MOT and twins - Start of our new life!

mumoftwins

chevalier wrote: »

Well of course you are impatient. Hell we all are. WE ALL want you to be settled, less stressed, hell we want you to be happy. You have been through so much cr*p the last couple of years, that it is no wonder that your are sorted.

Once you have a home that you can be sure isn't going to be snatched away any time soon, you can do all the other things, like sort out any debts (not to LL at first but any others), sort your health out via the CPN and then physical stuff, and maybe look at about page 20 when I suggested taking the slime bags who you caught taking back handers to a tribunal for unfair dismissal.

So yes you have every right to be want things to hurry up.
chev

Thanks Chev said very humbly!

mumoftwins

Felt fine this morning - all bright and breezy, but have been so ratty with the twins since they came home from school and then burst into tears when I was trying to explain to I-T how I felt.

I'm so up and down at the moment and I don't like it. Will I ever be 'normal' again?

Every night I go to bed and dream about the house - its driving me mad!

Off to bed now to read and unwind, so will probably be on here really early again tomorrow!

bringmeshoes

MOT of course you are going to have up and down days, especially what you have been through over the past couple of years. It's probably healthier that you are letting it out rather than keeping it all bottled up until you explode.
i know exactly what you mean about feeling fine one minute and then bursting into tears i've been like this since i had an operation in october, even the maury povich dna test results get me going now :rotfl:

Wol2

Hi MOT

Oh sweetheart!!.....You have been through so much...and there may still be times when you feel vulnerable, especially since you are still in limbo..(not a nice place for anybody.....!!)

But if, when you have a down day, you do not go quite so down as you used to..and that certainly seems to be the case from your posts....that is REAL progress :T ...and you are completely justified in patting yourself on the back...

It is...and will continue to..get better.. You have made such progress over the last couple of months since i started logging on.. :j so well done you..:T ..stick with it..and take heart...the end is nearly in site.

We're all still here with you....and for you.....and willing you forwards..tears or no tears!!! (and If you need any more boxes of Kleenex I'm happy to send you some...promise I haven't used them first!!)

So well done flower...stick with it...I'll see you soon...but I'm afraid the marigolds wont have fur on them (guinea pigs have refused to donate)!!

Much love
Wol2
xxx

ampersand

'.......... will probably be on here really early again tomorrow!'
V. glad to see you're not, mot:D.
And wol2, too.
Just popping outside to see if duvet cover is anywhere within a hundred leagues of washing line.
...all bunched up, sopping wet. Now secured with 5 pegs and whirling like a dervish.

mumoftwins

ampersand wrote: »

'.......... will probably be on here really early again tomorrow!'
V. glad to see you're not, mot:D.
And wol2, too.
Just popping outside to see if duvet cover is anywhere within a hundred leagues of washing line.
...all bunched up, sopping wet. Now secured with 5 pegs and whirling like a dervish.

Take you it found your duvet then;) !

Slept for 8hrs last night - now that is amazing! But what a blustery day wet day it is here too A, don't think I will be venturing outside to hang washing though!

Going to visit T&D today whilst twins are at school and I'm not going to ring CAP I will let him ring me to say TA is ready for signing.

Hope you all have a good day xx

blue_monkey_2

Hi Hun,

Glad to see you are still hanging in there. Gosh, it feels like so much longer than 3 weeks too!! and am only on this end of the thread!

I hope your hip and toe are feeling much better now, have so much to sort out this end that I *should* be doing that and I have vowed to take the rest of the weeks off of the boards last night...... as nothing is getting done.

I'll be checking in to see if you hear anything today. Only a few more days to go, I'd be worried if you were happy all the time in all honesty, I know exactly how it feels and I am the same with the kids, it is normal so please do not feel bad, more so in your case - up and down days are to be expected so cry when you can, I promise it will make you feel a whole lot better than keeping those feelings locked up inside waiting to burst.

Love n hugs

BM xx

Wol2

Hi MOT

Just popped in to give you a big hug (arms length one as stinky cold all day!!....need more Kleenex!!)


love
Wol2
xx

mumoftwins

Thanks for wise words Bm and for looking in on me Wol2 - sorry to hear you're not well and hope you feel better soon xx

Not heard anything today, drove past the house on way to see D&T and nothing was going on and it was the same after school when I drove past again with the twins.

Hey ho

ampersand

Hope D is recovering sensibly still - and you, too, mot - and you, too, wol2.
Anyone else feeling mizz?
I'm au lit - exhausted.
Tomorrow is another day - just to close on a bit of UnOriginalia.
We'll all be better soon.