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Partner doesn't want to replace double glazing

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  • HampshireH
    HampshireH Posts: 4,908 Forumite
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    Perhaps OPs Partner has found the post. But yes further replies all link back to the original 
  • booneruk
    booneruk Posts: 707 Forumite
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    Certain search engines are still showing at least part of the opening post. It seems op has form for doing this previously (thread history)


  • Emmia
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    edited 20 June at 9:27AM
    I wonder if there ought to be forum functionality that automatically quotes the first post on the first reply to that post?
  • mark_cycling00
    mark_cycling00 Posts: 760 Forumite
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    Thank you for your understandable reactions.

    It may not be obvious but before posting this thread I tried to delete all other threads that contained any information that could give away my identity, location etc. but left those that did not

    Since posting the thread my partner had become quite secretive and had "hair appointments" where no hair was cut and so on.

    So something is up, possibly the divorce lawyers.

    I reckoned that changing the title to something really mundane would hide it better than changing it to "deleted ' or something. 

    there must be lots of similar people who want some tricky advice but not have it on the internet fof everymore
  • HampshireH
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    Have you considered actually just calling her out on it?
  • Emmia
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    Thank you for your understandable reactions.

    It may not be obvious but before posting this thread I tried to delete all other threads that contained any information that could give away my identity, location etc. but left those that did not

    Since posting the thread my partner had become quite secretive and had "hair appointments" where no hair was cut and so on.

    So something is up, possibly the divorce lawyers.

    I reckoned that changing the title to something really mundane would hide it better than changing it to "deleted ' or something. 

    there must be lots of similar people who want some tricky advice but not have it on the internet fof everymore
    Have you sought legal advice, to prepare for the possibility of divorce/separation?

    Is it possible she's having an affair, to get pregnant?

    Personally I think you should take advice of your own, and be ready to call her bluff.
  • QrizB
    QrizB Posts: 17,623 Forumite
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    edited 23 June at 10:29PM
    I've just spotted this thread, was quite looking forward to a discussion of double glazing, and now I'm very confused!
    OP I hope everything works out for you and your family.
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