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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread!

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  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    am here...sipping non alch beer! Off to bed soon. Keep waking up at 4am & need to catch up...much as I love the dawn chorus wish not uite as much went on feet from my window! Have also noticed that they shut up by 7 when youre meant to be up anyway!!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    so true...blooming birds....

    never got the hang of non alcoholic beer...too close to reality probably...I'm safer with a coffee...
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • ltm07
    ltm07 Posts: 966 Forumite
    ltm07 wrote: »
    Hi all, not had much chance to get on here the last couple of days, but will try to grab an hour later to catch up with your posts. OH & I ended up sharing a can on Wednesday,so she kindly left one for me to drink last night! No more beer in the house til we go shopping Friday & OH working tonight & tomorrow night. This makes it so much easier for me when there's no beer in the house to be honest. Going to wedding do on Saturday night which we are looking forward to. Will make sure I pace myself though so I don't end up getting hammered! Off to pick DD up from school now, all the best to you all!
    Hello again! Went to wedding do last night & had a really good night. Met a workmate & his wife in pub beforehand & had a couple of pints. Was getting a bit worried as I was finishing my drinks quite a bit before him! Got to the do & I was having trouble keeping up with him in the end,mind you that was probably more to do with the chatting I was doing to people:rotfl: ! All in all it was a great night & whilst I did have a few beers & was quite tipsy, I wasn't legless or showing myself up or anything. Nipped up to my Uncle's earlier to drop a birthday card off for his Step-Son. His OH offered us a drink & I had a lager shandy, but ended up finishing the can off! Uncle then gave me another can & it's a good job I was driving or it could have turned into a session! OH bought some wine for tea & I may have a glass or I may stick to lager. Off work this week but won't use it as an excuse to get hammered. Will have a couple of cans here & there but won't go over the top. Hope everyone else is OK & so far it is still 4 NDD's in May! All the best to you all!
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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Hello everyone:hello: :hello: :hello:

    Where have you all gone:confused:

    Hope you are all out there doing good and staying sober.It is six weeks today since I had alcohol so am feeling pretty chuffed.
    Thats 42 days of being un-hung-overed:rolleyes: and it feels great.

    Are you ok Jo.You havn't been around to let us know if you have started on the tablets yet.Have they just made you so tired you have been sleeping all weekend:rotfl:

    Hope everyone else is where they want to be cutting down/giving up.
    Keep up the good work.

    Love Mollypolly:happylove xxxx
    :happylove :happylove
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  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    :hello: :hello::hello::hello::hello::hello::hello::hello:

    I'm still here ! --- well I'm now going to bed so I WAS here!

    Goodnight
    BHB

    Still going without :D
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Well done BHB.

    Night night sleep tight.See you tomorrow.

    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • Why howdy do.

    Hope all is well. BHB and Mollypolly you are doing just great....................where did that time go ?
    I've been reading back through the posts........................it's been a quiet weekend. I think everyone is suffering with PMT............................Pre-Match tension...................he he ! :rotfl:It's all going off on Wednesday.................getting pretty nervous myself. It looks like YM and AB are already lying down in darkened rooms!!:eek:
    I'm on day 24...............and not missing the stuff at all.....................thanks to Allen Carr and you.
    I think I may have cracked it...................how do I know?...................well I went to see my BF on Friday ( a let's give it another go night) and he opened a bottle of wine to celebrate and poured me a glass. BF did know I'd stopped drinking......................I'd spoken at length about the reasons for stopping and that I'd read the Allen Carr book and no longer felt the need to drink. Anyhow to cut a long story short I forced this bloody glass of wine down my neck ( my favourite wine btw) and hated every sip of it. An hour later I'd finished the blasted thing and declined a refill. BF was quite amazed as I can usually guzzle a bottle of wine in that amount of time. I felt amazed to................being in an emotional situation and with my favourite bottle of wine....................and there I was just wanting to be there in the moment............no crutch to lean on.................standing on my own two feet !! :rotfl:And yes ! the big romance is back on....................although it has been a bit of a roller coaster ride....................the pepsi max sort as well.................:eek::eek::eek:
    Have a lovely Monday.
    'May the road rise to meet you and may the wind be always at your back' :D
    xx

    ps I've just realised that I confessed to veering from the straight and narrow. Do you suppose I can stay on day 24? Please? :undecided
  • ageing_biker
    ageing_biker Posts: 353 Forumite
    morning all
    had a few on friday, none since, dont think i'll count days just try to limit myself to once a week, hope everyones well
    smoke free since 16 feb 08
  • ageing_biker
    ageing_biker Posts: 353 Forumite
    mornin nt,
    your right getting a bit nervous now, not seen ym for a while, hope he's ok, determined not to drink on wed come on utd
    smoke free since 16 feb 08
  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    :T:T:T:T Good Job Nearly There! I think we can let you off one little blip. You know you have to buy us all a round if you have two blips on two consecutive days ;):D

    Mollypolly - You are doing great too! It does feel great though doesn't it? I still have the occasional craving though - I know its thirst and sugar levels more than the beer though and as long as I remember that I should be OK. Must get a copy of this book. Is it a heavy read - I'm a little dsloxic and am not a good reader. You can probably tell by my typing and spelling :D

    Anyway Have a great day everyone

    Bit chilly but the sun is out!

    Best Wishes for a great day
    BHB
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
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