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Ungrateful people who dont say thanks

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I spend a great deal of my time on this site mainly helping others. I never until now asked for a thank you, because thankfully most people are grateful, and long may that continue.

However, today I share my knowledge with a user with this post

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=74768

He thanks the first user, and rightly so. I make numerous replies sharing my knowledge as I do video editing. No thanks nothing. So for the first time I ask this person to thank people not just me. He/she thinks I am funny. I have 25 years of experience using computers and its got me know where, no job, !!!!!! all. I do browse these forums, yes for something to do, but sadly I lost faith in some ungrateful arrogant people.

Now don't get me wrong, I see countless thanks in the forums that are thank you just for posting. Now I think help deserves a thank you. But tonight this person after there reply is getting right up my nose.

Is it so much had work for people to say thank you

No longer a user, goodbye folks. PLEASE delete my account. Thank you
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  • elona
    elona Posts: 11,806 Forumite
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    I had a look at the post and can see what you mean.

    Have a thank you from me and don't let it get you down:T
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  • shrek101
    shrek101 Posts: 2,249 Forumite
    Thanks elona. :)

    No longer a user, goodbye folks. PLEASE delete my account. Thank you
  • trafalgar_2
    trafalgar_2 Posts: 22,309 Forumite
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    shrek101 wrote:
    Thanks elona. :)
    and have one from me too ,just cause I like thanking people:D
  • shrek101
    shrek101 Posts: 2,249 Forumite
    Thanks trafalgar

    No longer a user, goodbye folks. PLEASE delete my account. Thank you
  • CrazyChemist_2
    CrazyChemist_2 Posts: 1,565 Forumite
    Have one from me too. You deserve it. even more so for hanging that darn frog!!
  • Webbie_2
    Webbie_2 Posts: 144 Forumite
    Have one from me.
  • shrek101
    shrek101 Posts: 2,249 Forumite
    LOL you can have that frog if you want. ;)
    Have one from me too. You deserve it. even more so for hanging that darn frog!!

    No longer a user, goodbye folks. PLEASE delete my account. Thank you
  • Ted_Hutchinson
    Ted_Hutchinson Posts: 7,142 Forumite
    MDUK wrote:
    You sad Pr**k
    Come on, it doesn't cost anything to say thanks and it's not a big deal.

    If we want folk to give advice freely then expecting a little recognition and ordinary politeness isn't unreasonable.

    Take this example from the Benefitsforum
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=74256
    Serious problem get considered replies from two MSE'ers but no thanks and no come back. It is really too much to expect posters to make an acknowledgement for the time effort and expertise people freely offer?
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  • shrek101
    shrek101 Posts: 2,249 Forumite
    I ain't rising to the occasion. I see plenty of posts with thanks for replying, not for answering a question or giving advice. Now I reserve judgement on any posts like that, but I do feel an answer to a question, whether its what the user likes it or not, deserves a thanks. I gave sound advice, I get nothing for a thank you, but it makes you feel appreciate. With people like that they devalue your advice. But I do feel people like this don't deserve anything, and I certainly got him on my ignore list so hopefully wont see or hear of them again.

    I believe the user is abrupt and replying like that shows just what sort of person they are.

    No longer a user, goodbye folks. PLEASE delete my account. Thank you
  • Liverbird
    Liverbird Posts: 3,130 Forumite
    Fortunately people like that are in the minority on these boards. What an ungrateful t*sser!!
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