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How do you resist temptation when you're BR?
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Thank you for that reminder that there'll be another bargain along soon.The beauty of PC kit (and I too plan to do a little upgrading in the near future) is that if you hold off now in a few weeks or months you'll get a much better spec for the same price or less. If you think you problem is just lack of memory (for your PC I mean!) well its now dirt cheap, so I'd try that first before succumbing to the temptation of a new shinny PC (which will be rapidly superseded by a even better shinny PC in the near future).
As a general point I too battle with my wants and needs on occasion, sometimes still mixing up which is which!
Computer stuff is the only spending I struggle with - I've got my household budgets sorted out, the bills are all paid on time, the rent is in credit, & I don't buy clothes unless I've got something specific to wear them for & actually need them. I've even got my addiction to chocolate sorted out, so that what was a daily fix is now something I touch maybe once every two weeks at most. But computers have a grip on my eyes that I can't seem to break.
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I didn't see it at first, as I was "somewhere else".So_Sad_Angel wrote: »That would put me off!!!! I`m scared...watch out WDIAG the `debt police` are about!! :rotfl:
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WDIAG how did you get your chocolate addiction under control? It's something I really struggle with.BSCno.87The only stupid question is an unasked oneLoving life as a Kernow Hippy0
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wherediditallgo wrote: »I've got a laptop, which is a year old, & a desktop which is about 9 months old, if that. There's no reason to replace them - it's just more memory they could do with, yet I can't get past wanting a new one. The only justification for an additional one is that the desktop was bought specifically for composing my music & is kept offline deliberately. That means I rely on the laptop for day-to-day computing & I'll freak if I'm ever without it because I have to use it for studying as well. The new pc would cost £250-£280 inc VAT & delivery depending on the configuration, but would have much better memory, storage (up to 1Tb) & better burning capabilities.
Do you know, it's a really tough one to call,
Praxis99's argument about laptops being superseded pretty quick is a good one.
You saying there's no reason to replace - but could do with more memory, makes me think, just buy more memory, admitting you're a bit mad :rotfl:makes me think take the debit card off him (only joking:D). Then saying your on top of your finances make me think, why not...
My conclusion... I think you want it, and agreeing with scarlett, sounds like a good price, plus you can afford it. BUT From the way you're typing you are having a battle with some old demons, and I think you need to open copious cans of wupp !!! on them and heavily beat them down!!!:D... If you still want a laptop in a few months time... then post another thread and we'll say no again!
Cheers
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I made myself stay out of corner shops & newsagents for a month, because chocolates were too near my face for me to resist picking them up with a newspaper etc. I also wouldn't go to the shops in my lunch break. After a month without chocolate, I tried eating some (a lot actually) & felt very sick, so I stayed off it again for a few days. I've had some over Easter, but I felt ill eating it, so I know I won't be eating any more of it for a long time to come.tigerfeet2006 wrote: »WDIAG how did you get your chocolate addiction under control? It's something I really struggle with.
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Me too, never used to be though (well maybe when I was 13 and owed more wages off my paper round than I earned - i used to love twix's and mr.freeze lols (at the same time). I'm currently eating loads of 27p tesco dark digestives (300g packs and 1700kcals). I thought the other day, I could buy 3kg of biscuits for £2.70!! I think somethings wrong with me!:D:D:Dtigerfeet2006 wrote: »WDIAG how did you get your chocolate addiction under control? It's something I really struggle with.0 -
You're right, AmIdone4. I do actually want it, but I also know enough about me & my situation to realise I could do without it & could just upgrade what I've got. I'm not at the point of feeling guilty if I spend the money, because I'm not going to be doing without anything to pay for it, but I also can't stop arguing the toss about whether to order it or not, something that would never have happened before.
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wherediditallgo wrote: »I made myself stay out of corner shops & newsagents for a month, because chocolates were too near my face for me to resist picking them up with a newspaper etc. I also wouldn't go to the shops in my lunch break. After a month without chocolate, I tried eating some (a lot actually) & felt very sick, so I stayed off it again for a few days. I've had some over Easter, but I felt ill eating it, so I know I won't be eating any more of it for a long time to come.

Cheers! Ithink I will have to try that. It's just that it is my "one weakness" and makes me feel good. Also have to tell my DH to stop buying it from Aldi :rolleyes: .BSCno.87The only stupid question is an unasked oneLoving life as a Kernow Hippy0
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