Depression Support Thread

Tulip

I am off now,

chat tomorrow

Night! Night!


love and light,


Katie xxx

rose07

hazeyjewel

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hope you finding ya chair comfortably, and that sazzie providing ya with a cuppa

take care
xxx

rose07

gillette147 wrote: »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YHoeSVLWdM
:A

:rotfl::rotfl:

I can shake it better than him

How r u badger?

Now i quite like this tune atm ..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tvkh29RKFRY

oh and then theres this one, which you introduced me too......btw i love it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFmFPqp2F90

take care hun

xxx

Horasio

rose07 wrote: »

CCStar sorry to hear your having such a bad day

What part of the country are you in?, is there easy access to places? Maybe you could go for a walk.

It sounds to me like your oh is using you as a way out, he is putting his emotional and mental problems on to you, and because your such a lovely person, you soak them up, sometimes when something is hurting us soo much, we have to leave, just say goodbye, but i agree with diamonds you shouldn have to leave, it should be your oh. if i have been reading your story right you have just moved, and i think it should be a fresh start for you, it sounds as tho you are in a relationship which is damaging to yourself, and its not your fault hun, there are twoo of you in the relationship.

Your ds will always love you, he is your son.

You need to think about what CCStar needs, what she wants.

HTH hun



take care
xxxx

Thank you

I have been a cow on here in the past and think it is because I have lived for so long in this damaging environment. I wanted to leave years ago but money and family commitments stopped me. My first job is find a place to live, the lease isn't long on here anyway, so will have to move but I can't have another place ruined by my OH - he has ruined everything nice for me - I have tried to please everyone but I am still in the wrong. I reckon a very large proportion of my depression is down to him and other things linked to him. I don't feel he values me in a way I need to be valued and have been treated like dirt by him today.

There is a lot planned for this week but at the end of the week, I will suggest he goes and stays with his mother (he doesn't work at the moment, so can go anywhere) and my son goto my mother's, so she can sort him out. I need peace in my home and hope they see why I need the place to myself. It is a big place but they are still disturbing me with noise and atmospheres.

I haven't been treated well by so called friends and my old counsellor said I tested people to see if they really cared about me and most of the time they failed me.

LadyMorticia

Night night Tulip. ********hugs********

xx

rose07

LadyMorticia wrote: »

I keep a diary of my thoughts and the way I feel, so I guess I could maybe show her some of that?
The art thing sounds like a good idea too. I wish I thought of these things.lol.

I have so many things on my mind. Questioning things, memories, self esteem issues. I just feel so screwed up. =/

xx

hi hun

how r u today?

yeah might be an idea to show her what you write, only if you feel comfortable to do so.

Art is a great way to express yourself, brings out our creative sides. Maybe you could do a piece of digital artwork, think about one things are troubling you atm, maybe write down a few words that symbolise how you feel, then create a piece of art to go with your words. And if you want to show it and talk bout it then i will listen

What memories do you get, is it sometimes to painful to remember?

Lol im always questioning things, i wrote a list of questions recently, helps to just write it down hun, even if you cant find the answers, but you can go through each question at a time, instead of it being all jumbled in ya head

take care
xxx

rose07

CCStar wrote: »

Thank you

I have been a cow on here in the past and think it is because I have lived for so long in this damaging environment. I wanted to leave years ago but money and family commitments stopped me. My first job is find a place to live, the lease isn't long on here anyway, so will have to move but I can't have another place ruined by my OH - he has ruined everything nice for me - I have tried to please everyone but I am still in the wrong. I reckon a very large proportion of my depression is down to him and other things linked to him. I don't feel he values me in a way I need to be valued and have been treated like dirt by him today.

There is a lot planned for this week but at the end of the week, I will suggest he goes and stays with his mother (he doesn't work at the moment, so can go anywhere) and my son goto my mother's, so she can sort him out. I need peace in my home and hope they see why I need the place to myself. It is a big place but they are still disturbing me with noise and atmospheres.

I haven't been treated well by so called friends and my old counsellor said I tested people to see if they really cared about me and most of the time they failed me.

WE all need to feel loved and valued hun, something that if we dont get esp when we are young we can fall apart. But as we grow and find someone to share it with we also need the continued support and love from them, and to feel valued. You dont deserve this hun, and it is not your fault. Sometimes people can see a vulnerable soul, and they will latch on to that, they will take advantage of the fact. So its not your fault in any way, as you say you think you illness is down to your oh, well im soz to say hun, but you may not get better unless you leave, as i say sometimes you just have to.

A home is a home for a reason, a place to call your own, even if ya do have kids or anything else. A place to be where you can feel protected and loved by those around you. I think you are right, you need some time and some you space.

Its hard when people fail us, but hun, there are plenty of people out there we just gotta find the right ones

You will get there

x

rose07

Tulip wrote: »

I am off now,

chat tomorrow

Night! Night!


love and light,


Katie xxx

na nite katie

have a good day tomorrow

and take care

xx

Horasio

Thank you for listening and your helpful advice:)

((((Big hugs back to you))))

LadyMorticia

I just won a dance mat on auction on ebay......for £2.20! Woo.

xx