Depression Support Thread

rose07

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

hi.
good luck ethel.xx:A
rose....charlie will be 7 in june which is old for a dane....thats why he cant pedal fast!!!!......doesnt do anything fast, come to think of it except wolf food, espec chicken.he drinks loads of water too.hope its not a sign of diabetes,he has a big cyst and a heart murmur:eek: otherwise hes fine:D we gave up the brain search many years ago.:rotfl:
sazbo....its ok.am magnanimous in my BARNSLEY 1-CHELSEA 0:T :T :beer: :j :j :j .....WASNT BOTHERED MUCH ABOUT IT:D
as for allegations re smarties......it was not me, wasnt near them,didnt eat buns,left them with tulip,was out with the dog,or at the dentist, or watching the BARNSLEY:T :T match.thats my alibi and im sticking to it:D
miro...:hello:
lovely day out,been to car boot.....didnt know cars worn boots
going to read paper now.wonder if theres anything about BARNSLEY:T :T WINNING......oops, sorry sazzy.thats the last time i mention BFC:T :T

have a good day, and if you cant be good, be careful.:D
love ilgd xx

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

your really testing the water there... :rotfl:

how r u and your dane today?

my one will be 13 this year :eek:, she is a border collie and is getting old. she has a heart condition, like me, bad hips like me, bad knees like me, and she is deaf, not like me :rotfl:. they do say that when ya soo close to something, ya can feel their pain, well me and my little one share our pain . oh i just gave holly a load of chicken, she wolfed that down, i dont even think she chews it , i took her for a lovely walk today, we went up over the mountain, to a place called the garden of memories, its a little place to sit, with a waterfall, and lake, and lotsa stones for holly to chase as i throw them, least to say i ended up soaked!!!, she did too, but her smile was priceless , then we played football, its amazing how clever she is. she will catch, fetch, hold it.

hope your ok today?
huggles
xxx

rose07

LadyMorticia wrote: »

Heylo everyone. *hugs*

hello there and....



it sounds like you are having a tough time of it lately.

im about if ya ever wanna chat , we are a friendly bunch here, so if ever need some support, or just to let it out, put up ya feet, saz will make ya a cup of tea, and we will chat

as for makin that appointment.....i know you are aprehensive, and understandably so, but in your heart you know you need to do it, so do it, it will be done, and dont worry about what you cant change, sometimes we all need to know we have support, well you have it here hun, whenever ya need, we will help you on your way

huggles
x

rose07

Horace wrote: »

Hello everyone - am still blurred so cant read posts let alone type - just wanted you to know I am still here hoping that you are all ok?

hello horace

sorry things are still blurry for you, but it will get better

and we are here thinking of you

xx

LadyMorticia

rose07 wrote: »

hello there and....



it sounds like you are having a tough time of it lately.

im about if ya ever wanna chat , we are a friendly bunch here, so if ever need some support, or just to let it out, put up ya feet, saz will make ya a cup of tea, and we will chat

as for makin that appointment.....i know you are aprehensive, and understandably so, but in your heart you know you need to do it, so do it, it will be done, and dont worry about what you cant change, sometimes we all need to know we have support, well you have it here hun, whenever ya need, we will help you on your way

huggles
x

Thank you. That really does mean a lot to me.
I have a friend who is being very supportive. She is the only proper friend I have where I live as my others decided not to be friends with me when my mental health worsened. I'm not even sure why I still have the photos of us together on facebook. I think I just treasure the memories.

****hugs****

xx

rose07

cat9586 wrote: »

Hi all, sorry I havent been around much still not coping with things very well. A lot of things have happened since talking to you all last. I found out one cousin has a problem with drugs and another is pregnant. Also my grandad has the same illness that my great nan passed away from last year
Hope you are all ok and huge congrats to Meyore
Catherine

Hi Catherine
how r u feelin today?


im really sorry that your havin a tough time of it hun, but keep going. i understand about the drugs, i have a mate that im soo concerned about, think he is already dead tbh, as the drugs have already got him, i just wish i could do something. but i am here for him, and i will help him the best that i can, just feelin kinda helpless atm. having been there myself, i know its not a good place to be, and we all need support, long as you are there for your cousin , thats all you can do.

have some hugs...





xxx

rose07

LadyMorticia wrote: »

Thank you. That really does mean a lot to me.
I have a friend who is being very supportive. She is the only proper friend I have where I live as my others decided not to be friends with me when my mental health worsened. I'm not even sure why I still have the photos of us together on facebook. I think I just treasure the memories.

****hugs****

xx

i know what you mean, i pushed an awful lot of friends away when i got ill, i isolated myself. its good you have a friend you can confide in, sometimes all we need is just one person. one person is an awful lot, they can doo soo much without realisin it, just the simple things, can make a whole lotta difference. most my closest friends live away. but i know they are there, they are only a text or phonecall away, and they do support me.

memories are very special hun.

if ya ever need to talk

xx

rose07

BigMummaF wrote: »

Hey You Guys...
Just to let you know I'm still around but poota is a PITA....well not Dave so much as the flumping net:mad:

So if you don't see me, consider yourselves lucky:D

Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx

I think that poota a yers, needs a good rosie kickin




:rotfl:

hope your well
much love and huggles
xxxxx

LadyMorticia

rose07 wrote: »

i know what you mean, i pushed an awful lot of friends away when i got ill, i isolated myself. its good you have a friend you can confide in, sometimes all we need is just one person. one person is an awful lot, they can doo soo much without realisin it, just the simple things, can make a whole lotta difference. most my closest friends live away. but i know they are there, they are only a text or phonecall away, and they do support me.

memories are very special hun.

if ya ever need to talk

xx

Yeah. It's very easy to isolate yourself. I was in a bad relationship too and my partner at the time wouldn't let me go out alone and hated my friends and wouldn't let me see them and because I lack self esteem I didn't question it. I just accepted it. It was his idea to move in and I wasn't comfortable with it. I just said yes because I couldn't say no due to confidence issues. Then he went on holiday to Ireland at Christmas and emailed me at New Year to tell me he wasn't coming back. It hurt a lot but it was kind of a blessing in a way. It made me see that what he did to me wasn't healthy.

My friend is in her 30s and has BPD like me. She's like the mother I never had and because we share the same disorder I feel like she understands me better.

Sorry, I'm rambling.lol.

xx

rose07

LadyMorticia wrote: »

Yeah. It's very easy to isolate yourself. I was in a bad relationship too and my partner at the time wouldn't let me go out alone and hated my friends and wouldn't let me see them and because I lack self esteem I didn't question it. I just accepted it. It was his idea to move in and I wasn't comfortable with it. I just said yes because I couldn't say no due to confidence issues. Then he went on holiday to Ireland at Christmas and emailed me at New Year to tell me he wasn't coming back. It hurt a lot but it was kind of a blessing in a way. It made me see that what he did to me wasn't healthy.

My friend is in her 30s and has BPD like me. She's like the mother I never had and because we share the same disorder I feel like she understands me better.

Sorry, I'm rambling.lol.

xx

i know this is gonna sound harsh. but i think him leavin you was the best thing he could have done. i was in a simalair relationship for nearly 3 years, and it destroyed me as a person. sometimes we have to break away from what we are used to, we can get soo used to routines, and the people we share our lives with that we just dont know right from wrong, and we end up getting hurt, i guess the thing to wonder is, whether its worth it.

its good you are now out of that relationship, and can go on knowing that he sint going to hurt you no more

i know what you mean, i have....well had (tricky subject) a friend that i was inseperable from, we were in hospital together, and were like sisters while we were there, we were always arm in arm, ...i remember in our relaxation we would lie next to each other, lookin at the clouds outside going by, and we would cuddle up together, and know we were safe....but i lost her

now im rambling :rotfl:

huggles

x

LadyMorticia

rose07 wrote: »

i know this is gonna sound harsh. but i think him leavin you was the best thing he could have done. i was in a simalair relationship for nearly 3 years, and it destroyed me as a person. sometimes we have to break away from what we are used to, we can get soo used to routines, and the people we share our lives with that we just dont know right from wrong, and we end up getting hurt, i guess the thing to wonder is, whether its worth it.

its good you are now out of that relationship, and can go on knowing that he sint going to hurt you no more

i know what you mean, i have....well had (tricky subject) a friend that i was inseperable from, we were in hospital together, and were like sisters while we were there, we were always arm in arm, ...i remember in our relaxation we would lie next to each other, lookin at the clouds outside going by, and we would cuddle up together, and know we were safe....but i lost her

now im rambling :rotfl:

huggles

x

You're not rambling.

Yeah, I think it was too. At 25 he was a "mummy's boy". I guess I just didn't understand that as my family and I are anything but close but I still think he should have told me while he was here that he hated England.lol. He started calling me "emo" for having Borderline Personality Disorder and started calling me "demon girl". I laughed at the demon girl bit, even though it hurt. Not sure why.

I'm sorry you lost your friend. I'm glad the memories are good ones though I lost one of my friends when we were in primary school and I miss her everyday. We just have to plough on as best we can I guess. ****hugs****

If you ever want to talk or anything then feel free to PM me. I have two ears that are always open to listening.

xx