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๐ Happy Days in our Golden Years ๐
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Aww shucks @Humboldt - that's a lovely thing to say ๐Humboldt said:Morning @Fortune_Smiles just popping by to say how much I love your positive, proactive, approach to the New Year.ย As always, a true inspiration, thank you for sharing.
Fortune x
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Working at Living5 -
Lovely goals for the year Fortune and agree that making positive time away from the stresses etc. is a very good idea - coming from someone who's been in the depths of it, having some breathing space really does make a difference!Emergency Fund - ยฃ8572.39 / ยฃ10,000 :: Mortgage OP 2025 - ยฃLISA 24/25 - ยฃ3200 / ยฃ4000 :: NSD 2025 - 2 / 150 :: Books Read: 1 / 52 :: Decluttering - 4 / 1000Engaged 9th December 2010 :: Married 29th October 2015 :: Bought a House 13th January 20174
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Well @Fortune_Smiles you're about to give him a crash course in reality!ย Ably seconded by a magistrate.ย Nose firmly glued to your diary for further particulars love Humdinger xxย4
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Do you know, just writing it down as an aim has made a positive difference.ย And I keep reminding myself to get some perspective - no one is going to die, we won't lose the house, it will be galling to lose the money we've spent or have to pay more but we could live with that.ruby_eskimo said:Lovely goals for the year Fortune and agree that making positive time away from the stresses etc. is a very good idea - coming from someone who's been in the depths of it, having some breathing space really does make a difference!
Thank you for your support @ruby_eskimo.Humdinger1 said:Well @Fortune_Smiles you're about to give him a crash course in reality!ย Ably seconded by a magistrate.ย Nose firmly glued to your diary for further particulars love Humdinger xxย
Thank you @Humdinger1.ย I won't be able to say much here until it's all over but I promise to give the full T after the Court Hearing.
Fortune x
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Fortune - have you got the impression that no-one has challenged builder's shoddy business practices before?ย Is that why he's spouting nonsense, as no-one has ever queried/pushed back?ย All power to your elbow for not capitulating - but that doesn't mean it's not a pita waiting for it all to play out.ย Thank heavens you've other things to occupy and delight you, and that this isn't occupying all your available bandwidth.ย ย
Greying XGrocery Spend June 2026ย ยฃ81.46/ยฃ225
GC May 2026 ยฃ225.53/ยฃ200ย
GC April 2026 ยฃ199.95/ยฃ200ย
Non-food spend June 2026 ยฃ36.28/ยฃ80
Bulk Fund 2026 Month 6/12 - ยฃ9.98/ยฃ87.56 (reducing balance - start ยฃ120 pa)
""Mother Nature don't draw straight lines
The broken moulds in a grand design
We look a mess but we're doing fine
We're card carrying lifelong members
Of the union of different kinds..."
"Union of the Different kinds" -ย R Christie & T Gilbert,ย Fisherman's Friendsย4 -
So Far So Good ๐
We're nearly at the end of the week and so far so good.
Healthย ๐งโโ๏ธ- I've been to 3 gym classes this week and I did a yoga session at home this morning ๐ย I may even do another yoga session tomorrow ๐
- 3lbs have been lost already which brings me back to my pre-Christmas weight (which is still too much but progress is progress ๐)
- I've been notified of Court action.ย This is (weirdly) a great relief.ย I think because it means I won't ever have to deal directly with bully builder again
- there's been a little unexpected expenditure.ย Mr F decided to lay a hedge so some stakes and binders were required
- Handyman is going off travelling from March so we are going to get him to do some additional dates for us while he's still available.ย I think we're going to try and keep on top of things ourselves until he gets back.
- I have started on a new top.ย The pattern and material were bought before Christmas but I haven't had time to make it up before now.ย It's a stretch fabric so I am using my overlocker - for only the 3rd time ๐ฒย My first two attempts weren't entirely successful but this make seems to be going better.ย I've only the cuffs and hems to do so am going to attempt those this afternoon
- I've been out twice this week - a WI meeting and a Quiz Night.ย I bought a raffle ticket at the WI meeting and picked a couple of things up in the book and present exchange which I need to give small donation for.ย I bought a coffee at the Quiz Night but was given a 10% off voucher to use in January which will offset this as we have a meal there booked.ย We came 2nd this time but came 1st at the previous Christmas Quiz ๐.ย As Mr F was on the team that time, we won two ยฃ10 vouchers for the venue.ย We've put those towards another night out.
- I've given myself a pep talk about putting the legal shenanigans into perspective and I've had a chance to talk to the experts so am feeling a little less stressed about things.ย The Yoga will help too and I'm focussing on self-care in all things.
Fortune x
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The Worst News
Our little granddaughter who was due in May didn't make it. We're heartbroken.
Fortune x
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Working at Living5 -
Oh Fortune, what a horrible time for you all. Sending a virtual hug ๐ซ
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Oh, that is the worst news. Hugs to you, and of course DS, DD-i-L and Fortunate Grandbaby XXX
Thinking of you all X
Grocery Spend June 2026ย ยฃ81.46/ยฃ225
GC May 2026 ยฃ225.53/ยฃ200ย
GC April 2026 ยฃ199.95/ยฃ200ย
Non-food spend June 2026 ยฃ36.28/ยฃ80
Bulk Fund 2026 Month 6/12 - ยฃ9.98/ยฃ87.56 (reducing balance - start ยฃ120 pa)
""Mother Nature don't draw straight lines
The broken moulds in a grand design
We look a mess but we're doing fine
We're card carrying lifelong members
Of the union of different kinds..."
"Union of the Different kinds" -ย R Christie & T Gilbert,ย Fisherman's Friendsย4 -
Sending a huge hug where words won't do xoxox
4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)(With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)Original End Date - Sept 2041 New projection - Sep 2038 (reduced by 3 years)4
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