Superpap's positive mutterings about debt/savings...

postingalwaysposting

Well if he wants to come home there is still his old room. The balls in his court, if he doesnt get on then he can come home

Gemmzie

Sorry to hear your having a bad day hun Hold on for the game, the pre-order prices aren't even up on some sites yet, so it might change and then you'd kick yourself, it's not out for ages anyway.

daphne_descends

:grouphug:Pap, you are way too hard on yourself you know. You work hard all week and deserve to spend a bit of money on yourself. Don't beat yourself up about it. And the calories/food thing - you wouldn't be human if you didn't slip up now and then. I go with an 80/20 theory - follow the rules 80% of the time, break them 20% of the time - it works for me, then you don't have to feel guilty when you do break them.

I hope you're feeling a bit better today though

Gemmzie

Found this PAP, seems to be a good price http://hotukdeals.com/item/158757/wii-fit-59-97-tesco-online/

postingalwaysposting

fac, Huge thanks you always put things in perspective for me, I know I am too hard on myself regarding money. I have said before, I would love to just go out on payday and blow all my wages (like many of my friends) but I am not like that ~ but somedays I wish I was Regarding my weight management (its not a diet) yes I am to hard on myself regarding that too. The thing I was angry about was I resisted them all week, I was offered them and said no. Because these were left overs and just kept helping myself, but I guess one slip wont hurt. Havent put anything on or lost anything this week and I am happy about that because I did have a chinese too. :rotfl: I am fine hun thanks, sleep on it all and I came to the conclusion that I work for my money, I have put and extra £100 already this month into savings why cant I use the money I earnt through overtime on me? so read below :rotfl:

I want to know how wee elliot is, by the look of him in your avatar he is growing strong. How does it feel to be a mother? Got used to it now? Take care fac ~ luvs ya

Gem, Huge thanks :j just ordered it :j was going to order another one at £10.97 but I didnt :rotfl: I will wait for it to get even cheaper oh and i went trough quidco too ~ thanks

Have a great day all :j

slowlyfading

Have a great day off Pap, and I echo what everyone else has said - you're doing great with your budgetting etc. don't be so hard on yourself xx

rog2

Have a great day off, PaP, and try not to be too hard on yourself. It was my payday, last Friday, as well, but I only saw my payslip yesterday, and am more than a bit upset that I only took home £605 for all of the hours that I worked last month.
I have asked the personel department if I can see the record of my hours, because I am sure they are deducting an hour for my break, when I don't take one.
Still, on the positive side, I haven't touched my wages yet - I have them paid into my wife's account, so I'm not tempted, but she will give me money as and when I need it.
There you gou, PaP - my little rant over and done with.
Chin up.

postingalwaysposting

sf ~ thanks

rog ~ oh no really! Deffinatly get your hours, you practical live at work especially all those times they call you in :rolleyes: I hope they get it sorted. Ohhh I love hearing others rant, make my day seem a bit normal. Hope you have a great day too :j take care :A

daphne_descends

I can resist chocolate for days and days on end but then when I cave in, instead of having one piece or a small bar, I have to GORGE on it - a family sized bar will do me I keep using the excuse that I'm breastfeeding so need the extra calories... but I really, really don't! I don't think you're alone in going OTT now and then - it's like, we don't have a takeaway often, in fact I can't even remember the last time, but when we have one we have the works. I can see why you were upset though but glad you can draw a line under it, what's done is done.

Hmm am I used to being a mother yet? I'm not sure I ever will get used to it completely - sometimes I look at Elliot and can't quite believe he's mine - I mean that in a good way - he is so bright and perky and beautiful and I made him! (Hmm, ok my OH might have helped, but still!) He is coming on so well, he's almost 5 months now and started rolling, trying to crawl - he can shuffle around but it takes forever and he gets tired and frustrated but he's trying! He 'talks' to me a lot now too, it's usually lots of 'bvvvvvvv' or 'gerrrr' noises but I love every one of them, I never knew how much fun babies were! There's a recent pic here http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y155/fsmos1/DSCN1977.jpg

Gemmzie

Aww fac, he's adorable, blesssssssss. I want one when they are like that

Glad I could help out PAP