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mattojgb said:Keep_pedalling said:
I agree about the trust, I don’t think one has been created but legal advice needs to be sort especially once charities have visibility of the will they are more likely to pursue it than the her partners children.
In terms of executing a deed of variation, the presence of the charity does complicate things. They may be prepared to accept a legacy now rather than wait, and, if there are assets to cover such, it may be possible to set up a standard IPDI trust on the deceased's half of the house for the benefit of the children.0 -
Flugelhorn said:mattojgb said:Keep_pedalling said:
I agree about the trust, I don’t think one has been created but legal advice needs to be sort especially once charities have visibility of the will they are more likely to pursue it than the her partners children.
In terms of executing a deed of variation, the presence of the charity does complicate things. They may be prepared to accept a legacy now rather than wait, and, if there are assets to cover such, it may be possible to set up a standard IPDI trust on the deceased's half of the house for the benefit of the children.0 -
critchley said:Flugelhorn said:mattojgb said:Keep_pedalling said:
I agree about the trust, I don’t think one has been created but legal advice needs to be sort especially once charities have visibility of the will they are more likely to pursue it than the her partners children.
In terms of executing a deed of variation, the presence of the charity does complicate things. They may be prepared to accept a legacy now rather than wait, and, if there are assets to cover such, it may be possible to set up a standard IPDI trust on the deceased's half of the house for the benefit of the children.
Secondly, YOU don't pay any inheritance tax on this. This amount comes out of your partners estate, so doesn't have to be paid until after probate when the money is available. Nobody will chase you for the money, it's the estates responsibility. Are you named as the executor of the will? If nobody is named then legally his son should be executor as his nearest relative, but if the son doesn't want to do it you can be appointed if you want1 -
Is the flat downstairs the other property your partner owned that you originally referred to? Was the mortgage ever in joint names? It would be unusual nowadays for a property and a mortgage to be in different names, (i.e. if the mortgage is in a single name so is the ownership and similarly for joint) but that wasn't always the case. What made you think it was jointly owned? The not being able to dispose without consent clause is typical of properties owned as tenants in common - presuming there are in fact two owners.
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I agree with @mattojgb the consent clause is usually when a property is owned as tenants in common.
get the land registry details downloads - I think the last time I looked it was about £30 -
You are not responsable for paying IHT the estate is. Please take legal advice as a matter of urgency. If your worse fears that the will is invalid are true (and I think that is probable not correct, then you need to know as soon as possible. If it is invalid then you don’t need to do anything as you won’t be the executor so you can leave that to others. If it is valid then you can opt to pay IHT in instalments which means you only need to find 10% for the first instalment. The rest can be paid once you have sold the downstairs flat.1
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Flugelhorn said:I agree with @mattojgb the consent clause is usually when a property is owned as tenants in common.
get the land registry details downloads - I think the last time I looked it was about £3Signature removed for peace of mind1 -
I downloaded copies of the Title Register in 2022 (I paid for it) and it says that that the Proprietors are him and me. This is what made me think that we were tenenat's in common because there was also a clause that said "RESTRICTION: No disposition by a sole proprietor of the registered estate (except a trust corporation) under which capital money arises is to be registered unless authorised by an order of the court" which was the way I found out that we were tenants in common and not joint tenants. They weren't dated but could have been when my partner moved in with me and bought a share in the property after we'd been living together for a while. Probably in the 80s. We'd been together for 40 years.
But then we had his old briefcase out today and there was a formal looking copy of the Completion of Registration which clearly states that only he is the Registered Proprietor and the only mention of me is in a small clause that says RESTRICTION: Except under an order of the registrar no disposition by the proprietor of the land is to be registered without the consent of XXX XXXX (me) of (address). It's dated 27th April 2004.
I presume the one on official paper might have been when he remortgaged this property in order to buy the downstairs flat. It was all done very quickly but it's a long story how we managed to secure the other flat for half it's value. It had belonged to my mum and her husband (who had raised money on it by selling it for half it's value with a lease for life) and we just didn't want to have strangers living there. We tried to inform the person who had bought it but no trace of her. After nearly 2 years I finally found out that she had died owing the investment money to a bank who agreed to sell it to us for what she owed them) I don't seem to have the original conveyancing deeds for either flat.
I think it's pretty clear that because he remortgaged this flat in his own name I got knocked out of it! So it's all looking a bit bleak I think you'll agree.
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critchley said:
I think it's pretty clear that because he remortgaged this flat in his own name I got knocked out of it! So it's all looking a bit bleak I think you'll agree.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:You are not responsable for paying IHT the estate is. Please take legal advice as a matter of urgency. If your worse fears that the will is invalid are true (and I think that is probable not correct, then you need to know as soon as possible. If it is invalid then you don’t need to do anything as you won’t be the executor so you can leave that to others. If it is valid then you can opt to pay IHT in instalments which means you only need to find 10% for the first instalment. The rest can be paid once you have sold the downstairs flat.
And yes FlorayG I am the Executor along with his sister who has just spent a whole year dealing with her other brother's estate and said she doesn't want to get involved and will sign a form to say this. Can't say I blame her, she's had a nightmare trying to sell his property and being let down over and over. My Partner hasn't had any contact with his children for many years and deliberately left what I thought was anything that was left after my death or if I predeceased him between my son and grandson and several charities but I accidentally referred to it as the Trust Fund ... duh.0
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