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  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    Rose, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time at work, my lovely. That woman sounds so horrible, and I don't know what you of all people, would have ever done to her to make her act so mean around you. I have no idea what to suggest to you, as other people have already offered great words of wisdom, but am sending some big (((HUGS))) your way. keep that chin up sweetie xx
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  • slowlyfading
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    Tulip, ooh it sounds like you had a lovely night! You're so brave to get up there and sing to so many people - I would never have the courage - I'd have to be very drunk first ;) hope you have a lovely day today x
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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  • slowlyfading
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    Diamond, how are you today? :) are you doing anything interesting today? x
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  • slowlyfading
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    feeling a bit stupid and ashamed this morning, had a very stressful day yesterday, lots of things didnt go well, and i ended up cutting again

    Oh sweetie, (((HUGS))) I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling low. Have you cleaned them and all that? I know I ask that every time, but I'm just checking :o What happened yesterday to make you feel low? If you don't want to say, don't worry. I'm always here to talk to if you feel down - I'm online alot of the time, just send me a PM if you want before you cut, see if you can avoid it? I have a friend online that I can ring if I feel like cutting, which I find very helpful. Keep that chin up sweetie xx
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  • weegie.geek
    weegie.geek Posts: 3,432 Forumite
    Well like I said last night, I'd probably fall asleep dead early and wake up ludicrously early today. Drinking tea at 8am on a Sunday isn't the way things are meant to be! :)

    I've done a good deed today though, and bought both my mate's albums. I'm sure he'll see about 8p from it, but they're bloody good and deserve to be bought.

    May as well pimp him a bit... ;)http://www.theansion.com/ If you like Mogwai, Sigur Ros and the like, give 'em a bash.
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  • juno
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    Sorry but you completely misunderstood the point. I did the test because I wanted to show how subjective and comparative the testing is. I scored worryingly high on one but no Im not really depressed. At least if I am I am not aware of it and if you are not aware of a problem do you have it?
    No, you completely misunderstood my point :rolleyes:
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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Diamond78 wrote: »
    Hi Hun,
    Just wanted to give you a massive teddybear hug......
    What happened yesterday? Dont feel ashamed or stupid, as that will make you feel 10 times worse. Let it out and hopefully you may feel a little better.

    Sending you lots of love,hugs and kisses xxx
    hi diamond, thanks for the big hugs, really needed it :o took son out shopping, he's 12 with adhd, anyway he threw a tantrum in town and ran off searched for him, but being a busy sat afternoon, decided eventually to go home, in case he tried ringing me, which he did eventually and went to pick him up.
    son later admitted to doing it on purpose to get our attention, i was in town with N. felt so frustrated that he feels he has to go to such extremes to feel wanted, daniel knows how much i love him, but hates me giving any one more attention than him.
    N says daniel should be punished for what he did, i was just glad he was safe, but gave him a talking to. N says daniel spoilt the shopping trip for all of us including N's son. N son does worse behaviour, including destroying expensive things he has been bought at xmas, and nothing is said.
    Danel is my son and i love him to bits, and i dont mind him being punished but there are different ways around it, especially when he knows n son has done worse and gets away with it.
    sick of N saying he wants us all to be a family, when i feel he treats my sons unfairly to his own, think it was more N's behaviour that caused me to cutting. never used to cut before i met him, but i was depressed, maybe the increase in meds or stopping drinkin has led to cutting, i dont know, but one thing i know for sure, is i want to stop, getting scars alreaady and i dont like them
    big hugs
    shaz x
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Oh sweetie, (((HUGS))) I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling low. Have you cleaned them and all that? I know I ask that every time, but I'm just checking :o What happened yesterday to make you feel low? If you don't want to say, don't worry. I'm always here to talk to if you feel down - I'm online alot of the time, just send me a PM if you want before you cut, see if you can avoid it? I have a friend online that I can ring if I feel like cutting, which I find very helpful. Keep that chin up sweetie xx
    hi sf, how are you today hun? cleaned the cuts up, they going to scar tho, made about 40 cuts on myself with the razor, reasons are in above post to diamond, save me typing them again:o
    big hugs
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • gillette147
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    I love you all

    Been a while. Long days at work and illness have drained me.
    I'm doing 13hr door to door days AND I'm now studying too.

    Hi to all the wonderful people on here and a new hi to the newbies.

    Especially Hurry back Ethel....I like women in bed....but not coz of illness xxx



    Oh and AB............p1ss off back to DT. There's plenty of people to argue with back there.
    This is a bloody support thread.
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  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    I hope you are all doing ok. I want to help you so much but I can't do much from here. :( All I can give you all is lots of hugs. I hope that is ok. ****hugs****

    Tidying is almost done. Just changed the bed covers. Double bed covers are significantly harder to put on than single ones sometimes.lol. Hoovered the bathroom and hallway. Now I just need to hoover the bedroom floor soon. I'm going to have a nice relaxing bath later. I need it. I used up all of my honey and milk bubble bath the other day though. :(

    The second series of Gavin and Stacey is starting tonight so I'm looking forward to that. I know it's only a small thing to look forward to but as long as I look forward to something it's all good right? ;)

    Anywho hope your Sunday is going ok.

    Much love
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