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feeling sorry

probably just a ramble more than anything. I know what I need to do just putting words into action.

I have hardly nothing to live on for the next two weeks. bills are paid for this month and living at home so I can eat.

I just feel lonely at the moment, I have no one I can talk to in regards to my debts, its just a case of sitting at home not spending money but knowbody to talk to either.
working the over time at the moment so I can go out next month to meet friends ect, wish I had a mutual dfw friend I could talk to even if its on the internet. :(:(

sorry, this isnt really worth while reading just typing my thoughts I guess and feeling sorry for myself. stuck in a rut., im really looking for something worth living for there doesnt seem to be anything at the moment. All I seem to want to do is drink, which isn't really the answer. wish things would've worked out different.

if anyone wants to chat I have msn or on here is cool, i like the stories on how everyone is doing well. I'll be like that one day I hope. there's allot of helpfull people on here.
Watch this space.... Will update soon!
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  • Hiya sweetie - bills paid! Well that's no small accomplishment! Living at home - does that mean living with parents, or what? Two weeks will go really quickly - and Spring is in the air. Are you working? Do you like reading? You have internet - which is a great benefit. I work full-time and am a MUM with grown-up son, I've got to move to a new flat in two weeks time - and I have no idea where I am going to get the money from!
    I feel better if I get outdoors (when I am not at work) go for a walk - I fill a plastic bottle with water, a little bag with peanuts and raisins and stuff, or a sandwich, and go off walking. Does that sound too old-fashioned and boring? Out and about I often find I at least meet people I can say 'hello' to.
    As you have been on here since October 2007, you must have read lots of stories..... why not spend some time sending encouraging messages to other people?
    There are lots of people on here and they are all happy for you to join in the conversation - get stuck in!:cool:
    Where do you live when you're not living at home?
    Debt free by 22 January 2009 - thanks to an unexpected inheritance - take heart - it DOES HAPPEN!
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    :hello: Hi

    I'm in similar situation so I know how you are feeling, :confused:
    I could tell you my week but that definately won't cheer you up:eek:

    we all have bad days and weeks and while your on here your never alone

    have google for some joke sites or have a look at the funny money thread in the MSE arms,

    take care:grouphug: Have a dodgy 3some hug
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,068 Forumite
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    Saveralot has a bit of thread running on this at the mo

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=733923

    Not that I am recommending that you take SS's advice:D

    This time of year is often a bit hard even when you are not trying to cope with debt as well. Start looking out for places that you can go that cost nothing and do lead you into temptation or envy.

    Also, if you have to pay transport costs, is there a day ticket that means you can do something after work, or at the weekend, or somewhere near work that would be interesting?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Hi artnoble, sorry you are feeling a bit low.

    I just wondered if you do things like Pigsback, Quidco, surveys, the free bingo sites etc, to bring in a bit of extra money?

    If you feel you have no-one to talk to, why don't you join in the daily chat threads on here? They're very friendly, and a bit more 'gentle' than the Saturday night party threads. It's a great way to get to know people.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • hi hope you are feeling better. I've just but some bits on ebay for the first time, hope I get something from it! Took me ages! All on my own tonight as well, and all day in work today as well, but got a terrible cold so not really bothered!! Chin up xx
    Compulsive Spendaholic #15
  • artnoble
    artnoble Posts: 879 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    bountiful wrote: »
    Hiya sweetie - bills paid! Well that's no small accomplishment! Living at home - does that mean living with parents, or what? Two weeks will go really quickly - and Spring is in the air. Are you working? Do you like reading? You have internet - which is a great benefit. I work full-time and am a MUM with grown-up son, I've got to move to a new flat in two weeks time - and I have no idea where I am going to get the money from!
    I feel better if I get outdoors (when I am not at work) go for a walk - I fill a plastic bottle with water, a little bag with peanuts and raisins and stuff, or a sandwich, and go off walking. Does that sound too old-fashioned and boring? Out and about I often find I at least meet people I can say 'hello' to.
    As you have been on here since October 2007, you must have read lots of stories..... why not spend some time sending encouraging messages to other people?
    There are lots of people on here and they are all happy for you to join in the conversation - get stuck in!:cool:
    Where do you live when you're not living at home?

    hiya. :)

    im at home with mom at the moment, parents split not so long house seems a different place. Think the internet is my only source of sanity at the moment.

    My laptop broke last week so I had to dig my old pc out. Just about loads up this website up which im glad about.

    I'm glad the weather is good at the moment. I have been for a few walks in the last few days its not to old fashoned for me. I'm glad of it because I have to walk to and from work as not got anything for bus fair.

    Reading is great I can really get into it, not like a film i don't really pay attention to the tele that much mind always wonders.

    I guess Im quite gready really I have nobody who looks up to me and only have to look after myself. just have allot of worries my job is being moved to india next month so I need a new one. I hate looking i swear i cant imagine me having an interview.
    Watch this space.... Will update soon!
  • G-G_4
    G-G_4 Posts: 3,090 Forumite
    Hey there..

    Hope you are feeling a bit better... :kisses3: :kisses3: have some kisses.. :p

    What kind of stuff do you like doing? Apart from having a drinky :beer: ...

    Have you checked out the freebies board for free cinema tickets? I go about twice a week for free.. and you can raid the food at home for cinema snacks etc.. take a mate along for free.. well worth it if there is a cinema near you..

    Cheer up though, things do seem crap some days.. maybe you are going through some depression at the moment..?

    Take care mate.. x
    :D BSC Member 155 :cool:
  • G-G_4
    G-G_4 Posts: 3,090 Forumite
    Tell us about yourself then, (if you want to that is)...

    girl / boy, what do you do for a job, any hobbies? how old r u?

    sorry for all the questions..

    Sorry bout your mum and dad, mine split when I was 12, and yeah it's hard.. x
    :D BSC Member 155 :cool:
  • artnoble
    artnoble Posts: 879 Forumite
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    :hello: Hi

    I'm in similar situation so I know how you are feeling, :confused:
    I could tell you my week but that definately won't cheer you up:eek:

    we all have bad days and weeks and while your on here your never alone

    have google for some joke sites or have a look at the funny money thread in the MSE arms,

    take care:grouphug: Have a dodgy 3some hug

    haha thank you.

    I love trying to make people laugh, even if its at my own expence. just dont seem to be able to at the moment. thanks for your reply. I'll check google out.
    Watch this space.... Will update soon!
  • artnoble
    artnoble Posts: 879 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    RAS wrote: »
    Saveralot has a bit of thread running on this at the mo

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=733923

    Not that I am recommending that you take SS's advice:D

    This time of year is often a bit hard even when you are not trying to cope with debt as well. Start looking out for places that you can go that cost nothing and do lead you into temptation or envy.

    Also, if you have to pay transport costs, is there a day ticket that means you can do something after work, or at the weekend, or somewhere near work that would be interesting?

    hey.

    I'll take alook at that thread see if I can get any tips.

    I do like to go to the gym which I class as free I guess. It is £29.00 a month but I do budget for that.

    I also support our local football team which is £6.00 a match, I guess thats not bad over a week. kind of abandonded supporting man utd. I simply can't afford to so I guess I am an arm chair fan now. but i do like my arm chair.
    Watch this space.... Will update soon!
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