hope tommorrow passes more quickly hate feeling down for no real reason, sick of this bloody depresion.
    shaz xxx

    Hey hun, sending you a huge hug. Tomorrow will pass quickly. Maybe go out for the day, listen to music. Its suppose to be nice and sunny tomorrow.xx
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Diamond78 wrote: »
    Hey hun, sending you a huge hug. Tomorrow will pass quickly. Maybe go out for the day, listen to music. Its suppose to be nice and sunny tomorrow.xx
    thanks hun, need hugs, feel so lonely, and isolated, spent the last two days with the kids and nobody else, they just talk to each other, usually bout football which i know nothing about, and i feel excluded.
    only time i'm wanted is to cook, and clean up after them
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • Diamond78
    Diamond78 Posts: 1,443 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    thanks hun, need hugs, feel so lonely, and isolated, spent the last two days with the kids and nobody else, they just talk to each other, usually bout football which i know nothing about, and i feel excluded.
    only time i'm wanted is to cook, and clean up after them

    I know the feeling hun, someties I feel like a slave and I still have this for years to come. You need to find yourself something to do when you feel lonely and isolated.Im the same but its worse for my son as he only has me to tlk to. All he goes on about is his games on ps2, I have to sit there sometimes and play with him and at first I never enjoyed it, now I really enjoy playing games as I find it stops me thinking of what ever it is im thinking of as I concentrate on the game.
    sometimes I listen to the radio. I listen to kiss or capital as they are mood lifting music for me, everyones taste is different.
    I have to find things to do and I really dont know what Im going to do but Im sure something will come up.Hugs xx
  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    lots of huggles for those who need them. ********hugs********
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  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    Why do some people assume that because I am so young and on benefits that it means I have never worked? It really annoys me. I worked for almost 3 years before I got really ill. Blooming judgemental people really pee me off.

    xx
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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Finally had a chat with our son about him keeping us awake the other night - he pushed it too far and want to be able to sleep in our own home, not have a partyzone every night!!

    He also needed picking up about his bad manners - he was really considerate until he met some new mates. I was upset that he said Eff Off to me in front of his mate - he looked quite shocked.

    My OH was more supportive but he was an a/hole today and still can't trust him to be a decent person when I feel

    Ill, he usually ends up shouting at me which makes me feel really ill
    Unhappy about something - ditto
    Supported at the time of someone being rude - ditto

    When I do feel happy, he goes all miserable and depressing and claims he can't be expected to match my mood - one time would be nice!! I feel deflated by his behaviour when I feel happy - I might as well be alone for all the companionship I get when he is like this and don't want to keep discussing it - I want to relax and enjoy the nice feeling.

    It makes feel anxious about how I feel all the time and with the disturbed sleep I get from being kept awake or feeling upset or getting me time once he has gone to bed, I can't be expected to be reasonable and nice!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Hi guys!:hello:
    It's only me.wink.gif How is everyone on this typically wet Blank Holiday?rolleyes.gif
    And a huge Tiffy welcome1.gif to our new clan members hazeyjewel (hazey) and thinkginge (thinky)! Thank you for taking the brave step and posting to introduce yourselves.action-smiley-033.gif I'm sure you've both had a lot of really helpful input from the lovely people here and you're more than welcome here to share as much, or as little, as you like. Don't worry - I'm only half as ditzy as I sound,rolleyes.gif, and I look forward to getting to know you both.sLo_hug2.gif

    I've been a very tired Tiffster peeps, (it's a well known fact that Tiffsters have a nap quota they must meet, or their cat-itude goes off the scale - try me! wink.gif), with good reason, as you'll see in Part 8. I have been so busy though. But I sat down yesterday to have a musektunga.gif, and I thought it would be nice to put some organisation into the thread - I've got some grand plans peeps biggrin.gif - and I've started by hanging some appropriate signage on the walls...

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    I think that'll do - for now!:D More later on new staffing duties.whip.gif

    Seriously though, I hope we're all safe and sound and that today will be the best it can be for all of us. I'll try and get back with proper replies later - how lovely to see pc and ettie b again!sport-smiley-001.gif - so hopefully, there'll be something useful for someone.
    Be kind to yourself guys.sLo_hug2.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
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    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
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  • meyore
    meyore Posts: 2,721 Forumite
    Hi everyone, hope you're all doing ok. Beautiful weather here, I hope you all do too and are enjoying it xx

    CCstar, poor poor you, I'm sorry that things have got so bad for you and I hope today is better for you.

    (((HUGS)))

    Xx
    :heartpuls :love: :heartpuls
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Slept OK once I relaxed - not very nice day so far weatherwise - my leg hurts, so resting and keeping amused on the net. Don't want anything to do with the a/hole family members in my home:(

    This is the last place I am living with them - they make me ill
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
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